do Ты think Buffy was in Любовь with Spike

joss never confirmed it thats why there are so many arguments between bangel and spuffy fans, joss never gives us an answer on them couples!

JW сказал(-а) that Buffy was in Любовь whit Spike the moment their hands clasped.he laso sid that Bangel's relationship ended in the graveyard and that the cokkie speach was only a hope for the bangels and that the man in Buffy's life was Spike.:)

Buffy definitely was in Любовь with Spike. She chose him over and over again. When Xander was strung up by demon Ashanti and they (Robin, Spike and Buffy) found him...during the fight Spike got knocked down. Buffy chose to see if Spike was okay before checking on Xander who had Остаться в живых a lot of blood. There is the one incident when Caleb destroyed Xander's eye...Buffy was very emotional and physically distant...but when it came to Spike she was animated and hands-on even putting herself in danger. She basically defied everyone and everything when it came to Spike. If that’s not being "in love" I don't know what is. When Giles was delaying Buffy in the cemetery so Robin could kill Spike…Buffy admitted that if she had to do it all over again she would let Dawn die. Giles tried to point out that she should do the same for Spike. She reacted by killing the vamp and racing over to save Spike…she had tears in her eyes. Then she threatens Robin…saying “most importantly I will let him kill you”. All this she did under the guise of needing Spike because he is the strongest warrior…bull…she wouldn’t let Spike leave when he wanted to. Even when she had another option (Angel) she chose Spike. She basically chose Spike and his wellbeing before anyone else.

@Isabellas_girl: I also want to add Buffy never answered Энджел when he asked her if she was in Любовь with Spike...she totally ignored that question. If she wasn't she would have сказал(-а) no. However, she went to say that Spike wasn't her boyfriend but he was in her heart. The night Buffy and Spike spent cuddling brought them close...they both had the closeness issues. I think when Spike asked "were Ты there with me" what he was really asking her was if she felt what he felt...the closeness.

she never told Riley that she loved him, not once, and she prefered Spike over Энджел the "love of her life"

I personally do not think Spike and Энджел were similar at all. The only thing they have in common besides being in Любовь with Buffy is having a soul. To me Spike showed human traits whether he was soulless или ensouled. Ты cannot say that about Angel...when he was soulless he was twisted, evil and a bada$$. I am not saying Spike did not have his bad side but he also had a good side. Spike got his soul back to get the girl...Angel's soul was forced on him as punishment by the gypsies…he never wanted it. Spike's demeanor was basically the same with или without a soul. Angel's demeanor was день and night with или without a soul respectively. A soulless Spike fell in Любовь with Buffy. I couldn’t see a soulless Энджел falling in Любовь with Buffy.

Spike and Энджел are nothing alike. Sure there is the soul and them both being Вампиры but they are completely different. Spike was еще human the Энджел was in a way. Sure Энджел didnt drink human blood like Spike did but Spike was еще human. And I agree with laydydee Spike got his soul for Buffy, Энджел didnt. Энджел had a soul but even with it he was dark. Spike without a soul was evil but in a different way. He also had times when he worked with the scoobies. I also agree with Spike being souless and loving Buffy, Энджел would have still gone after Darla if he had a soul, Spike was going to kill Dru to Показать Buffy what he felt for her. Ding Ding Ding We have a winner. Spike loved her maybe not as much as Энджел in the normal way but just as much in his own way.

I believed Buffy was in Любовь with Spike. She was in denial...she protested too much. If Энджел was the one...the Любовь of her life...why didn't she take the opportunity to spend the night или a few hours with him when he delivered the amulet. She hadn't seen him in a while...she was about to go to war with badass the First evil and could potentially die. So I would have expected her to spend some time with Angel. Sex was out but cuddling was in...like the night she spent with Spike. Instead she gave Энджел the cookie dough speech and sent him on his way...telling him to be ready if she doesn't succeed. Come on...that was the moment she truly chose Spike over Энджел in her сердце and Энджел knew it. She then went Главная and spent the night with Spike...I deduced they made Любовь because the First as Caleb сказал(-а) "why aren't Ты asleep in your dead lovers' arms"...not dead ex lover или dead former lover. She finally admitted her Любовь for Spike because it was undeniable. When their hands clasped both Buffy and Spike knew she was in Любовь with Spike without a shadow of a doubt. The flames that engulfed their hands were symbolic of their souls coming together. The look on Spike’s face…Buffy was panicked and concerned telling Spike he did enough…it’s time to go. The moment they touched it all changed…Spike’s eyes went to their hands…Buffy swallowed and her face became calm. Buffy couldn’t deny the Любовь she felt for Spike anymore so she сказал(-а) “I Любовь you”…that is when Spike pulled a Buffy by responding with "no Ты don't". Those are the same words she used when he professed his Любовь for her even though she knew damn well he was telling the truth. He thanked her...but at that time it was not necessary for her to say it even though it was something he wanted to hear for a long time...they were feeling it. I think Buffy would have stayed with him till the end if they had not been forced apart and if Spike hadn't сказал(-а) "now go". He was at peace…he wanted to be her champion…her hero…the man she believed him to be…the man she finally admitted she was in Любовь with. He wanted one of them to live.

simple case of mind over matter