I would rather that because I would at least be nice to them!!! So they would be happy too!!=)

I guess I'm selfish, but the other one would just be awkward, and I'd be willing to do pretty much anything to be with someone I truly loved, regardless.

I would luv being in luv!!!!! i wouldnt wanna give that up. i ges im selfish........

this was really hard i would rather this but i guess id feel kinda guilty but maybe id end up falling for them i dont think i could deal knowing that the person i love doesnt love me back i know that sounds pretty selfish but good question
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I know how hard it is to have feelings for someone who doesn't for you, so I don't think I'd be strong enough to do that again, so I'm being selfish and choosing this option. Course, I also know how hard it is for someone else to have feelings for you, and you not feeling anything for them to.

And all your picks are making me think of Buffy couples, lol.

Then at least you can feel loved

Only because I wouldn't want him to hurt.
And I'm kind of in that situation now, except I'm not with them, which actually hurts more.

The other choice isn't my style. Why hold someone else anyway from true love? I'd rather be alone and watch the other girl find the special someone, even though it'd kill me.Of course I can't forget I don't wana lead someone on, thats cruel. However, it'd make them happy. Either way it's fair to someone, wither I make someone happy while I'm not or I can be happy while the other's not.

I would rather be loved than not loved at all!

in my opinion this is worse...think about the other person and how they feel about you and some1 they might love that isent you.:(

I trust myself to eventually love him

I couldn't get myself to date someone I don't love because then I can assure everyone that I'd leave them by the alter... I have only dated guys who loved me but I didn't like them and it has all ended in a bad break ups