In serious need of help!

As a guy I would want Ты to dump him, because when guys like me can't find a gf, guys like him go and do things like these behind theirs and it is totally un-called for, but I am going to Совет Ты on how to do it without compromising yourself или your feelings in any way.

Now, first things first, talk to him and force him to tell Ты all the details of what happen. If he is willing to share, and Показать remorse, that means he is willing to be honest with you, so listen to what he says. I hate that he hid this from you, but truth is, as humans, we always hide when it comes to things like these because we know if we say it, it will only hurt people. It isn't easy to be honest, and since he wasn't before, this is the chance for him to be.

Secondly, talk to your friends, because Друзья aren't supposed to keep secrets from each other, especially if the secret involves hurting one of the friends. I understand that they might not want to hurt Ты and hence didn't tell you, but they should have realized that being honest was the way to go because friendship is built on truth, and not hiding the truth.

Finally, the decision to break up with him или forgive him is entirely up to you, I have helped many girls and couples for that matter through this, and the end result is always mixed. Some forgive and everything is okay, whereas others, break up and Переместить on because they feel they deserve better. How things will work out, we will never know, but the important thing here is Ты and your feelings. I suggest following this because at least if Ты decide to break up with him, Ты can get the real honest truth out of him and get some closure on the matter.

Scars like these will run deep and it might affect things for Ты in the future, I can't lie to Ты and say things will be fine, but Ты have to fight it because Ты should tell yourself Ты deserve better, either FORCE him to earn your forgiveness или break up with him, accept things, get closure and work towards healing and finding someone who would treat Ты for the Энджел that Ты are.

Nice guys are out there, we are just invisible to girls, but we are out there....

I wish Ты all the best :)

This guy sleeps with another girl on the день Ты get together? That's really low.
And if he has kept this from Ты for the 2 and a half months, then he is obviously not trustworthy, and he's secretive.
In my opinion, Ты should talk to him about it, and hear what he has to say, and say to yourself 'is he really worth it anyway?'
And as far as your Друзья are concerned, I guess they were just keeping it from Ты to protect your feelings, but that wasn't the best way for them to do it...

If it was me, I would break up with him straight away. This guy isn't worth your time if he sleeps with someone else on the день Ты get together, and keeps it from Ты for all this time.

But then again, that's just what I would do. Just do what Ты feel is right :)

And remember, don't accept some half жопа, попка apology from him. You're worth еще than that ^^

Good luck :)

ok, the dude slept with someone else the день he got with you, and he hid it from you. that is not waht a good boyfriend does. on you, dump him on his sorry arse, asap.
srry i had to say that.
i understand how leaving him can be hard, realy hard. it took me about five tries to break-up with my first boyfriend. so i do get it. its gonna hurt wen Ты do it, but there are ways to make it easier on you.
if Ты feel ready to leave him in the morning do it in the morning if Ты can, do it wen Ты are feeling strong. the ideal way to break up with someone is face to face, but that isnt always practical. if Ты cant reasonable leave him face to face или Ты lose your nerve everytime Ты look into his eyes, your best alternativ will be a phonecall, but keep it private. dont spend too long explaining, или Ты may lose your nerve. just keep it short, simple and to the point. tell him Ты kno he slept with someone else the день he got with you, he's Остаться в живых your trust and that Ты two are over. he shouldnt need any еще explanation than that. dont try to be mean but in this case dont try to spare his feelings, either. just get it done, if he wants to stay friends, dont do it, he doesnt respect Ты and that is probaly not his true intent. just walk away and dont look back. and if Ты cry, dont let him see Ты do it.
if your still having trouble listening to some motivational Музыка befor Ты meet him или even while your on the phone with him may help. and having the moral suppourt of good Друзья and family can help too.
about those three Друзья who knew the whole time, Ты need to talk with them. ask them y they didnt tell Ты about him. that is kinda crappy of them to do. they left Ты in the dark, not cool. Ты may want to consiter weather или not Ты can realy depend them, depending on what they say. good Друзья dont hide stuff like that from you.

Do Ты really want to be with a guy like that? It means everything he told Ты when Ты got together was a lie. Did he tell Ты he really liked you? Obviously that was a lie if he has no problem sleeping around on you.

I know the сердце wants what it wants. But listen to your brain this time. Get the hell out of there! It's only going to get worse. Your best bet is to get out now and save yourself an even bigger heartbreak. It's obviouse that Ты Любовь him because you're hesitating to end it, even though when Ты really think about it, Ты just want to hurt him back.

If Ты think Ты can work it out, okay. But there needs to be a fight about that. I'm not one for picking fights when theres no reason for them. But Ты seriously need to consider the fact that theres a huge reason.

Also, I might be talking to those two Друзья who knew. Maybe they didn't want to hurt Ты and that's why they never сказал(-а) anything. But Ты need to make sure their reasoning for not telling Ты was a good one.

I'm really sorry this happened to you. If Ты need anyone to talk to, feel free to talk to me-a complete stranger. But I've found it's easier to vent to someone Ты don't know. Either way, Ты really need to talk to someone.

Best of luck! :)