Silence is a super common side effect of a fight. Ты both think us up to the other person to admit she's obviously Остаться в живых her mind. So why should Ты be the one to inimate truce. Because Ты can keep feeling angry and burt, или Ты can decide you'd rather have fun and feel happy. God let's see. E-mail her call, write a note-just make it clear that doing nothing will get nowhere. Do what Ты have to in order to get this bail rolling if she doesn't respond see bellow.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............................................................................................................................................................ ......... ........... ............................... ..............

The word punish might bring to mind Обои of six consecutive weekend grounded with no TV. IM или sleepovers because Ты accidentally borrowed your dad's drill to crack walnuts on the antique dinning room таблица because jeez: sometimes a girl fancies snacking on walnuts. Banish that thought Seriously though pick a dare for your bud to prove she's sorry. Put every condiment in the fridge on a соленый огурец, маринованные and tell her to eat it. Have her walk up t the hottest guy at the pool, and tell him she's the neighborhood cannonball champ. Think of something just painful enough to be funny but not hurtful. When she's done pinkle swear to be note careful with each others feelings. Then go out for nachoe-topped with every con? At the fixins bar. Maybe not.

If it's a little еще complicated than that, and forgiving her becomes a chore on your to do Список first decide if a fixer is really the best way to stop up the steam coming out of your ears. Вопрос Was this a premedirated Ice Queen Переместить или was she totally unaware she'd driven a stake through your heart? Was this the first time your friend did whatever she did to make Ты mad, или does she do this to Ты all the time: For a repeat offender see Fight Fixer No 10: If your friend's offense was a first-time flub, why not chalk it up to a she's - only - human mistake and forget about it? Turning the other check on her out-of-character moment is mega nature and will help Ты "walk away" mentally, which miraculously squalishes the drama you're feeling emotionally. In other words, don't do darn things. If only finals were this easy.

Yes, fighting is bad, fighting is immature, fighting is painful. But that doesn't mean it isn't a good option. But let's get this straight. Sure you're going to fight, but you're not going to перфоратор, удар, пунш bite pull hair, scratch, slap faces, whack windbreakers on each others bare backs of do any thing associated with cheesy car fights. Instead you're going to have a подушка fight, screaming. "This is for when Ты mined my new blouse" или "I hate it when Ты flint with my boyfriend" with each swing. Get out those aggressions, girl. It a подушка fight doesn't work for Ты maybe get two boys involved and have a chicken fight on their shoulders in a pool. The point is to fight to end the fight, without ugly bite marks on Ты arms of an eyeball that feels like it's been scooped out with a spoon Touche.

This Fixer is about working it out by working out. You're both going to sweat it out side by side until Ты decide together when enough is enough. A little healthy competition will replace the spat you're having our who did what and whos fight and all that other pop-pycock. Race around the school track, do pull-ups, push-ups, sit-ups, counting around, until one of Ты drops. When you're sweaty fatigued sick of it all say, "I'm sick of it all especially being in a fight with you" Ten bucks says she'll share her Gatorade in agreement........................... ..........................................................

Who's going to juzz this big bairy attitude brawill; Ты are she is Oh! want hell her it's time to deal, and ask her to come to your house in cruddy clothes. Saturday affternoon, Pre-date, birst open your piggy bank and buy two dozen eggs and two Конфеты bars. When she arrives, give her a dozen eggs and yourself a dozen and have an egg toss in the "" yard. 'Win' by operating and throwing the egg right at her T-shirt или jeans, If she looks at Ты like you've cracked, 'egg' her on to your head. If you're both nor covered in egg and laughing within a few minutes, Ты blew this assignment. The Конфеты bars are for Ты guys to eat afterward as Ты glow in renewed friendship, and yolk.

What do Ты do if you're so completely over this rift between Ты two yet, she still won't cave; it's tempting to want to bail from the friendship and let her wallow in her stubborn anger. But that's the easy way out if Ты think you've done your share in trying to mend the situation you're probably right. But Ты can't force her into anything. So, you'll wait. Try not to bold it against her if she needs еще time than Ты to cool off. She'll come around and when she does then Ты use one of the following Friend Fight Fixers to bury the batchet.

Say Ты tried a Fight Fixer but despite your best efforts: you're still not over it. We'll call this "right residue," which is just mistrust wearing an everythings OK now mask. There's a China-sized crack of doubt that she might let Ты down again или maybe she's a tiny bit worried you're Luckily Ты can swat away these emotional mosquitoes with a contract. On a piece of white paper use black pen to write a Список of ways Ты promise to be good to each other. Then carefully tear the perimerer so all sides are rough-edged. Scranch the paper into a ball unscranch it and dip it in room temperature чай until it's an old looking yellow color Gently lay it out flat in the sun and when it's dry, you'll have an official homemade. Bill of Friendship Rights Suggestion. Make two so Ты don't fight over who gets to keep it.

Depending on what's gone down, a formal apology may be the only way your friend can atone for her sins. If Ты need a sincere "I'm sorry" to get over her infraction that's OK. But Ты might have to ask for it. She can't read your mind and changes are she feels bad about the fight too. Эй, maybe she's reaching Friend Fight Fixers through 5 right now trying to map out her apology strategy. Make it easy for her. Send an e-mail explaining that Ты just needed to know it won't happen against so it's she were to apologize and mad make a propreties that'd he enough for you.

All right, you're upset, Maybe you're furning. Maybe you'd like to brand your friend's hair in an industrial blender. That's fine. Let yourself be But be mad in a pair of running shoes while Ты jog a mile. Be mad at your подушка while Ты pulyerize those teeny inner. Cruellar on your friend because that can create mutual madness which would really blow things beyond proportion. The heat of your feelings: will cool down and, when you're done seeing red, simply call Miss Knuckle head and tell her what's up: Did Ты know Ты really bummed me out the other день when Ты blurted my business in front of everyone? Can Ты promise not to do it again? Great, thinks Enough said.

That's right. глотать, ласточка your pride, and let it slide - even though Ты absolutely, posilutely know for sure that Ты did so pay her brick the five bucks Ты borrowed from her. She's peeved, and you're left wondering if she's having a brain lapse или something. So why should Ты say "sorry" and душ her with gifts, darn it" Well, let's put this in perspective, shall we Look is it really worth losing a friend over a five-spot: Offer up a hard-to-resist compromise" "I'll tell Ты what let's searf down five dollars worth of Baskin Robbins, my treat, and call it even Steven." If she insists on having it her way cough up the $5 and consider it an investment in the freidnship. Even if she is having a brain lapse she's your bud and was nice enough to float Ты the moolah to begin with. Oh, and Далее time Ты pay her back on a loan ask for a receipt Nicely.

For some girls, gifts are the way to go. It may sound totally materialistic but Эй, she's your friend and, some bud can be bribed as we all know! If it takes a little sweet nothing to get her to stop scrunching her face at Ты as Ты pass in the halls, then get to it. What won't work? Easy to-get-gifts like a "nice" candle или frame. Sorry What will work? A framed picture of the two of Ты in better times. или a candle Ты made just for her at one of those fun craft-making stores. All other gift ideals are subject to details only Ты know about your friend. The еще personal, the better: заворачивать, обертывание your package in homemade wrapping paper (sponge-paint some plain, white paper), and present it ti her in private With any luck she'll be unable to fight back those fears of joy

Sometimes a thousand words aren't worth jack. или maybe you're not a word person, which means saying или Письмо an apology would be like hiking up банан Reel Mountain in six inch stilcttols. Non-word people are usually either visual-artsy или have a thing for math. And since calculating a serious algebra equation isn't all that heart-warming (unless you're watching Good Will Hunting), this is for the art lovingal. Draw paint, sketch a picture that screamer. "You're awesome and I'm such a Party McBee for еще seeing the hurtfulness of what I did" Mount the picture или a piece of poster board and at the вверх center expertly write her name in oversized block letters, Deliver it to her with a smile. If your masterpiece doesn't muster peace, it's back to the drawing board, Lady Picasso. Read on

Heart-to-heart talks stink like dog doo. That's not the Популярное opinion - especially if Ты tune in to the 7th Haven или any of those hokey Фильмы on TV's Lifetime network for women -- but it's a realistic truth for plenty of people. Too many emotionally charged chats are just nerve - annihilating yuvky, muscfests of overly sensitive feelings. Ты have to tell her why Ты wish Ты could turn the Erch a Sketch of your wrongdoing event upside down. But since Ты can't send a letter to get it through her noggin how great she is, how much Ты cherrish her, how Ты are - from now until you're both grannies - going to be sensitive to whatever it is she's upset about. Put it on pretty stationery, and улитка mail in with cutsie stickers and a pool stump. She should call the минута she reads it.

When a friend lets Ты know she's upset about something you've сказал(-а) или done (or she thought Ты сказал(-а) или did), it's up to Ты to clear the air. Even if it's a misunderstanding - wait, especially if it's a misunderstanding - you've gotta step up to the apology plate. Admitting you're wrong isn't easy, but if Ты do a hat dance around her now sensitive feelings, the drama will just grow. To deliver a sincere apology, look your friend in the eye and tell her. "I am so sorry." Now hug, cry, do what Ты do, then go eat something atery-clogging and talk about not-so-serious, stuff, like celebs and makeup: You've had enough serious discussion for one afternoon.

1 point
Let the argument simmer for a while, by leaving it alone, and avoiding communication. If Ты talk right after the fight, many things are сказал(-а) out of anger. However, do not wait too long as allowing bad feelings to brew for too long creates a situation that becomes еще difficult to make up. So after the fight calms down, make sure Ты talk to the person before its too late. After Ты do that, sit down and say your sorry if Ты the one who caused the fight. Even if it was the other persons fault, just take the blame so Ты will make up sooner than later.
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Take time to reconsider if this person is really a friend if you're constantly in fights and always making up first
3 point
Reflect on what Ты may have done. Read past emails, chats ect. This will help Ты understand their point of view.
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Give in and apologize. The other person probably wants to do it too, but it shows that you're a courageous and dedicated friend.