Аниме like pandora hearts black butler или d gray man

What about Ao no Exorcist..
It has demons,exorcists and demons.
Its like D.Gray-man because theres exorcists :3

Makai Ouji Devils And Realist *pic*
Ao No Exorcist
Beelzebub
07 Ghost
Kyou Kara Maou

All of those pretty much fall under what you're asking for.

Kaze no Stigma is a good Action, and Romance, also trouble between family

(MY вверх PICK)Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood is awesome and has romance in it :)

Soul Eater (Not really Romance)

Death Note is FREAKING AWESOME

Vampire Knight
Ao no Exorcist.

Наруто shippuden. bleach & one piece...........

all of things that u mentioned r there in these 3 animes.............
there r the best of all..........its a bit long anime...but u will luv it for sure u will get addicted...............there is
hot guys *important*
comedy and romance
demons
not too much normal life (slice of life) *important
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all these conditions are there in these 3 animes.........heh eh ehe
comparing these 3 those animes u wacthed soooooo far r nothing........he he he eh e

InuXBokuSS - for the romance, comedy, demons etc
No. 6 - To toss in Shounen-Ai
Hakuouki (Демоны бледной сакуры) - for seriously hot guys :), demons, romance

Try Doki Doki Pretty Cure! It does have a hot guy, but he's a supporting character, it's funny, and is awesome!