I have a big problem. I just need some good enough Ответы или information on how I cope with this.

I'm sorry for what you're going through; I'm still trying to get through depression as well. It's okay to cry; it's actually good for you. And nothing's wrong with listening to a sad song, but Ты don't want it to make Ты sad all the time. Try listening to other songs; happy songs too. Write down how Ты feel in a journal. Write down/ think about things that make Ты happy and smile. Look at old pictures that make Ты happy. Think about all the fun things Ты will do/ can do in the future. And always know there is hope. No suffering lasts forever. I don't know if it is God или Satan Ты hear, but your family members aren't going to die if Ты listen to a song. God wants Ты to be happy, but He's not going to punish Ты if you're not. Above all, just pray and spend time with God. And know He's got Ты in His arms, protecting and loving you.

I agree with what para-scence said. However, I don't think it's God that is saying those things to you. God wouldn't do that. He's not a God that enjoys inflicting pain, even though He does allow bad things to happen in our lives to bring us closer to Him.

Crying is essential in life. It's actually very healthy. Humans need to cry in order to let out built-up emotions, because it's not good to keep emotions bottled up inside.

Did Ты know that everyone goes through a thing called spiritual warfare? Spiritual warfare occurs when one is trying to decide right from wrong and what to believe and what not to believe. It's a tug-of-war kind of situation, where God is trying to lead Ты one way, and Satan is trying to lead Ты another way.

Now, that being said, I want Ты to think about this. In one way или another, Satan tries to lead Ты down the wrong path. He fills your сердце with doubt. He tries to corrupt your mind with fear in order to turn Ты away from God. If he sees even a little bit of doubt in your heart, he'll try to grab onto that and use it to his advantage to lead Ты astray.

Satan does this because he knows that if he can make Ты doubtful или scared, he can control Ты and lead Ты away from God. Don't let him do that. This fear may be Satan's way of manipulating you. Don't give him that kind of power. Read the Bible. Put on the Armor of God and fight Satan off.

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This is all a part of spiritual warfare. Everyone has gone through it, and I have, too. Remember that you're not alone. God is looking out for you. He's not going to kill a family member of yours just because Ты want to listen to a sad song. That's Satan trying to fill your сердце with paranoia, in the hopes that you'll lose faith in God. God loves you. He sent his Son to die for you. The punishment he suffered on the пересекать, крест was the penalty for YOUR sins.

He loves Ты SO much. Don't let your fear blind Ты from that. Here's a video that explains what Satan tries to do in spiritual warfare. Read the link that I gave to Ты up above, and if Ты have any еще questions, feel free to ask me. (= I've been taught in the ways of the Bible since I was little. I know a lot.

God bless!

i have a voice in my head too. it tells me that i'm never good enough for anything. thats when i tell i to shut up. Ты need to cry to release a poison within your body. don't listen to that voice. crying или listening to a sad song will not make Ты lose a family member.

I am sorry to hear that thingsare so rough. I understand a bit about depression myself. I don't ever force myself to cry- no. I just don't cry a lot. Maybe it is good that Ты want to cry, get it out, but I would let it happen naturally, maybe as Ты talk about it или pour your сердце out to God или a friend. Dealing with our feelings are esstential. Hearing voices isn't good. Although, I do believe God can & does speak to people both audibly & inwardly - but what He says woudl never ever be out of character. One thing about God, He IS consistent. His character does not waiver either.

I don't know why Ты would hear that a family mem would die if Ты listen to a sad song, but that is very disconcerting. Please don't kill anyone. Even that fear isn't good. Plus if something like that happened outside of your actions или your control, then there is nothing Ты can do one way или the other- it is their time and a listening to a song или not will not alter that. Please seek professional help if Ты need it and find someone who can help Ты safely release your tears... I have trusted God for a long time for that when I had no one else I could go to или trust. I may have let myself down, или people let me down, but He never has. :)