should I care/worry about my boyfriend's mother not liking me?

We're both 15, we both really Любовь each other and we're very serious. I've been over to his house about 5 times and all of those times, his mom seemed fine. She told me she was upfront and she would say if I ever needed to talk to someone, I can talk to her and told me not to be shy around her. She even gave me gifts and such. I was incredibly sweet, polite, and I always have my manners. I gave her loads of respect and we would talk like normal. But recently, I found out that I can't ever come over to his house again because she doesn't "like" me -.- My bf told me that she doesn't like anyone and that it doesn't matter how или who the person is, she just doesn't like them. He also сказал(-а) she hasn't liked any of his past girlfriends either. I'm just wondering is it's something to care about. My mother makes a big deal out of "getting along with the mother" but I'm not sure :/ what do Ты guys think of this? I just need some ideas
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kitsune-no-hime said:
It might be еще important if Ты were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law или one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For Ты "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if Ты still want to see each other или more. If her trust isn't there, Ты are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, Ты are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes Ты for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something Ты can control. It would be nice if Ты knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if Ты are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! Ты cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time.

Hopefully she can be won over.
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 It might be еще important if Ты were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law или one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For Ты "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if Ты still want to see each other или more. If her trust isn't there, Ты are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, Ты are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes Ты for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something Ты can control. It would be nice if Ты knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if Ты are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! Ты cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time. Hopefully she can be won over.
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Zeppie said:
All Ты can do is be yourself :) Just be polite, well-mannered and considerate when you're around her.
You're 15 right now, so no worries, if this relationship is as serious as Ты say, then Ты have time to Показать her Ты are likeable.
Don't take it too much to heart, Ты can't be doing anything wrong. Ты can't just go up to her and say "like me!". Well...you could...but that wouldn't help ;P
Just keep going as Ты are, she might just be protective over her son.
She'll come around, best of luck :)
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