Why have I never been treated right in a relationship?

If Ты LET people treat Ты badly...they will....when going into a relationship...be confident in who Ты are and let others know "I'm a good person and I will not become someone else's door mat...." Always keep your sweetness and your faithfulness but refuse to take other peoples crap!

Good luck sweetie!

Maybe the problem, is neither Ты nor the boy, but the fact of dating before the right time,

Ты see, if Ты give a diamon to someone who doesn't know the value of it, he will find it beautifull at the beginning, but still he will treat it like other stones.

I don't know how old Ты are, but what i know is that teen guys don't know how to treat a girl, I'm telling Ты that because I'm a boy, and i was a teen once.
so for me Ты can't realy blame the boy even if it's he fault, because he is not mature enough to take good care of you.

so my Совет is strange, but i'm convinced that it's right, Ты should just stop dating immature boys, and wait, to grow up enough to дата a guy who will be able to take care of you...
that doesn't mean that bad guys don't existe they do, but it's up to Ты to make the right choice

take good care of you... there are alot of boys on earth but a lil that are good.
but Ты girls have this tallent to sence it, so don't be blinded by Любовь and be carefull

I agree with most of the Ответы that have already been written about your question.I don't know you,I don't know the people you've had relationships with in the past and I don't know the kind of relationships you've had and how you've both acted during the relationship(s).So I am only speaking generically so what I say is just a helpful tool that might help Ты in your journey,if Ты want it.OK..As someone else pointed out,"If Ты LET people treat Ты badly,they WILL." No matter how much it hurts,you should never give up because there is ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel.To avoid making the same mistakes and getting into relationships that are not healthy,examine what EXACTLY happened in EACH one of those relationships.No two relationships are the same but Ты may find similarities and those similarities are the key to helping Ты heal and gain hope to develop relationships that are sincere and respectful.No one is perfect but everyone can change if they want to.Before Ты get yourself into another relationship,make sure Ты have resolved your past so it won't haunt your future.One of the best ways to figure out what exactly went wrong and what mistakes were made (on both parts),tell the person Ты trust and respect the most what happened.Be completely honest about what happened and ask him/her to offer his/her Совет on the situation.You didn't clarify if your relationships were friendships или romantic relationships but I am assuming its romantic.Correct me if I'm wrong.I really hope Ты thought my Совет was at least somewhat helpful.I wish Ты luck in whatever path Ты choose to go to with your future relationships.Last piece of Совет is that every relationship will have its ups and downs but what should always remain are respect and trust.Without those two components,a healthy relationship will never develop.Those trusting and respectful relationships are not hard to find and sometimes they are right in front of you,you just have to look at it. :D Best of Luck!

I have the same problem. :\

I think it comes down to being too nice. When you're too nice people think they can walk all over you.

That's my problem, anyway.

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Ты just need to find better guys.

It's not you! Sometimes, it's what happens in relationships in your teen yrs cuz guys can be immature as hell but u know what?

It means that with all of the pain Ты got from those relationships, your better prepared for the futur! And your most likely to get the man of your dreams to come running to you. When your out of school (I don't know if u graduated yet) Ты start to explore. Just keep your eyes and ears open!

With all of the jerks u had, the perfect man will be right in line! When your with a guy who treats Ты bad, stand up for yourself! Don't let them get u thinking that u have a problem! It'll totally work out!:)

youve got to demand respect. Ты deserve to be treated right. dont put up with a guy treating Ты like crap. if Ты let him get away with it once, he will keep doing it. if he doesnt treat Ты right, leave him. dont stay with guy that treat Ты badly, and eventualy Ты will find a guy who will treat Ты right.

If possible, дата people that Ты have already established a connection with.

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