I just don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why haven't experienced real Любовь yet? Why do boys not want to be with me? Why hasn't he come to me?

I just don't understand. I'm sixteen and I've been asked out a few times and I have had 1 boyfriend, but I haven't had any real Любовь или romance happen to me:( Boys I usually want to be with either don't feel the same way about me или have a girlfriend. I'm not that girl:( I ust don't get why, I'm sweet, kind, smart, and honest. I'm not shallow или mean или plain.I always feel something is missing and I'm a huge romantic. I wanr someone that could Любовь me and think I'm beautiful. He doesn't have to be my soulmate, just my first Любовь Please Help.


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I've also never been kissed and it just kills me, I feel like a lot of people are finding Любовь except me:(
Moonlightrose16 posted Больше года
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The Любовь will come when Ты don't think about, It's not us who choose to fall in Любовь i'm talking about true love, Coz there are two types of this one, True and false look out girl, own еще time and don't impose youself on someone can't Любовь Ты или Ты can't make him Любовь Ты Good luck girl
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CrazyForKT said:
Your only sixteen, Ты have your life ahead of Ты to find your true love, right now Ты should enjoy being single and a teen, Ты sound like a great person and im sure Ты will find an amazing guy, but wait for him he will come, your still young
This is not the time to start looking for the real Любовь because in truth girls maybe ready for that but us guys arent yet, no offense to any other dudes but we're not mature enough, you'll be better off with a guy who knows whats going on, and im 100% possitive many people think Ты are beautiful, Ты just dont know it yet :)
But really first loves are hard
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posted Больше года 
americanhoney said:
Trust me, there is NOTHING wrong with you. You're young! Everyone has someone out there. You'll find him! As for now, enjoy being single! Enjoy being FREE!
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posted Больше года 
Spottedleaf13 said:
Don't worry, eventually, your SOUL MATE will come along, you'll just have to go through a few jerks before that, we all will. Just don't give up faith and keep searching for love!
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posted Больше года 
laura071197 said:
dont be that worried, Ты are just 16, your life is just starting, someday that guy Ты are dreaming with will apear and that день i can bet it will worth the wait
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posted Больше года 
darkmoon47 said:
we're in the same лодка i'm jst a год older then u.
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posted Больше года 
sunflowerchild said:
Stop looking for real love. Experience has taught me that if you're looking really hard, you're probably not going to find it. It will find you. Just go about Ты life and forget about love. Yeah, that sounds weird, but Любовь was the absolute last thing on my mind when "Mr. Perfect" came my way. Don't stress out about it, everything will turn out ok. :) It may take time, it took years for me, but everything will turn out ok. :)
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posted Больше года 
robothor1111 said:
Ты are sixteen. I am eighteen, and I've been asked out once but I turned him down. You'll find someone; it doesn't have to be yet. I'm not worried. I won't дата until I feel something different than what I've felt for all my guy friends. Don't go looking for it. When it's the real thing, you'll know.
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posted Больше года 
mitchie19 said:
I have the same situation too. :(
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posted Больше года 
friends_4_ever said:
look....itz had nothing 2 do 4 being strange или had something wrong with u...i mean alawys had the think that these guys u felt something towards them if theyy will be with u they will break ur сердце ...alawys belive that all of ur smart and sweety personalitiyy and 4 sure ur romantic power are just keeped 4 the one.the one that Любовь u adore u and he will scrafiee antyhing 4 u...and that guy gonna appear somedayy and who knows maybe these день is todayy.and all the boys r bad 4 not having honest girl like u.alawyss belive wth the dayy u gonna see ur Любовь in and he is waiting 4 u sa well.i amd telling u these as result of expraince that iam really waiting 4 ma real Любовь that gonna appear one dayy,,had the think that theyy r the wrong guys 4 not being in a relation with u not you..belive in ur self.and donnot think 4 one минута that ur different caz certainlyy ur the best....plzz alawys belive in these.good luck <333
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posted Больше года 
Sasukes_Gurl said:
hmm, sounds like Ты and me are kinda similar. I'm 16 too, and I've never been asked out :( It's not to do with looks (some guys have actually called me pretty) but it's just that I'm really shy and I'm not 'out there' like other girls, that's why they're not noticing me =/ and I'm a huge romantic too!
I guess the time will come some день for the both of us. Patience is a virtue after all :)
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posted Больше года 
xenriquegrl said:
I have the same problem girl. It's not you. Sometimes it takes tiome to find someone who will Любовь you. Just don't always focus on finding Любовь cuz then Ты won't find it. But that doesn't mean to stop beleiving! If Ты keep up hope, you'll find it, and if Ты really want it, you'll get it!

It will take time though, your still young! Ты got your whole life ahead of you, don't trash it away cuz Ты can't find love. While Ты wait for it to come, do the things that make Ты happy. Who cares if other people are getting into relationships! Ты should be happy that at the present moment Ты don't have to worry about a guy to please. Most chicks give so much attention to their boyfriends that they forget about everything else, wich sucks! So focus on the present and don't think about the futur. Your time will come. Maybe not now, but someday for sure!!!!

Oh and about the ''I've also never been kissed'' thing, I'm gonna repeat something that a friend right here on Fanpop told me. It's better to wait for a while for your first Kiss than have it with some asshole right? (ok, she didn't say it like that, but close enough). So live ur life and someone will notice Ты for being Ты and fall for you. Guarantee!!!;)
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 I have the same problem girl. It's not you. Sometimes it takes tiome to find someone who will Любовь you. Just don't always focus on finding Любовь cuz then Ты won't find it. But that doesn't mean to stop beleiving! If Ты keep up hope, you'll find it, and if Ты really want it, you'll get it! It will take time though, your still young! Ты got your whole life ahead of you, don't trash it away cuz Ты can't find love. While Ты wait for it to come, do the things that make Ты happy. Who cares if other people are getting into relationships! Ты should be happy that at the present moment Ты don't have to worry about a guy to please. Most chicks give so much attention to their boyfriends that they forget about everything else, wich sucks! So focus on the present and don't think about the futur. Your time will come. Maybe not now, but someday for sure!!!! Oh and about the ''I've also never been kissed'' thing, I'm gonna repeat something that a friend right here on Fanpop told me. It's better to wait for a while for your first Kiss than have it with some asshole right? (ok, she didn't say it like that, but close enough). So live ur life and someone will notice Ты for being Ты and fall for you. Guarantee!!!;)
posted Больше года 
skytail127 said:
it is quite common to not find Любовь untill Ты are older, there is nothing wrong with you. some people dont have thier first Kiss till a little later and that is just fine.

if Ты want a boyfriend, Ты could try just putting yourself out there a lil еще and talking to the guys Ты like and giveing some of the guys that ask Ты out a chance. they may suprise you.
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posted Больше года 
TruBerries said:
I don't believe that there's anything wrong with Ты especially if there were a few guys that had already asked Ты out. To be honest, Ты should really give them a chance

You're sixteen years old, Ты still have years to come to find that special someone because it definitely takes time. Shoot, I remember when my ex-boyfriend started talking to me that I honestly didn't want to give him a chance att all 'cause I actually believed that he was like the rest that I've came across. Of course he'd proven me right four years later when I found out that he was engaged to someone else. That was the end of that and that's the reason why I am not in a rush to be in a relationship.

The right guy will come along for you, but Ты just have to be patient. Get out there and дата guys, Показать them that Ты are worth being with(in a respectable way). When Ты find that one guy, the key is not being clingy. Guys really really hate that and it pushes him away from you. Good luck, Kiddo!
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