I'm confused about delena haters

If Ты are fairly new to the fandom and have never read the Книги then it's possible that Ты will never have heard of Bamon (Bonnie and Damon). Bamon does exist, but it depends on where Ты look. As for any 'DE hate', again, it depends on where Ты look. Unfortunately, it has happened on our spot by people who have kind of stirred up trouble by posting comments/arguments which have just rubbed DE shippers up the wrong way. I'm sorry if some of the Фаны here come across as defensive. Most of us want to avoid shipper wars, but often, any slanging matches that have happened have been caused by negative Комментарии from non-DE Фаны или multi shippers. We just really, really Любовь DE, and in spite of having the biggest numbers of fans, we feel like the underdog a lot of the time. Why? Well, because SE are always in Любовь and together, and a lot of the book Фаны are hurt and betrayed by spoilers from LJ Smith's soon to be released 'Midnight'. But DE haters do exist out there. I think you're lucky to have only encountered DE love!

I am not a Delena hater, I'm not, I Любовь Damon and Elena together. I just hate the argument that "delena is going to happen eventually". I am sorry but that is just a crappy argument. I agree with Delena Влюбленные who say 'in this and this episode Ты can see that Elena does care for Damon etc etc and therefore we think that Delena will happen". THAT I can buy, but not some kind of destiny argument, cause I think that just sucks, it's not even a real argument.
Another thing is that some Delena Влюбленные like epicdelena4ever automatically say that non Delena Влюбленные are pathetic, that does not exactly make me Любовь Delena more, еще the opposite effect.

people hate demean because they have gotten attached to stefan and elana being together. I think this is reasonable because demean sucks