I really think this guy likes me. But there's one problem....

I have the same problem, my guy thinks we should secret-date, so that's what we do. But for you, Ты should find out if this guy likes you, if he does... and if Ты like him, maybe Ты should secret-date...

i say confront him about it, dont let him cheat on the other girl but find out whats going on

My friend had the same problem.

The guy told her (when she asked him..) that YES, the guy loves her, but rather have her as a friend because he doesnt want to complicate things between them. For me, that's kindda right, because when Друзья have conflicts, they just say sorry and everything's fine.. But when a BESTFRIEND became your lover, --and for example, everything went wrong-- it'll be hard for the two of Ты to regain that friendship. :)

I hope that helps. :)

sounds to me like mayb he just wants his cake n eat it too. not only confront him about it but make sure he isnt "secretly dating" his other girlfriend bhind ur back.. just b careful. cos some guys make u feel like they really r into u but they r just out for an ego trip. some guys r really good at making u believe ur the only one n they r just out for some tail(sorry guys)!... but it happens often from what i see first hand. ya see, i have еще guys Друзья then girl Друзья (i do have a bf that im serious with) n i see my Друзья hit on other girls in bars even though they r dating someone else. n then they brag about it. if his feelings r genuine, ultimatly u 2 will b together exclusively.

It's up to him to make the decision, not you. All Ты can really do is be nice to him (which should be pretty easy since you're such good friends) and make sure he doesn't cheat on Ты behind your back, if he does want Ты instead.

The same thing happend to me a while ago... and I got hurt, because I never told him what I felt and he started dating this girl but I could tell that he had feelings for me, but we were bffs and he started dating her to forget about me, because he didn't think I felt the same thing. End of the story: I got hurt, he found out too late that I liked him and I did too then our friendship was gone and our Любовь too.
Ты should tell him! I know it's hard but it's the best! Trust me

well this guy may have feelings for u, but he has to choose btwn his girl and u. if he doesnt like u enough to break up with this girl, then i say forget it for now and look for other guys as hard as it may be. if he gets jealous and does something thats good, but if not then that really means forget him as a potential bf.

My Opinion Is-
It Sounds Like He's Just Using You! He Probably Thinks You're Pretty And Since He Already Has A Girlfriend, He Doesn't Know What To Do! Tell Him That Ты Want To Stay Friends! Because It Sounds Like He Just Likes Chasing Ты Around! Once Ты Actually Start Making It Easy For Him, He'll Just Get Bored And Leave Ты Alone! (I have a friend named Piper and she does the same thing. Once she actually get's the guy they Kiss once или twice and it's goodbye.) Ты Don't Want This To Happen To You, It's Not A Good Feeling! So Just Stay Friends! Because If He Is A Chaser, He'll Just Dump You! It's Really Hard To Get Back To Being Друзья Once He's Your Ex!

Plus-
If He Wants Ты To дата Him And He Already Has A Girlfriend, Then How Can Ты Trust Him! Ты Can't Have A Relationship Without Trust!

Last But Not Least-
I Know It Sounds Like I'm Just Tryig To Shoot Ты Down-And I'm Really Sorry For That-But I'm Not! Ты сказал(-а) That Ты Can Look Into His Eyes And Tell That He Liks You! Are Ты 100% Positive About That? It's Possible That Ты May Just Be Seeing What Ты Want To See!

I'm Really Sorry! I Must Sound Like A Complete сука Huh? But It's Important For Everyone No See The Negatives, Not Just The Postitives! :)

@lolibarbie.. actually, I don't know what to say,.Coz I don't really know your story personally..But, I only wanted Ты to think of it. Is your Bestfriend's feeling for Ты had shown for a longer time? If that so, I guess, he really loves You..but maybe in terms of Friendship!! hmmm.. if this guy loves Ты еще than as his bestever friend..why not he choose Ты at this moment as his girl? Try to get his decision.., if he choose Ты thats great but if its not..maybe,,that's a point of mistake..Follow what your сердце says..and listen to what your mind talks about.. I only read your problem now coz I'm new here.. I just wanna help you!! Thanks. :)