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My best friend is a doormat?

My best friend is very timid and shy. I didn't know we had the same interests until last год because of this reason.
People pick up on her and she does nothing in response. I ask her why and she tells me she doesn't want to get in an argument. (Like an argument is going to kill her, jeez)
Today, a guy snatched her homework from her hand but she kept sitting on her chair, looking frustrated, doing absolutely nothing. If it wasn't for me, he would've ripped her paper to pieces.
She insists she's fine with the bullying and our other best friend doesn't care much about this situation. What do I do? How can I help her?
 herpinaderpson posted Больше года
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
Well...i say Ты tell her that power comes from the inside of you. if shes all timid then she needs to lern to stand up for herself. And also she needs to be ALOT еще friendly. If she doesnt talk to anyone the bullies will get worse! And is your friend a Christian? i think Id know why shes all timid if shes a God belever.
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posted Больше года 
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No, I wouldn't have befriended her if she was religious.
herpinaderpson posted Больше года
princess_lucy03 said:
Ur friend must really be a timid one. Be reasonable with her.Only when she stands up for herself will ppl stop bulling her. Maybe she is just scared of what ppl might think about her if she argues или yells on someone, but bullying can be stopped ONLY IF SHE STOOD UP FOR HER. U helping her will only make things worse, ppl will get to her even еще when u are not around,but I bet u, she must ABSOLUTELY not fine with bullying,
If she doesn't fend for herself now, then how can she protect herself in future,
So a few times try to reason with her and make her act to help herself
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posted Больше года 
Catherine51197 said:
Keep sticking up for her & just be there for her. Also, it might be good to hang out with her as often as Ты can (every день if possible) & on weekends, do something together that Ты both like, because Ты have the same interests (if Ты include her in your plans/social groups, it might give her a bit еще confidence). Be a good friend :).
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