No one can tell Ты if Ты are a lesbian. Only Ты can tell. Don't let anyone try to convince Ты otherwise. There are no "gay quizzes" или tests that can tell for you. I wrote an Статья about this that may help you:
link I know, it's really hard to tell. I think it's easier for guys to tell if they are gay because they tend to experiement more. But Ты don't need to experiment in order to tell, and I wouldn't reccommend sleeping around.
After Ты find out, Ты may want to keep it to yourself или come out of the closet to family and friends. But DO NOT do this if your family might kick Ты out (unless Ты have a place to go). Ты might want to get a girlfriend или just stay single for a while. It's all up to you.
Don't try to change yourself. There are no "gay to straight" programs that work, and there never have been. God made Ты the way He meant to, and He loves Ты no matter what.
