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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months назад he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking еще then. The closer we got as Друзья the еще I liked him. Two months назад I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted Больше года
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abs07 said:
Have Ты asked God to give Ты peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have Ты tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If Ты have & he gave/gives Ты the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If Ты really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if Ты need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted Больше года
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Well just be Друзья with him if he doens't want to дата Ты not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's Друзья with Ты then who knows mayba he will start to like Ты back ♥
huddygirl2 posted Больше года
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. Ты have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out или not, Ты will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted Больше года
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thank Ты both, that really helped me:)
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nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken сердце but keep prayihng and get support from your Друзья is the only Совет i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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thanks for the advice:)
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LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to Ты after Ты сказал(-а) Ты like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes Ты too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. или maybe he only liked Ты as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him или confront him Далее time Ты go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if Ты offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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thanks for the Совет but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still Актёрское искусство that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, или isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
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