January 4, 2014,
I have been a complete emotional wreck ever since I found out that Damien wants to fight me for custody of Carter. Part of me wants to believe that it's because he's a changed person and wants to be a father to Carter; but I know in my сердце that that isn't the truth! Never in 1 million years did I think Damien would do something like this!
I had spent all morning in my bedroom and had not come downstairs in days! Kyle came upstairs and sat down Далее to me on the bed. He asked "are Ты okay? I've never seen Ты cry so much before!" I сказал(-а) "I won't be okay until this whole Damien thing is over with! Carter's five years old and still thinks that you're his father! I was hoping it would stay that way for a long time! I don't want him to face the reality of who his father really is! Damien isn't the kind of father that Carter can be proud of! Damien is an alcoholic player who takes advantage of any girl that he sees and he is living in some chick's basement! I don't want Carter exposed to all of that; especially because he understands so much еще now than he did before!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I hate that we even have to deal with this right now! If Damien really wanted to spend time with Carter he should have started five years назад when he was born!" I сказал(-а) "this just sucks and that's all that there is to it!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I do know one thing though; Ты need to get out of this room because you're depressing yourself even еще by being alone and crying! Carter's been asking me why Ты haven't seen him in a few days! I told him that Ты didn't feel good and that Ты would come down eventually! I promise Ты that if Ты go downstairs Ты will feel better!" I wiped tears off of my eyes and kissed Kyle. I сказал(-а) "I suppose I should go down there."
Kyle and I walked downstairs and into the living room. Carter turned around and jumped up from the spot where he was sitting on the floor as soon as he saw me. He ran up to me and gave me a huge hug. I knelt down in front of him and he looked at how red my eyes were from the nonstop crying I had been doing. He asked "are Ты okay mommy? Were Ты crying?" I сказал(-а) "no; I wasn't crying." He asked "how come Ты weren't coming out of your room? How come daddy had to bring Еда up to Ты and make Ты eat?" I сказал(-а) "I was just busy working on stuff for my job buddy. I needed to be up there because it's quiet and I can think better. Daddy brought the Еда up to me because I didn't want to stop working at all; but I promise that I'm going to be down here during the день from now on." Carter сказал(-а) "you missed my first день of kindergarten! I was so sad; I thought Ты were at least going to be there when daddy picked me up!" I сказал(-а) "I know buddy; I'm sorry! I promise I'll drop Ты off all by myself tomorrow." Carter got all excited and сказал(-а) "I can't wait for Ты to meet my teacher and friends!" I сказал(-а) "I only missed one день of Ты going to school and I promise I won't miss any more!" He gave me a Kiss and сказал(-а) "I'm so happy that Ты finally came out of your bedroom mommy! I missed you!"
January 5, 2014,
Carter sat in the living room watching TV and eating a bowl of cereal as I tried to wake up by drinking my usual Starbucks coffee that Kyle picked up for me like he does every morning. I put some hair gel in Carter's hair to spike his little fauxhawk and helped him tie his shoes. He ran over and gave Kyle a hug as he grabbed his SpongeBob backpack.
I drove him to school and helped him climb down the high step that is in my truck. Before I could stop him, Carter bolted inside the elementary school and I chased after him. He сказал(-а) "come on mommy; I want to Показать Ты my classroom!" I сказал(-а) "you have to hang on because I have to sign Ты in at the office so they know you're here." He grabbed my hand and we walked into the main office of the school. As we stood there waiting in line, I was not at all prepared for everything that was about to happen.
As we reached the counter I signed my signature on a paper that was attached to a clipboard and a mother standing Далее to me asked "are Ты Alanna Jackson?" I passed the clipboard back to the secretary and сказал(-а) "yeah." She immediately asked "will Ты sign my daughters iPod? She's a huge Фан of yours!" I took the pen that was sitting on вверх of the clipboard and signed the rubber iPod case with my signature. She сказал(-а) "thank Ты so much AJ! My daughter is going to freak out when I give this to her when I picked her up later!" I сказал(-а) "no problem; I'm glad I could make her happy."
I grabbed Carter's hand again and we walked out into the hallway. He сказал(-а) as he pulled away "there's my classroom mommy!" I followed him inside the room that was covered with shapes all over the wall. He ran up to a woman who didn't look much older than I am and сказал(-а) "hi miss Lauren!" She bent down in front of him and сказал(-а) "hi Carter; I thought Ты weren't coming to school today!" He сказал(-а) "no; I was! Mommy just was running late this morning!" She сказал(-а) "okay; go put your backpack in your cubby and I'm going to start круг time in about 10 minutes."
I smiled as Carter ran up to a boy and sat down Далее to him. The teacher finally made eye contact with me and сказал(-а) "oh my gosh; I didn't realize that Ты are Carter's mother!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I am. I thought my husband would've told Ты that." She сказал(-а) "he told me that your name is Alanna; but I guess I didn't make the connection between your first name and Carter's last name! I really had no idea it was Ты AJ!" I сказал(-а) "alright; Carter seems to be all set; so I'll pick him up here at the end of the day." She asked "if Ты want to Ты can stay and observe the class?" I сказал(-а) "oh no; I couldn't impose! I'll be back to pick him up at 3 o'clock."
As I walked out of the room, I noticed a sign on the door that сказал(-а) "parents not permitted to stay for еще than five минуты after class has begun." I wrinkled my eyebrows and walked out of the room.
I arrived back at Neverland 15 минуты later and walked through the front door. I put my keys on the counter вверх and went into the living room. As I sat down on the couch, Kyle asked "how do Ты like Carter's school babe?" I сказал(-а) "Carter seems to Любовь it and it looks like he's already starting to make Друзья with the other kids. Something weird happened with the teacher though." Kyle flipped through the TV channels and asked "what happened?" I сказал(-а) "as soon as the teacher figured out that I am a celebrity she started to act all weird! She even asked me if I wanted to stay for the день and watch her teach the class! When I was leaving the classroom I saw a sign on the door that сказал(-а) that the parents aren't allowed to stay in the classroom for еще than five минуты after the teacher starts teaching!" Kyle сказал(-а) "that is weird for her to offer to let Ты do something that's against the rules." I сказал(-а) "I think she's giving me special treatment because I'm famous! What people don't understand is that I'm just a normal person like everyone else and I don't want Carter to be spoiled by the teacher just because I'm a celebrity!" Kyle сказал(-а) "now I understand why your dad wanted to homeschool Ты guys when he was alive because imagine how Ты would've been treated just because he is Michael Jackson! I сказал(-а) "I wonder if I made the wrong decision by letting Carter go to a normal school! Maybe I should just start homeschooling him instead." Kyle сказал(-а) "you can't take him out of school now! He loves it there!" I сказал(-а) "I guess you're right; I just hope all the teachers treat him just like a normal kid because that's what he is! He doesn't need еще attention than the other kids get from the teacher just because I'm Alanna Jackson!"
January 9, 2014,
I was in the studio working on my new album by myself without Frank there because he was busy for the день and I was able to get a lot of work done without him critiquing everything that I sang. I stopped after about four hours of nonstop recording to have the сэндвич, бутерброд that I had picked up earlier this morning.
As I sat down to start eating I noticed a rundown car pulled up in front of the recording studio. As soon as the person got out of the car I recognized who it was. Damien walked up to the door and knocked on it a few times. I was debating whether или not to answer it; but eventually I reluctantly opened the door. He asked "what's up AJ?" I asked "who the hell told Ты that I was at the recording studio?" He сказал(-а) "I called your manager and he told me because he recognized my name when I told him who I was." I сказал(-а) "I really don't have anything to say to you!" He сказал(-а) "I decided to come here a few weeks early; so I wouldn't have to worry about missing the court date. I can't wait to see Carter! How is the little guy?" I сказал(-а) with irritation in my voice "he's not so little anymore!" Damien asked "isn't he like three years old now?" I rolled my eyes and сказал(-а) sarcastically "isn't that just great? Ты don't even know how old your son is!" He asked "how old is he?" I сказал(-а) "five!" He сказал(-а) "I can't wait until I get visitation with him. I miss him!"
I сказал(-а) "quit Актёрское искусство like Ты care! I know Ты don't care about him and Ты are just trying to squeeze as much money from me as Ты can! Don't think for a секунда that I'm going to take it easy on Ты when we're in the courthouse before that judge! I'm going to expose Ты for everything that Ты really are!" He сказал(-а) "good luck with that AJ! The judge always feels bad when a son doesn't have a father in his life!" I сказал(-а) arrogantly "Carter does have a father in his life and he is a whole hell of a lot better father than Ты would ever be!" He сказал(-а) "I don't really like the fact that Ты have your boyfriend around our son without my permission!" I сказал(-а) "he's not my boyfriend; he is my husband and how do Ты expect me to ask your permission if you're never around? You're such a jerk and I can already tell that Ты haven't grown up at all since the last time I saw you!" He сказал(-а) "okay; I'm going to leave because I want to save all the good fighting for when I kick your жопа, попка in court!" I сказал(-а) "we'll see about that when the день comes!"
Immediately after Damien left the recording studio, I got in my truck and drove back to the ranch. I went inside and upstairs to the bedroom. I sat down on the постель, кровати Далее to Kyle and he asked "how did work go today?" I raised my eyebrows and сказал(-а) with a smirk on my face "you'll never guess who I saw today!" He asked "who?" I сказал(-а) "Damien!" He сказал(-а) "Damien; what is he doing here in California so soon? The court дата isn't for three еще weeks!" I сказал(-а) "I know; he сказал(-а) that he was coming out here ahead of time to make sure that he didn't miss the court date!" Kyle laughed and asked "how hard is it for Damien to make sure he’s here in time for court?" I сказал(-а) "I imagine it will be pretty damn hard for him because I can guarantee Ты he is going to get hammered drunk the night before the court дата and have a hangover when and if he decides to Показать up!" Kyle said" he seems like a real jerk!" I сказал(-а) as I laughed "he was Актёрское искусство all cocky and started complaining about how I should have asked him for his permission before I let Ты around Carter!"
Kyle and I both looked at each other and burst out laughing. Kyle сказал(-а) "that's the most ridiculous load of crap I have ever heard in my life! The guy who drinks all день long and has a different girlfriend every two weeks is going to complain about me being around his son!" I сказал(-а) "trust me babe; I was thinking the same thing! I should probably warn Ты ahead of time that Damien is probably going to make fun of your British accent just to get a reaction out of you! He doesn't have a lot to go on to plead his case to the judge; so he'll take whatever he can get that's going to make him look better than us!" Kyle сказал(-а) "don't worry AJ; he doesn't scare me!"
February 19, 2014,
Kyle and I pulled up in front of the Santa Barbara County Courthouse dressed in business Форс-мажоры and I took a deep breath. Kyle put his hand on my shoulder and сказал(-а) "everything is going to be fine babe!" We got out of the truck and walked up to my lawyer Kenny. I held Kyle's hand as we walked inside and saw Damien sitting on a bench outside the courtroom wearing a casual T-shirt and baggy jeans with his underwear showing. I shook my head in disbelief and Kyle was thinking the exact same thing as me.
Damien's court appointed lawyer talked with Kenny for about 10 минуты before we were allowed to enter the courtroom. Kyle sat down Далее to me at the таблица opposite of Damien's таблица and our lawyer opened his briefcase. My hands started sweating vigorously as I held onto Kyle's hand and he whispered "everything's going to be okay babe." Kyle's eyes met with Damien's as they saw each other for the first time. Damien snarled his upper lip at Kyle and Kyle just looked away as he shook his head in disbelief.
A male judge sat down behind the podium and hit his gavel on it. The bailiff read aloud "judge Marion Jones presiding over the case of Damien Adam Hayes versus Alanna Michael Jackson in a custody hearing for the child hereby stated as Carter Shawn Jackson. Ты may proceed." Judge Marion сказал(-а) "okay; I would like to begin with an opening statement and/or Вопросы by Mr. Hayes's lawyer for any parties involved. Damien's lawyer сказал(-а) "thank Ты Your Honor."
He walked over to our таблица and asked "have Ты been supportive in creating a healthy father-son relationship between Carter and Damien?" I looked at my lawyer to make sure it was okay to answer and сказал(-а) "all I can do is try and I tried for a long time!" He asked "what sort of things did Ты try in terms of supporting that relationship between the two of them?" I сказал(-а) "the one time he did Показать up I tried to get him involved in caring for our son." The lawyer asked "and how did that experience go? Please try to answer without criticizing Damien's character." I looked at my lawyer confused and he сказал(-а) "your honor that Вопрос is impossible to answer due to the fact that the child's father was never interested in bonding with his son in any way." Damien's lawyer asked "okay then; what is your current relationship like with Damien at this very moment?" I said" I've only seen him a total of three times since Carter has been born." He сказал(-а) "I understand that Ты and Damien had several sexual encounters after the time of the child's birth; is this true?" I sarcastically smiled as I shook my head in disbelief and сказал(-а) "that is a complete and utter lie!" Damien's lawyer asked "so what you're telling me is that Ты and Damien never had relations after the child's conception?" I quickly glanced over at Damien and сказал(-а) "we did once; the день after Carter's first birthday." The judge сказал(-а) "these Вопросы are completely irrelevant to the matter of custody; Переместить on Sir!"
Damien's lawyer asked "is it true that Ты yourself have a past filled with underage drinking?" I reluctantly сказал(-а) "yes sir." He asked "when was the last time Ты consumed any alcohol?" I had to think about it for a минута because it was so long назад and сказал(-а) "if I'm remembering correctly the summer of 2008." He asked "have Ты had any altercations with the police since the child has been alive?" I сказал(-а) "I don't know what Ты consider an altercation with the police; but I do get the occasional speeding ticket." He asked "have Ты been charged with these speeding tickets while Carter is in the vehicle?" I сказал(-а) "I would never go over the speed with Carter in the car Sir!" He asked "is it true that Ты have since gotten married?" I сказал(-а) "yes sir." Damien's lawyer looked over at Kyle and asked "do Ты feel that Ты and Alanna have created a healthy environment for her son to be growing up in?" Kyle сказал(-а) "yes sir." He asked "do Ты feel like Ты and Alanna model a healthy relationship between the two of Ты in front of Carter?" Kyle сказал(-а) "very healthy Sir!" Damien's lawyer сказал(-а) "that's all the Вопросы I have for them Your Honor; Ты may continue."
My lawyer began to interrogate Damien starting with asking "is it true that Ты abandoned Alanna and your unborn child without even giving any notice?" Damien responded "yeah; but I had my reasons for doing that!" My lawyer asked "what would be your reasoning for that? How do Ты justify leaving a 14-year-old girl who just found out she was pregnant to fend for herself?" Damien сказал(-а) arrogantly "she wasn't completely on her own! She had Michael there for help and my mother would visit from time to time!" The lawyer asked "is it true that Ты had problems with underage drinking as well?" Damien сказал(-а) "I have in the past; but I attend Alcoholics Anonymous on a weekly basis currently."
I looked over at Kyle and whispered "oh that is such бык crap!" Kyle whispered back "let him say whatever he wants to say because in the end he is only making it harder on himself!" My lawyer asked "how come Ты have not paid a single penny for any of Carter's necessities since he has been alive?" Damien responded "AJ makes millions of dollars; so I didn't think it really mattered!" The lawyer responded "just because she makes millions of dollars doesn't mean that Ты shouldn't be held accountable for your responsibilities to your son!" Damien сказал(-а) "yeah well; I don't agree with the fact that AJ's boyfriend или husband или whatever the hell he is to her is allowed to be around Carter without my consent!"
I raised my hand and the judge allowed me to see what I was going to say. I сказал(-а) "I apologize your honor; but Damien doesn't deserve the right to have his opinion heard! I'm not trying to glorify Kyle because he is imperfect just like everyone else on this earth; but he does everything that Damien should be или should have been doing this entire time! He watches him all день long for me while I'm at work! He picks Carter up and drops him off at school most days because I am unable to due to my work schedule! Kyle pretty much single-handedly taught Carter how to use the toilet; including waking up at night with him! Damien; if Ты want to criticize someone's parenting go ahead and pick on me instead of Kyle because he's willing to do everything and anything for Carter and I wish I could say the same thing for you; but I can't!"
The judge сказал(-а) "here's what I'm going to do, we're going to do a trial weekend with Carter and Damien together! In order for that to happen, Damien needs to be held accountable for paying some sort of child support! If after the weekend is over and Damien still has not paid any sort of child support then he will be forced to serve four months in jail and all his parental rights will be terminated; am I understood Mr. Hayes?" Damien shook his head in agreement and Judge Marion сказал(-а) "courts adjourned!"
As we were walking out of the courthouse and over to the truck, we noticed that Damien's car was parked right Далее to us. I opened up the truck door as Damien walked to his car and сказал(-а) "I'm one step closer to 50-50 custody AJ; which means you'll have to pay me child support just like I'll have to pay you!" Kyle сказал(-а) under his breath "just shut up!" Damien сказал(-а) as he puffed out his chest trying to act tough "what did Ты say Ты British butt kisser?" I looked at Kyle as I gently pushed him into the truck and сказал(-а) "don't listen to him babe! He's just doing that to get a reaction out of you!"
I hurried to start the truck and I stuck my middle finger out the window at Damien as we drove off. As we started our half-hour journey back to Neverland where Prince was babysitting Carter for us I started to tear up. Kyle asked "why do Ты look like you're about to cry babe?" I сказал(-а) "I just realized that Damien's going to have Carter all by himself for an entire weekend! In a way; Damien is getting what he wanted this entire time!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I highly doubt that after this first visit with Carter that we'll have to worry about Damien anymore!" I сказал(-а) as I grabbed Kyle’s hand "it made me so mad when Damien wanted to complain about Ты being around Carter! I couldn't hold my tongue any longer! I just had to say something! If it wasn't for you; I wouldn't have millions and millions of dollars for Damien to try to squeeze out of me! Don't get me wrong; I Любовь Carter to death! I just don’t understand why I had to lose my virginity to such an immature deadbeat dad! Sometimes I just wish that I would've gotten pregnant with your baby and have Carter be yours because I know Ты wouldn't leave me! I mean; any guy who wants to deal with all this drama every день for the rest of his life all for a kid that isn't even his must have some real balls!" Kyle chuckled and сказал(-а) "it's so worth it because every день I get to hear Carter say 'daddy; I Любовь you! Daddy; am I your good boy! Daddy; will Ты fix my toy for me? Daddy; I want to be just like Ты when I grow up and be the best daddy in the whole wide world!" I started crying even harder and asked "Carter really says all that stuff to you?" Kyle сказал(-а) "oh yeah; when he was a little over three he used to follow me around wearing his fake tool ремень, пояс, пояса and tried to copy what I was fixing!" I grabbed Kyle's hand and сказал(-а) "I know that Damien's going to screw up this one weekend taking care of Carter on his own; so I can't wait until he is out of our lives for good!" Kyle laughed and I asked "what's so funny?" Kyle сказал(-а) "I kind of wish that Damien didn't wait until Carter was five to do this whole weekend alone taking care of him because it would've been funny to send him with Carter when he was a baby! We would've had some really funny stuff to laugh at imagining Damien waking up every 15 минуты like Ты had to! Damien's going to have a pretty easy weekend with Carter because all he has to do is sit him in front of the TV that entire time!"
February 22, 2014,
Kyle whispered in my ear as I stared at Carter watching TV "Damien's going to be here in a half час to pick up Carter for the weekend! Ты still haven't told Carter that I'm not his father and that his real father is going to be picking him up any minute! Ты have to tell him AJ!" I сказал(-а) "I know I do Kyle; but this is going to be hard for me! That's why I waited so long!"
I walked into the living room and сказал(-а) "Carter; I need to talk to Ты about something buddy!" He asked "what's wrong mommy?" I сказал(-а) "you know that daddy loves Ты very much; but he's not your real daddy." Carter asked "what do Ты mean he is not my real daddy?" I couldn't even respond to him as I stared blankly into his eyes. Kyle сказал(-а) "mommy had another boyfriend before she met me and he's your daddy Carter." I сказал(-а) "he's coming to pick Ты up in a few минуты and you're going to spend the weekend with him." Carter сказал(-а) as a car pulled up in front of the gate "you're going with me; aren't Ты mommy?" I сказал(-а) "I'm not Carter."
Kyle opened the door as Carter jumped into my arms and grabbed onto me with a death grip. I hugged him and carried him outside to the driveway with Kyle walking behind me. I slowly walked up to Damien who was sitting in his car with a police officer standing Далее to him outside the car. Carter cried hysterically into my shoulder and Damien got out of the car. I сказал(-а) as I continuously patted Carter's back "did Ты really need to have the police officer here Damien?" Damien сказал(-а) as he mocked to me "I wanted to make sure that Ты went through with giving him to me because this is court ordered and if Ты didn't let me take him from Ты it would be against the law!"
I сказал(-а) "okay Carter; Damien's going to take Ты for the weekend now." Carter protested at the вверх of his lungs "NO; MOMMY I DON'T WANT TO GO!!! PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME!!!” I сказал(-а) as I started to tear up while desperately trying to hold it together so Carter wasn't scared еще than he already was "I have to!!!" The police officer сказал(-а) "you need to hurry up Mrs. Jackson because I have places that I need to be!"
As I tried passing Carter from my arms to Damien's, Kyle reluctantly had to pry Carter's fingers from around my neck and Damien buckled him into the car seat. Carter screamed "PLEASE SAVE ME DADDY!!!" Damien looked Carter in his eyes and сказал(-а) sternly "stop calling him that! He's not your daddy; I am!" I could see the look of pure terror in Carter's eyes as he immediately сказал(-а) "I'm sorry." Kyle сказал(-а) as he leaned into the car window "I swear to God if anything happens to him; your жопа, попка is mine!!!" Damien just rolled up to his window and followed behind the police officer in the cop car.
I immediately fell to my knees and started crying hysterically. Kyle grabbed onto me and started crying into my shoulder. I сказал(-а) in between sobs "I can't do this every weekend! There's just no way!!! Carter wanted me to go with him and I can't believe that he is going to be alone with Damien without any supervision for an entire weekend! CARTER DOESN'T EVEN KNOW DAMIEN!!!" I tried desperately to stand up; but my nerves wouldn't let me. Kyle literally had to carry me inside because if he didn't I would've been out there crying all night long on the driveway!
Kyle sat down on the диван, мягкий уголок as I sat on his lap and cried into my hands. Kyle сказал(-а) with tears in his eyes "he wanted me to rescue him and I have to admit that if the police officer wasn't standing right there I would have!" Kyle moved the back of my рубашка down and сказал(-а) "there are marks on your back from Carter digging his fingernails into your skin!!!" I сказал(-а) "that doesn't surprise me! He was holding on to me for dear life!!!" Kyle сказал(-а) as he wiped the tears that were streaming down his face "this is going to be the longest weekend ever babe!!!" I сказал(-а) "I want Carter to come back now!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I do too!"
February 24, 2014,
I сказал(-а) out loud "Damien better hurry up and get here because I've been waiting all weekend to see my son!" Kyle held my hand as Damien pulled up in front of the house. I ran up to the car and without saying a word to Damien, I took Carter out of the car. Damien looked at Carter and smiled before getting a serious expression on his face. He stared at Carter and sternly сказал(-а) "don't forget what I said!" With that, Damien sped off down the road and I ran towards Kyle with the biggest smile on my face. Kyle сказал(-а) as we walked inside the house "mommy and me missed Ты so much Carter!" I kissed Carter's cheek and asked "did Ты have fun?" Carter looked at me as his body physically shook in my arms. I asked with a confused look on my face "what's wrong Carter?"
Before I could get an answer from him, I felt something warm running down my leg and wrinkled my eyebrows. Kyle сказал(-а) "ummm look babe!!!" I looked down at the ground to see that I was standing in a yellow puddle. Carter immediately burst out crying and сказал(-а) "I'M SO SORRY MOMMY!!!" I сказал(-а) sympathetically "it's alright Carter! I'm not mad at you! We'll just change your clothes because Ты need to take a bath anyway!!!"
The three of us went up to Kyle and I’s bedroom. Kyle started the water in the bathtub in our bedroom's bathroom and I quickly took off my baggy jeans. I changed into a pair of pajama pants. Kyle сказал(-а) "okay Carter; you're all set! Mommy and I will come back in a few минуты to wash your hair."
As Kyle walked into the bedroom I watched as Carter walked into the bathroom shaking with his pants completely soaked and shut the door. Kyle sat down Далее to me on the edge of the постель, кровати and сказал(-а) "that was surprising!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I know! Carter hasn't peed in his pants since he was three!!!" Even if he did have an accident; he would've never gone all over me!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I wonder why he keeps shaking so badly!"
I opened the bathroom door and walked inside with Kyle behind me. Carter continued to shake as I knelt down in front of the tub to wash his hair. The секунда I touched Carter's head he flinched and I asked "what's wrong sweetheart? Why are Ты shaking like that Carter?" He сказал(-а) something that completely confused me "you can hit me if Ты want to mommy! I shouldn't have had an accident!" I сказал(-а) "no; I'm not going to hit you! Where would Ты come up with such a crazy idea like that from Carter? I've never ever hit Ты before and I never ever would hit you; ever!!!!!!!!" I heard Kyle whisper "that son of a bitch; I'm going to fucking kick his ass!!!"
I looked at Kyle with a puzzled expression on my face and asked "what the heck are Ты talking about and why haven't Ты blinked your eyes in the last five minutes? What are Ты staring at Kyle?" Kyle had rage in his eyes like Ты wouldn't believe as he pointed at Carter's back. I leaned backwards and couldn't believe my eyes as I saw an almost a perfect outline of a hand print in red on Carter's back!!! I asked severely concerned "Carter; did Damien hit you?" Carter uncontrollably shook and stuttered as he сказал(-а) "I – I – I'm not supposed to say anything!!!" I сказал(-а) "I'm going to kill Damien!!!"
After Carter got dressed he сказал(-а) "I think Damien still has my bag of clothes with him in his car mommy!" I сказал(-а) calmly as I pulled the covers back on his постель, кровати "that's okay; we'll get them!" He climbed into постель, кровати and I covered him up before lying down Далее to him. Kyle came in and knelt down on the side of the bed. I asked "Carter; why did Damien hit you?" Carter сказал(-а) "I told Ты that I can't say anything!" I asked "why not?" He responded "because Damien сказал(-а) if I ever told anyone that he would kill both Ты and daddy when you're sleeping!!!!!" I сказал(-а) "he won't kill us Carter; I promise!!!" Kyle сказал(-а) as he held onto Kyle's hand "I won't let that happen Carter; but Ты need to tell us why Damien hit you!" Carter сказал(-а) "he was Актёрское искусство really weird because he was drinking this drink and he tripped over me because I was playing with my race cars on the floor! He was yelling bad words at me and then hit me because I wasn't moving out of the way fast enough!"
My сердце broke into 1 million pieces as I tried to imagine how terrified Carter must've been! I shook my head in disgust and kissed the вверх of Carter's head. I asked "can I ask Ты something Carter?" He сказал(-а) "yeah mommy." I asked "did Ты wet your pants because Ты thought daddy and I would hit you?" Carter сказал(-а) "mostly that's why; but Damien didn't let me go to the bathroom before we left the hotel to come back here and by the time we got into the house I couldn't hold it anymore! I really am sorry mommy!" I сказал(-а) "you don't have to be sorry Carter! It wasn't your fault! When Ты have to go Ты have too! Kyle сказал(-а) as he stroked Carter's fingers "yeah; it's no big deal buddy! I actually thought it was pretty funny that Ты peed all over mommy!" Carter started cracking up and Kyle сказал(-а) "we want Ты to know that neither mommy nor I would ever hurt Ты like Damien did!" I сказал(-а) "I promise Ты that we will NEVER hit Ты Carter; no matter what Ты do!!!"
We could hear the noise of the doorbell ringing from downstairs and I turned the volume up on Carter's TV to muffle any noise just in case it was Damien downstairs! I shut Carter's bedroom door as Kyle bolted down the steps after looking out the window. I chased after him after seeing that Damien was the one ringing the doorbell.
I ran past Kyle and swung open the door. Damien was about to pass me Carter's backpack full of clothes when I pulled him inside and pushed him to the ground. Damien asked arrogantly "what the fuck is your problem?" I сказал(-а) "don't act like Ты don't know!" Damien whispered "oh; that little snitch! He wasn't supposed to say anything!" I сказал(-а) "HE'S FREAKING FIVE YEARS OLD DAMIEN!!! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?" He сказал(-а) "what's wrong with me? What about what's wrong with Ты AJ? You're the one overreacting and being a сука for no reason!" Kyle shouted at the вверх of his lungs "WHAT THE HELL DID Ты JUST CALL HER?" Damien сказал(-а) arrogantly as he smiled "you heard me right! AJ is just some сука that I screwed around with once and that's all she'll ever be to me!" I сказал(-а) as I threw my hands up in the air "oh my God Damien! I'm the mother of your son and all Ты can call me is a bitch!" Kyle сказал(-а) "CALL HER THAT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS!!!" Damien asked "why? What are Ты going to do about it?"
I gave Kyle a look of carelessness as I сказал(-а) "go right ahead babe; I'm not going to stop you!" Before Damien even had time to react, Kyle decked him in the side of his face so hard that when he fell his head went right through the drywall. I laughed harder than I had ever laughed before as Damien looked up at Kyle as if he was a scared щенок dog! Kyle asked as he looked down at Damien "would Ты like some еще because there's plenty еще where that came from?" Damien rapidly shook his head in disapproval and Kyle сказал(-а) "I'm giving Ты until the count of three to get the hell out of this house before I change my mind; one, two –!"
I fell to the ground in hysterical laughter as Damien stumbled out of the house and down the улица, уличный holding his head. Kyle shut the door and сказал(-а) "I don't think we'll have to worry about him for a long time babe!" Kyle helped me off the ground and I сказал(-а) while still trying to catch my breath "you freaking scared the crap out of him Kyle! That was the most hilarious thing I have ever seen in my life! The look on his face was priceless! I wish I had my camera with me!" Kyle сказал(-а) "he obviously doesn't have any respect for women if he talks to them like that! I wasn't about to let him stand here and call Ты a сука over and over again! He doesn't treat Ты like he should because Ты are the mother of his son! Now that that's over with, let's go upstairs and watch TV with OUR son!"
February 25, 2014,
Carter has been stuck to me like glue since Damien dropped him off yesterday. He doesn't want to be alone no matter what. We were eating ужин and Carter didn't seem like his usual self. He has hardly touched his Еда and he asked "is Damien going to come pick me up this coming weekend mommy?" I сказал(-а) "he's supposed to." Carter сказал(-а) with a worried expression on his face "I don't want to go with him again!" I сказал(-а) "don't worry Carter; I'm not going to let him take you!" Carter asked "isn't it against the law for Ты to keep me from going with Damien? Won't Ты get in trouble?" I сказал(-а) "I don't care if I get in trouble Carter! I'm not going to risk Ты going over there unsupervised and being hit again! I don't think Damien is going to Показать up; but if he does then I'm going with Ты Carter!"
Kyle сказал(-а) "I highly doubt that he will actually Показать up after what I did to him yesterday!" I сказал(-а) "I think it's ridiculous that he even wants to have Carter on the weekends because Ты and I both know that Damien isn't spending time with him! It's really a waste of my time with Carter because I don't get to spend a lot of time with him either!”
March 2, 2014,
Carter was waiting for Damien to pick him up for the weekend and I had my bags packed because I had fully planned to go with them for safety reasons. An час and a half past and Damien still hadn't arrived and we figured that he wasn't going to Показать up because of the huge fight that happened last weekend.
I was upstairs in the bedroom watching TV with Kyle went I noticed Damien quickly drive up to the mailbox outside the gate and drop something inside. He sped off without even getting out of his car and I сказал(-а) "I wonder what he dropped in the mailbox Kyle." Kyle responded "I'll go check; be right back." I watched out the window as Kyle went down and outside to the mailbox.
After grabbing the small white envelope, he made his way back up to our bedroom and passed me what he had retrieved. I was really reluctant to open the envelope because it's usually something bad inside. I pulled out what appeared to be a letter written in Damien's terrible handwriting. I read aloud so Kyle could hear "I obviously can't handle Ты and how bitchy Ты are AJ! I don't know what Ты want from me! One минута Ты want me to be there for Carter and the Далее минута Ты don't! I'm done with Ты and your games and have decided to be very selfless! I went to the courthouse and signed a document that terminated all of my parental rights to Carter as his father. I hope you're happy and I want Ты to know that every kid deserves to be smacked around every once in a while! I don't feel bad about hitting Carter at all and I never will! At least, now Ты know where I stand! The only thing I want from Ты now is to keep in contact with my mother because she would be totally devastated if Ты cut Carter out of her life! I don't Любовь him; but she does and it wouldn't be fair to her! I hope Ты have a good life with that meathead husband of yours! PS, it was always about the money! I told Ты that I didn't care about Carter from the very beginning! Say whatever Ты want about me because I obviously don't care what Ты think about my ability to be a good father! I never wanted to be a father and according to the legal termination of my parental rights I'm not a father!"
I сказал(-а) "well; I guess we don't have to worry about Damien anymore!" Kyle сказал(-а) "he is such an idiot; I mean seriously? He is still trying to justify why he hit Carter! At least he admitted that all he was trying to do was get money from Ты and that he never intended to have a good relationship with Carter!"
March 21, 2014,
Frank leaned over my shoulder as we went on to iTunes.com to see the results of how my new album "footprints of my father" is selling. I smiled as I сказал(-а) "I'm number one on the iTunes вверх 10! I beat Bieber; even after all this time has gone by!" Frank high-fived me and сказал(-а) "I bet Ты already know what I'm thinking!" I сказал(-а) "I really don't want to go on tour right now! It was hard enough leaving Carter the first time! Now I'll have to leave Kyle and Carter here! Just when I thought everything was going to calm down; this happens! I still have plenty of money coming in from merchandise sales!" Frank сказал(-а) "yeah; but it's nowhere near as much as Ты earn when you're on tour! I'm telling Ты that Ты will make double the cash Ты made with your last tour! That was your debut album and people want еще from Ты apparently! I think Ты should really consider it because Ты don't want to start losing fans! Alright; well I have to head out. I'll call Ты in a couple of days to hear what Ты decided to do! If I were Ты I would do it! It would be a really good financial investment for Ты and your family because Ты have to remember that you're not only doing this for yourself anymore! This is your job and your way of providing for your family! You're the only income; so it's all on your shoulders! It's up to Ты to make sure that Kyle, Carter, and Ты are able to keep up the lifestyle you've become accustomed to! Ты think you're living the perfect life right now; but wait until $30,000 feels like nothing because Ты make so much money! I'm telling Ты that going on tour in the near future is one of the best decisions that Ты could possibly make! No pressure; just sleep on it kid and I'll give Ты a call in a few days!"
After Frank left, Kyle came downstairs and сказал(-а) "hey AJ!" I said" I need to talk to Ты about something." He сказал(-а) "that's good because I needed to talk to Ты about something too; Ты go first!" I сказал(-а) "Frank thinks it's a good idea that I go on tour again to bring in tons of cash. I kind of want to; but I really don't want to travel all over the world!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I think Ты should go on tour! It will be good for Ты because you've been on mommy duty for a little over three years! Ты kind of disappeared out of the public eye! I don't want people to forget who Ты are because I know how much Ты Любовь being a musician! That's been your dream and I don't want Ты to give up on it! I don't care what it takes! I'll be here to watch Carter that entire time that you’re away on tour! Your happiness is the most important thing to me AJ! I just want Ты to go out there and find Ты again because I think you're starting to lose yourself as a person! It's okay that Ты need a break! You're losing your identity as a person! Ты do too much for everyone else and not enough for yourself! It's time to start taking care of you! I've got Carter handled; there's no reason to worry about him!" I asked "are Ты sure about this because if Ты are I'm going to call Frank right now and tell him to start booking концерт dates?" Kyle сказал(-а) "yes AJ; don't worry about us!"
After calling Frank and telling him to start setting up plans for my Далее tour, I asked Kyle "what did Ты want to talk to me about?" He сказал(-а) "never mind babe." I сказал(-а) "no; just tell me! I want to know!" He сказал(-а) "since I can't get Ты pregnant naturally; I was thinking we could think about adopting a child." I thought about it for a few минуты before saying "that doesn't actually sound like that bad of an idea! I think Carter would like to have a little brother или sister. If Ты want to go ahead and start looking into the paperwork and stuff that goes along with adoption; Ты can. It'll give Ты something to do while Carter is at school and I'm away on tour." Kyle сказал(-а) "I heard that there's a lot of paperwork to fill out; so it could take up to eight months before adoption agencies can start matching us with available kids."
April 26, 2014
I ran frantically for my cell phone as it continuously rang playing my Jesse McCartney ring tone. I looked at the caller ID to see that it was Frank and answered the phone by saying "hello." He сказал(-а) "I just got off the phone with some tour promoters and they told me they want to start the tour on December 29 of this year! Starting in Los Angeles, all around the world and completely global this time! Dubai, Japan, China, Switzerland, just pretty much every significant country Ты can think of!" I сказал(-а) "December 29; that's only four days after Christmas! Don't Ты think that's asking too much of me to leave Kyle and Carter right after the holidays?" Frank сказал(-а) "I know it's going to be hard for Ты AJ; but just think of how much money you'll make and how extremely lavish your lifestyle will be with all that cash in your pocket! Sometimes in life, Ты have to do things that Ты don't want to do just because that's best for everyone around you! The promoters are dead set on December 29th being the first концерт of your tour!" I сказал(-а) "fine; but only because I don't have any other choice!"
Without even saying goodbye to me, Frank hung up the phone and Kyle asked "what was he so excited about? I could hear him screaming from all the way over here!" I сказал(-а) "apparently, he just got done talking with the концерт promoters and they want me on tour at the end of this year!" He сказал(-а) "that sounds awesome AJ! Why don't Ты seem excited?" I сказал(-а) "I don't know; I guess I just wasn't expecting Frank to Переместить so quickly with getting the tour up and running!" Kyle asked "should we tell Carter that Ты are going to be going on tour again?" I сказал(-а) "we will; eventually! I just don't want to upset him right now because I have a feeling that he's not going to like being separated pretty much entirely from me for nine long months! He was only a baby last time I left; so I don't even think he remembers what it's like to not have me there! I sure as hell remember what it was like not being able to be with him every single день and I'm not looking вперед to it at all!" Kyle сказал(-а) "it will be hard on all of us; but it's for the best and I promise that we'll Skype Ты all the time!" I сказал(-а) "that will definitely help; but it's not same as being able to hug Ты guys anytime I want to! I just hope that I'm not asking Ты to do too much while I'm away! It's going to be a lot for Ты to handle!" He сказал(-а) "don't worry about it AJ; it's not too much for me! Besides, I still have that life-size cardboard cutout of Ты in my closet just in case I get lonely!" I playfully slapped his arm as I сказал(-а) "shut up; you're obsessed with that cardboard cutout! I still think that thing is creepy and it better not be standing in the кухня when I get back!"
October 31, 2014,
Carter сказал(-а) "trick-or-treat" as he stood in front of one of the million dollar houses in our neighborhood dressed as the оранжевый ninja turtle. After getting his candy, I сказал(-а) "okay Carter; we're going to go Главная now. Daddy and I want to talk to Ты about something on the walk back to the house." I looked at Kyle with a depressed look on my face and he put his hand on my shoulder.
We walked down the улица, уличный and I kicked pebbles with my feet as I looked down at the ground waiting for the right moment. I сказал(-а) "Carter; I'm going to be going on tour again." Carter got excited and сказал(-а) "I can't wait to go with Ты and daddy all over the world!" I sighed and сказал(-а) "you and daddy are going to stay here!" He asked "what do Ты mean mommy? Ты can't leave me here! I need to go with Ты because I'll miss Ты too much!" I сказал(-а) "I wish I could take Ты Carter; but I just can't!" He сказал(-а) "it's not going to be any fun here with just daddy!" Kyle joked "what am I chopped liver; compared to mommy?" Carter сказал(-а) "mommy's еще fun than Ты are daddy." I laughed and сказал(-а) "he just dissed Ты Kyle!" Kyle joked "I see how it is Carter; mommy is the favorite! I'll have to remember that Далее time when Ты want me to help Ты tie your shoes!"
December 20, 2014,
I finished wrapping Carter's Рождество presents on the постель, кровати and Kyle came out of the bathroom wearing just his boxers. I looked over and crossed yet another день off of my calendar. I sighed and сказал(-а) "only eight еще days left!" Kyle сказал(-а) "nine straight months with no sex! I сказал(-а) "I have a feeling that I'm not going to be in the mood after tonight because I'll be really depressed! Ты better make tonight count!" He turned on the radio and сказал(-а) "trust me; it will be worth it!"
As we lay there with our bodies pressed up against each other, "stay" by Рианна came on the radio station. "I want Ты to stay, stay, I want Ты to stay" blared through the speakers as Kyle pulled away from our passionate make out session. He saw a single tear run down my face and asked "I'm not hurting you; am I?" I сказал(-а) "no; I'm fine!" He rolled off of me and сказал(-а) "no you're not; you're crying! If I'm hurting Ты then just tell me!" I сказал(-а) "you're not hurting me Kyle!" He asked "then why are Ты crying?" I сказал(-а) "BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE!" He asked while continuing what he had stopped "then why are you?" I сказал(-а) "I don't have a choice! I have to provide for Ты guys because I'm the only income! Besides, I can't let all my Фаны down! I Любовь performing; but I just wish Frank didn't just throw all of this on my lap!" I already have enough pressure as it is; let alone with him criticizing everything I do! I don't want to talk about this anymore because it's going to get me out of the mood! There's nothing we can do about it; it is what it is! Now if Ты don't mind, can we just get back to the Любовь because that's all either of us are going to be getting for nine months?"
Afterwards, I rolled over with my back to Kyle and my arms crossed as I slipped my clothes back on. Kyle сказал(-а) "I didn't mean to make Ты mad AJ!" I сказал(-а) "well; Ты succeeded!" He сказал(-а) "we still haven't had our first fight yet and I don't want to start now!" I сказал(-а) "then I suggest that Ты leave me alone!" He fastened the buttons on his рубашка and сказал(-а) "fine; if that's what Ты want then I'll leave Ты alone just to avoid getting into a fight with Ты because I want this to be a fight free marriage. I Любовь Ты AJ and I'm sorry." I сказал(-а) as I rolled back over facing towards him "I can't stay mad at you! The entire time I was facing the other direction I was smiling and trying not to laugh!"
December 29, 2014,
I stood there in my tour bus in front of Neverland and looked around. Kyle сказал(-а) "okay Carter; we have to get off the bus now." Carter wrapped his arms around my neck and wouldn't let go when I tried to put him down. He screamed "no mommy; I'M GOING WITH YOU!!!" I сказал(-а) "you can't Carter! It's not going to be as fun as Ты think it is being on tour! I'm working all the time and I wouldn't be able to spend time with Ты either way! I promise Ты that I'll get on Skype every день with Ты guys!" I tried to put him down again and he still refused to let go. I сказал(-а) "I could use a little help here Kyle!"
Kyle pried Carter away from me as he continued to scream at the вверх of his lungs. He cried as he protested "LET ME GO DADDY! I'M STAYING ON THIS BUS!" Kyle turned his face as Carter continuously flailed his arms all over the place trying to get out of his grip. Kyle сказал(-а) "I would hug Ты AJ; but as Ты can see my hands are pretty full at the moment. I whispered in his ear "that's okay; I'll see Ты at the концерт and I can hug Ты there! Don't forget to drop off Ты know who at my grandmother's!" I kissed Carter who was still relentlessly trying to grab hold of me. As I pulled away he grabbed my hair and I сказал(-а) while laughing "OUCH; KYLE HURRY UP AND GET OUT OF HERE BECAUSE HE'S RIPPING THE HAIR OUT OF MY HEAD!"
As we made our way to the arena in the tour bus, Frank asked "are Ты okay kid? Ты look pale!" I wiped the sweat off of my forehead and сказал(-а) "yeah; I think it's just nerves! It's been over three years since I've performed on tour!" He сказал(-а) "you're just like your dad; once Ты get out on that stage all your nerves will disappear!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; you're probably right!"
A half час before the концерт starts, I sat backstage on the диван, мягкий уголок with my hand on my forehead. I looked in the mirror to see that I was pale as a ghost and drenched with sweat. Frank asked "are Ты sure you're feeling okay AJ?" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I'm fine! I'll get over whatever is going on! It's these stupid nerves getting –."
Before I could finish the sentence, I ran off to the bathroom and violently started throwing up. Frank knocked on the door and сказал(-а) "I've never seen Ты this nervous before! Everything is going to be just fine! Your Фаны Любовь Ты and the dedicated Фаны will always be there; no matter what!" I stood up and walked out of the bathroom as I сказал(-а) "you're right Frank; I don't know what's gotten into me! I'm never usually this nervous! It must be because Kyle's going to be here watching me tonight."
There was a knock at the door and Frank сказал(-а) "speaking of Kyle; I think he's here!" Frank opened the door and Kyle immediately noticed my appearance. He put his hand on my forehead and сказал(-а) "you don't feel warm; but Ты look awful babe!" I laughed it off and сказал(-а) "thanks for the compliment!" He сказал(-а) "I'm serious AJ! Ты look terrible!" I gently pushed him out of the way and сказал(-а) "come on; Ты can sit on the edge of the stage where the backup dancers come in from! You'll be able to see better than anyone else that way! He сказал(-а) "I don't think Ты should go out there AJ!" I asked "would Ты just relax; I'm fine! My Фаны are waiting for me and once I get out there and started Пение again my anxiety will go away!"
***30 секунды before the концерт entrance***
I sat there in the stage тостер with my hands on my head trying not to think about how bad my stomach was turning. My head continuously pounded with the sound of the loud screaming. I was catapulted onto the stage and that's when I realized something was seriously wrong with me! The room just felt like it was spinning out of control and I fell to the ground with a bang that was heard loud and clear by the microphone I wore over my head. The last thing I remember was the thousands of Фаны letting out gasps as I saw Kyle run to my side.
***
I opened my eyes and the first thing I saw was Kyle's face. I looked around the room and asked "where are we?" He сказал(-а) "in the hospital babe." I asked as I sat up at the edge of the постель, кровати "what happened?" He сказал(-а) "the doctors don't really know yet! They just ran some tests down to the lab! They сказал(-а) Ты could have collapsed from dehydration; but then I told them how much stress Ты have been putting on yourself lately! They are pretty sure that that's what caused Ты to pass out!"
A female doctor came into the room and shook my hand. She sat down in a chair and сказал(-а) "it seems like the stress you've been under is really affecting your health! That's еще than likely what caused Ты to black out. If Ты don't mind, I'm going to ask Ты a few questions." I rubbed my eyes and сказал(-а) "go ahead." She asked "have Ты been sleeping okay?" I сказал(-а) "yeah; nothing out of the ordinary." She asked "what about eating?" I сказал(-а) "just my typical foods that I eat while preparing for my tour." She asked "how far along are you?" I сказал(-а) "with the tour; this is the very first concert." She сказал(-а) "no, no, not with the tour. How far along are you?" Kyle and I looked at each other in confusion and I сказал(-а) "I'm sorry; I don't quite understand what you're asking me." She asked "how far along is the baby?" Kyle and I asked in unison with completely confused looks on our faces "what baby?" She сказал(-а) "I'm sorry; I thought Ты knew that you're pregnant!" Kyle laughed and sarcastically сказал(-а) "yeah right doctor; stop messing with us! I can't get Alanna pregnant; I'm sterile!"
The doctor passed me a piece of paper and written on it was "pregnancy: positive." I whispered as Kyle continued to laugh because he thought she was joking "the 5% chance." Kyle asked "what did Ты say AJ; sorry I was laughing too hard to hear you?" I сказал(-а) "the 5% chance! IT'S THE 5% CHANCE THAT Ты COULD GET ME PREGNANT; that week before Рождество when I was crying and we almost got into a fight; IT WORKED!!!!" Kyle turned white as a ghost and stuttered as he сказал(-а) "wait – we had sex – but – how – it's not supposed to – oh my God!!!" His eyes rolled back in the back of his head and he fell to the ground with a thud.
When he came to, I looked down at him as I held his head and he сказал(-а) "I'M GOING TO BE A DAD!!! Is this for real? Is this really happening? ARE Ты REALLY PREGNANT AJ?" I nodded my head and сказал(-а) "yes; I really am pregnant! еще importantly though, FRANK HAS TO POSTPONE THE TOUR until after the baby is born!"
I have been a complete emotional wreck ever since I found out that Damien wants to fight me for custody of Carter. Part of me wants to believe that it's because he's a changed person and wants to be a father to Carter; but I know in my сердце that that isn't the truth! Never in 1 million years did I think Damien would do something like this!
I had spent all morning in my bedroom and had not come downstairs in days! Kyle came upstairs and sat down Далее to me on the bed. He asked "are Ты okay? I've never seen Ты cry so much before!" I сказал(-а) "I won't be okay until this whole Damien thing is over with! Carter's five years old and still thinks that you're his father! I was hoping it would stay that way for a long time! I don't want him to face the reality of who his father really is! Damien isn't the kind of father that Carter can be proud of! Damien is an alcoholic player who takes advantage of any girl that he sees and he is living in some chick's basement! I don't want Carter exposed to all of that; especially because he understands so much еще now than he did before!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I hate that we even have to deal with this right now! If Damien really wanted to spend time with Carter he should have started five years назад when he was born!" I сказал(-а) "this just sucks and that's all that there is to it!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I do know one thing though; Ты need to get out of this room because you're depressing yourself even еще by being alone and crying! Carter's been asking me why Ты haven't seen him in a few days! I told him that Ты didn't feel good and that Ты would come down eventually! I promise Ты that if Ты go downstairs Ты will feel better!" I wiped tears off of my eyes and kissed Kyle. I сказал(-а) "I suppose I should go down there."
Kyle and I walked downstairs and into the living room. Carter turned around and jumped up from the spot where he was sitting on the floor as soon as he saw me. He ran up to me and gave me a huge hug. I knelt down in front of him and he looked at how red my eyes were from the nonstop crying I had been doing. He asked "are Ты okay mommy? Were Ты crying?" I сказал(-а) "no; I wasn't crying." He asked "how come Ты weren't coming out of your room? How come daddy had to bring Еда up to Ты and make Ты eat?" I сказал(-а) "I was just busy working on stuff for my job buddy. I needed to be up there because it's quiet and I can think better. Daddy brought the Еда up to me because I didn't want to stop working at all; but I promise that I'm going to be down here during the день from now on." Carter сказал(-а) "you missed my first день of kindergarten! I was so sad; I thought Ты were at least going to be there when daddy picked me up!" I сказал(-а) "I know buddy; I'm sorry! I promise I'll drop Ты off all by myself tomorrow." Carter got all excited and сказал(-а) "I can't wait for Ты to meet my teacher and friends!" I сказал(-а) "I only missed one день of Ты going to school and I promise I won't miss any more!" He gave me a Kiss and сказал(-а) "I'm so happy that Ты finally came out of your bedroom mommy! I missed you!"
January 5, 2014,
Carter sat in the living room watching TV and eating a bowl of cereal as I tried to wake up by drinking my usual Starbucks coffee that Kyle picked up for me like he does every morning. I put some hair gel in Carter's hair to spike his little fauxhawk and helped him tie his shoes. He ran over and gave Kyle a hug as he grabbed his SpongeBob backpack.
I drove him to school and helped him climb down the high step that is in my truck. Before I could stop him, Carter bolted inside the elementary school and I chased after him. He сказал(-а) "come on mommy; I want to Показать Ты my classroom!" I сказал(-а) "you have to hang on because I have to sign Ты in at the office so they know you're here." He grabbed my hand and we walked into the main office of the school. As we stood there waiting in line, I was not at all prepared for everything that was about to happen.
As we reached the counter I signed my signature on a paper that was attached to a clipboard and a mother standing Далее to me asked "are Ты Alanna Jackson?" I passed the clipboard back to the secretary and сказал(-а) "yeah." She immediately asked "will Ты sign my daughters iPod? She's a huge Фан of yours!" I took the pen that was sitting on вверх of the clipboard and signed the rubber iPod case with my signature. She сказал(-а) "thank Ты so much AJ! My daughter is going to freak out when I give this to her when I picked her up later!" I сказал(-а) "no problem; I'm glad I could make her happy."
I grabbed Carter's hand again and we walked out into the hallway. He сказал(-а) as he pulled away "there's my classroom mommy!" I followed him inside the room that was covered with shapes all over the wall. He ran up to a woman who didn't look much older than I am and сказал(-а) "hi miss Lauren!" She bent down in front of him and сказал(-а) "hi Carter; I thought Ты weren't coming to school today!" He сказал(-а) "no; I was! Mommy just was running late this morning!" She сказал(-а) "okay; go put your backpack in your cubby and I'm going to start круг time in about 10 minutes."
I smiled as Carter ran up to a boy and sat down Далее to him. The teacher finally made eye contact with me and сказал(-а) "oh my gosh; I didn't realize that Ты are Carter's mother!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I am. I thought my husband would've told Ты that." She сказал(-а) "he told me that your name is Alanna; but I guess I didn't make the connection between your first name and Carter's last name! I really had no idea it was Ты AJ!" I сказал(-а) "alright; Carter seems to be all set; so I'll pick him up here at the end of the day." She asked "if Ты want to Ты can stay and observe the class?" I сказал(-а) "oh no; I couldn't impose! I'll be back to pick him up at 3 o'clock."
As I walked out of the room, I noticed a sign on the door that сказал(-а) "parents not permitted to stay for еще than five минуты after class has begun." I wrinkled my eyebrows and walked out of the room.
I arrived back at Neverland 15 минуты later and walked through the front door. I put my keys on the counter вверх and went into the living room. As I sat down on the couch, Kyle asked "how do Ты like Carter's school babe?" I сказал(-а) "Carter seems to Любовь it and it looks like he's already starting to make Друзья with the other kids. Something weird happened with the teacher though." Kyle flipped through the TV channels and asked "what happened?" I сказал(-а) "as soon as the teacher figured out that I am a celebrity she started to act all weird! She even asked me if I wanted to stay for the день and watch her teach the class! When I was leaving the classroom I saw a sign on the door that сказал(-а) that the parents aren't allowed to stay in the classroom for еще than five минуты after the teacher starts teaching!" Kyle сказал(-а) "that is weird for her to offer to let Ты do something that's against the rules." I сказал(-а) "I think she's giving me special treatment because I'm famous! What people don't understand is that I'm just a normal person like everyone else and I don't want Carter to be spoiled by the teacher just because I'm a celebrity!" Kyle сказал(-а) "now I understand why your dad wanted to homeschool Ты guys when he was alive because imagine how Ты would've been treated just because he is Michael Jackson! I сказал(-а) "I wonder if I made the wrong decision by letting Carter go to a normal school! Maybe I should just start homeschooling him instead." Kyle сказал(-а) "you can't take him out of school now! He loves it there!" I сказал(-а) "I guess you're right; I just hope all the teachers treat him just like a normal kid because that's what he is! He doesn't need еще attention than the other kids get from the teacher just because I'm Alanna Jackson!"
January 9, 2014,
I was in the studio working on my new album by myself without Frank there because he was busy for the день and I was able to get a lot of work done without him critiquing everything that I sang. I stopped after about four hours of nonstop recording to have the сэндвич, бутерброд that I had picked up earlier this morning.
As I sat down to start eating I noticed a rundown car pulled up in front of the recording studio. As soon as the person got out of the car I recognized who it was. Damien walked up to the door and knocked on it a few times. I was debating whether или not to answer it; but eventually I reluctantly opened the door. He asked "what's up AJ?" I asked "who the hell told Ты that I was at the recording studio?" He сказал(-а) "I called your manager and he told me because he recognized my name when I told him who I was." I сказал(-а) "I really don't have anything to say to you!" He сказал(-а) "I decided to come here a few weeks early; so I wouldn't have to worry about missing the court date. I can't wait to see Carter! How is the little guy?" I сказал(-а) with irritation in my voice "he's not so little anymore!" Damien asked "isn't he like three years old now?" I rolled my eyes and сказал(-а) sarcastically "isn't that just great? Ты don't even know how old your son is!" He asked "how old is he?" I сказал(-а) "five!" He сказал(-а) "I can't wait until I get visitation with him. I miss him!"
I сказал(-а) "quit Актёрское искусство like Ты care! I know Ты don't care about him and Ты are just trying to squeeze as much money from me as Ты can! Don't think for a секунда that I'm going to take it easy on Ты when we're in the courthouse before that judge! I'm going to expose Ты for everything that Ты really are!" He сказал(-а) "good luck with that AJ! The judge always feels bad when a son doesn't have a father in his life!" I сказал(-а) arrogantly "Carter does have a father in his life and he is a whole hell of a lot better father than Ты would ever be!" He сказал(-а) "I don't really like the fact that Ты have your boyfriend around our son without my permission!" I сказал(-а) "he's not my boyfriend; he is my husband and how do Ты expect me to ask your permission if you're never around? You're such a jerk and I can already tell that Ты haven't grown up at all since the last time I saw you!" He сказал(-а) "okay; I'm going to leave because I want to save all the good fighting for when I kick your жопа, попка in court!" I сказал(-а) "we'll see about that when the день comes!"
Immediately after Damien left the recording studio, I got in my truck and drove back to the ranch. I went inside and upstairs to the bedroom. I sat down on the постель, кровати Далее to Kyle and he asked "how did work go today?" I raised my eyebrows and сказал(-а) with a smirk on my face "you'll never guess who I saw today!" He asked "who?" I сказал(-а) "Damien!" He сказал(-а) "Damien; what is he doing here in California so soon? The court дата isn't for three еще weeks!" I сказал(-а) "I know; he сказал(-а) that he was coming out here ahead of time to make sure that he didn't miss the court date!" Kyle laughed and asked "how hard is it for Damien to make sure he’s here in time for court?" I сказал(-а) "I imagine it will be pretty damn hard for him because I can guarantee Ты he is going to get hammered drunk the night before the court дата and have a hangover when and if he decides to Показать up!" Kyle said" he seems like a real jerk!" I сказал(-а) as I laughed "he was Актёрское искусство all cocky and started complaining about how I should have asked him for his permission before I let Ты around Carter!"
Kyle and I both looked at each other and burst out laughing. Kyle сказал(-а) "that's the most ridiculous load of crap I have ever heard in my life! The guy who drinks all день long and has a different girlfriend every two weeks is going to complain about me being around his son!" I сказал(-а) "trust me babe; I was thinking the same thing! I should probably warn Ты ahead of time that Damien is probably going to make fun of your British accent just to get a reaction out of you! He doesn't have a lot to go on to plead his case to the judge; so he'll take whatever he can get that's going to make him look better than us!" Kyle сказал(-а) "don't worry AJ; he doesn't scare me!"
February 19, 2014,
Kyle and I pulled up in front of the Santa Barbara County Courthouse dressed in business Форс-мажоры and I took a deep breath. Kyle put his hand on my shoulder and сказал(-а) "everything is going to be fine babe!" We got out of the truck and walked up to my lawyer Kenny. I held Kyle's hand as we walked inside and saw Damien sitting on a bench outside the courtroom wearing a casual T-shirt and baggy jeans with his underwear showing. I shook my head in disbelief and Kyle was thinking the exact same thing as me.
Damien's court appointed lawyer talked with Kenny for about 10 минуты before we were allowed to enter the courtroom. Kyle sat down Далее to me at the таблица opposite of Damien's таблица and our lawyer opened his briefcase. My hands started sweating vigorously as I held onto Kyle's hand and he whispered "everything's going to be okay babe." Kyle's eyes met with Damien's as they saw each other for the first time. Damien snarled his upper lip at Kyle and Kyle just looked away as he shook his head in disbelief.
A male judge sat down behind the podium and hit his gavel on it. The bailiff read aloud "judge Marion Jones presiding over the case of Damien Adam Hayes versus Alanna Michael Jackson in a custody hearing for the child hereby stated as Carter Shawn Jackson. Ты may proceed." Judge Marion сказал(-а) "okay; I would like to begin with an opening statement and/or Вопросы by Mr. Hayes's lawyer for any parties involved. Damien's lawyer сказал(-а) "thank Ты Your Honor."
He walked over to our таблица and asked "have Ты been supportive in creating a healthy father-son relationship between Carter and Damien?" I looked at my lawyer to make sure it was okay to answer and сказал(-а) "all I can do is try and I tried for a long time!" He asked "what sort of things did Ты try in terms of supporting that relationship between the two of them?" I сказал(-а) "the one time he did Показать up I tried to get him involved in caring for our son." The lawyer asked "and how did that experience go? Please try to answer without criticizing Damien's character." I looked at my lawyer confused and he сказал(-а) "your honor that Вопрос is impossible to answer due to the fact that the child's father was never interested in bonding with his son in any way." Damien's lawyer asked "okay then; what is your current relationship like with Damien at this very moment?" I said" I've only seen him a total of three times since Carter has been born." He сказал(-а) "I understand that Ты and Damien had several sexual encounters after the time of the child's birth; is this true?" I sarcastically smiled as I shook my head in disbelief and сказал(-а) "that is a complete and utter lie!" Damien's lawyer asked "so what you're telling me is that Ты and Damien never had relations after the child's conception?" I quickly glanced over at Damien and сказал(-а) "we did once; the день after Carter's first birthday." The judge сказал(-а) "these Вопросы are completely irrelevant to the matter of custody; Переместить on Sir!"
Damien's lawyer asked "is it true that Ты yourself have a past filled with underage drinking?" I reluctantly сказал(-а) "yes sir." He asked "when was the last time Ты consumed any alcohol?" I had to think about it for a минута because it was so long назад and сказал(-а) "if I'm remembering correctly the summer of 2008." He asked "have Ты had any altercations with the police since the child has been alive?" I сказал(-а) "I don't know what Ты consider an altercation with the police; but I do get the occasional speeding ticket." He asked "have Ты been charged with these speeding tickets while Carter is in the vehicle?" I сказал(-а) "I would never go over the speed with Carter in the car Sir!" He asked "is it true that Ты have since gotten married?" I сказал(-а) "yes sir." Damien's lawyer looked over at Kyle and asked "do Ты feel that Ты and Alanna have created a healthy environment for her son to be growing up in?" Kyle сказал(-а) "yes sir." He asked "do Ты feel like Ты and Alanna model a healthy relationship between the two of Ты in front of Carter?" Kyle сказал(-а) "very healthy Sir!" Damien's lawyer сказал(-а) "that's all the Вопросы I have for them Your Honor; Ты may continue."
My lawyer began to interrogate Damien starting with asking "is it true that Ты abandoned Alanna and your unborn child without even giving any notice?" Damien responded "yeah; but I had my reasons for doing that!" My lawyer asked "what would be your reasoning for that? How do Ты justify leaving a 14-year-old girl who just found out she was pregnant to fend for herself?" Damien сказал(-а) arrogantly "she wasn't completely on her own! She had Michael there for help and my mother would visit from time to time!" The lawyer asked "is it true that Ты had problems with underage drinking as well?" Damien сказал(-а) "I have in the past; but I attend Alcoholics Anonymous on a weekly basis currently."
I looked over at Kyle and whispered "oh that is such бык crap!" Kyle whispered back "let him say whatever he wants to say because in the end he is only making it harder on himself!" My lawyer asked "how come Ты have not paid a single penny for any of Carter's necessities since he has been alive?" Damien responded "AJ makes millions of dollars; so I didn't think it really mattered!" The lawyer responded "just because she makes millions of dollars doesn't mean that Ты shouldn't be held accountable for your responsibilities to your son!" Damien сказал(-а) "yeah well; I don't agree with the fact that AJ's boyfriend или husband или whatever the hell he is to her is allowed to be around Carter without my consent!"
I raised my hand and the judge allowed me to see what I was going to say. I сказал(-а) "I apologize your honor; but Damien doesn't deserve the right to have his opinion heard! I'm not trying to glorify Kyle because he is imperfect just like everyone else on this earth; but he does everything that Damien should be или should have been doing this entire time! He watches him all день long for me while I'm at work! He picks Carter up and drops him off at school most days because I am unable to due to my work schedule! Kyle pretty much single-handedly taught Carter how to use the toilet; including waking up at night with him! Damien; if Ты want to criticize someone's parenting go ahead and pick on me instead of Kyle because he's willing to do everything and anything for Carter and I wish I could say the same thing for you; but I can't!"
The judge сказал(-а) "here's what I'm going to do, we're going to do a trial weekend with Carter and Damien together! In order for that to happen, Damien needs to be held accountable for paying some sort of child support! If after the weekend is over and Damien still has not paid any sort of child support then he will be forced to serve four months in jail and all his parental rights will be terminated; am I understood Mr. Hayes?" Damien shook his head in agreement and Judge Marion сказал(-а) "courts adjourned!"
As we were walking out of the courthouse and over to the truck, we noticed that Damien's car was parked right Далее to us. I opened up the truck door as Damien walked to his car and сказал(-а) "I'm one step closer to 50-50 custody AJ; which means you'll have to pay me child support just like I'll have to pay you!" Kyle сказал(-а) under his breath "just shut up!" Damien сказал(-а) as he puffed out his chest trying to act tough "what did Ты say Ты British butt kisser?" I looked at Kyle as I gently pushed him into the truck and сказал(-а) "don't listen to him babe! He's just doing that to get a reaction out of you!"
I hurried to start the truck and I stuck my middle finger out the window at Damien as we drove off. As we started our half-hour journey back to Neverland where Prince was babysitting Carter for us I started to tear up. Kyle asked "why do Ты look like you're about to cry babe?" I сказал(-а) "I just realized that Damien's going to have Carter all by himself for an entire weekend! In a way; Damien is getting what he wanted this entire time!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I highly doubt that after this first visit with Carter that we'll have to worry about Damien anymore!" I сказал(-а) as I grabbed Kyle’s hand "it made me so mad when Damien wanted to complain about Ты being around Carter! I couldn't hold my tongue any longer! I just had to say something! If it wasn't for you; I wouldn't have millions and millions of dollars for Damien to try to squeeze out of me! Don't get me wrong; I Любовь Carter to death! I just don’t understand why I had to lose my virginity to such an immature deadbeat dad! Sometimes I just wish that I would've gotten pregnant with your baby and have Carter be yours because I know Ты wouldn't leave me! I mean; any guy who wants to deal with all this drama every день for the rest of his life all for a kid that isn't even his must have some real balls!" Kyle chuckled and сказал(-а) "it's so worth it because every день I get to hear Carter say 'daddy; I Любовь you! Daddy; am I your good boy! Daddy; will Ты fix my toy for me? Daddy; I want to be just like Ты when I grow up and be the best daddy in the whole wide world!" I started crying even harder and asked "Carter really says all that stuff to you?" Kyle сказал(-а) "oh yeah; when he was a little over three he used to follow me around wearing his fake tool ремень, пояс, пояса and tried to copy what I was fixing!" I grabbed Kyle's hand and сказал(-а) "I know that Damien's going to screw up this one weekend taking care of Carter on his own; so I can't wait until he is out of our lives for good!" Kyle laughed and I asked "what's so funny?" Kyle сказал(-а) "I kind of wish that Damien didn't wait until Carter was five to do this whole weekend alone taking care of him because it would've been funny to send him with Carter when he was a baby! We would've had some really funny stuff to laugh at imagining Damien waking up every 15 минуты like Ты had to! Damien's going to have a pretty easy weekend with Carter because all he has to do is sit him in front of the TV that entire time!"
February 22, 2014,
Kyle whispered in my ear as I stared at Carter watching TV "Damien's going to be here in a half час to pick up Carter for the weekend! Ты still haven't told Carter that I'm not his father and that his real father is going to be picking him up any minute! Ты have to tell him AJ!" I сказал(-а) "I know I do Kyle; but this is going to be hard for me! That's why I waited so long!"
I walked into the living room and сказал(-а) "Carter; I need to talk to Ты about something buddy!" He asked "what's wrong mommy?" I сказал(-а) "you know that daddy loves Ты very much; but he's not your real daddy." Carter asked "what do Ты mean he is not my real daddy?" I couldn't even respond to him as I stared blankly into his eyes. Kyle сказал(-а) "mommy had another boyfriend before she met me and he's your daddy Carter." I сказал(-а) "he's coming to pick Ты up in a few минуты and you're going to spend the weekend with him." Carter сказал(-а) as a car pulled up in front of the gate "you're going with me; aren't Ты mommy?" I сказал(-а) "I'm not Carter."
Kyle opened the door as Carter jumped into my arms and grabbed onto me with a death grip. I hugged him and carried him outside to the driveway with Kyle walking behind me. I slowly walked up to Damien who was sitting in his car with a police officer standing Далее to him outside the car. Carter cried hysterically into my shoulder and Damien got out of the car. I сказал(-а) as I continuously patted Carter's back "did Ты really need to have the police officer here Damien?" Damien сказал(-а) as he mocked to me "I wanted to make sure that Ты went through with giving him to me because this is court ordered and if Ты didn't let me take him from Ты it would be against the law!"
I сказал(-а) "okay Carter; Damien's going to take Ты for the weekend now." Carter protested at the вверх of his lungs "NO; MOMMY I DON'T WANT TO GO!!! PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME!!!” I сказал(-а) as I started to tear up while desperately trying to hold it together so Carter wasn't scared еще than he already was "I have to!!!" The police officer сказал(-а) "you need to hurry up Mrs. Jackson because I have places that I need to be!"
As I tried passing Carter from my arms to Damien's, Kyle reluctantly had to pry Carter's fingers from around my neck and Damien buckled him into the car seat. Carter screamed "PLEASE SAVE ME DADDY!!!" Damien looked Carter in his eyes and сказал(-а) sternly "stop calling him that! He's not your daddy; I am!" I could see the look of pure terror in Carter's eyes as he immediately сказал(-а) "I'm sorry." Kyle сказал(-а) as he leaned into the car window "I swear to God if anything happens to him; your жопа, попка is mine!!!" Damien just rolled up to his window and followed behind the police officer in the cop car.
I immediately fell to my knees and started crying hysterically. Kyle grabbed onto me and started crying into my shoulder. I сказал(-а) in between sobs "I can't do this every weekend! There's just no way!!! Carter wanted me to go with him and I can't believe that he is going to be alone with Damien without any supervision for an entire weekend! CARTER DOESN'T EVEN KNOW DAMIEN!!!" I tried desperately to stand up; but my nerves wouldn't let me. Kyle literally had to carry me inside because if he didn't I would've been out there crying all night long on the driveway!
Kyle sat down on the диван, мягкий уголок as I sat on his lap and cried into my hands. Kyle сказал(-а) with tears in his eyes "he wanted me to rescue him and I have to admit that if the police officer wasn't standing right there I would have!" Kyle moved the back of my рубашка down and сказал(-а) "there are marks on your back from Carter digging his fingernails into your skin!!!" I сказал(-а) "that doesn't surprise me! He was holding on to me for dear life!!!" Kyle сказал(-а) as he wiped the tears that were streaming down his face "this is going to be the longest weekend ever babe!!!" I сказал(-а) "I want Carter to come back now!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I do too!"
February 24, 2014,
I сказал(-а) out loud "Damien better hurry up and get here because I've been waiting all weekend to see my son!" Kyle held my hand as Damien pulled up in front of the house. I ran up to the car and without saying a word to Damien, I took Carter out of the car. Damien looked at Carter and smiled before getting a serious expression on his face. He stared at Carter and sternly сказал(-а) "don't forget what I said!" With that, Damien sped off down the road and I ran towards Kyle with the biggest smile on my face. Kyle сказал(-а) as we walked inside the house "mommy and me missed Ты so much Carter!" I kissed Carter's cheek and asked "did Ты have fun?" Carter looked at me as his body physically shook in my arms. I asked with a confused look on my face "what's wrong Carter?"
Before I could get an answer from him, I felt something warm running down my leg and wrinkled my eyebrows. Kyle сказал(-а) "ummm look babe!!!" I looked down at the ground to see that I was standing in a yellow puddle. Carter immediately burst out crying and сказал(-а) "I'M SO SORRY MOMMY!!!" I сказал(-а) sympathetically "it's alright Carter! I'm not mad at you! We'll just change your clothes because Ты need to take a bath anyway!!!"
The three of us went up to Kyle and I’s bedroom. Kyle started the water in the bathtub in our bedroom's bathroom and I quickly took off my baggy jeans. I changed into a pair of pajama pants. Kyle сказал(-а) "okay Carter; you're all set! Mommy and I will come back in a few минуты to wash your hair."
As Kyle walked into the bedroom I watched as Carter walked into the bathroom shaking with his pants completely soaked and shut the door. Kyle sat down Далее to me on the edge of the постель, кровати and сказал(-а) "that was surprising!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I know! Carter hasn't peed in his pants since he was three!!!" Even if he did have an accident; he would've never gone all over me!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I wonder why he keeps shaking so badly!"
I opened the bathroom door and walked inside with Kyle behind me. Carter continued to shake as I knelt down in front of the tub to wash his hair. The секунда I touched Carter's head he flinched and I asked "what's wrong sweetheart? Why are Ты shaking like that Carter?" He сказал(-а) something that completely confused me "you can hit me if Ты want to mommy! I shouldn't have had an accident!" I сказал(-а) "no; I'm not going to hit you! Where would Ты come up with such a crazy idea like that from Carter? I've never ever hit Ты before and I never ever would hit you; ever!!!!!!!!" I heard Kyle whisper "that son of a bitch; I'm going to fucking kick his ass!!!"
I looked at Kyle with a puzzled expression on my face and asked "what the heck are Ты talking about and why haven't Ты blinked your eyes in the last five minutes? What are Ты staring at Kyle?" Kyle had rage in his eyes like Ты wouldn't believe as he pointed at Carter's back. I leaned backwards and couldn't believe my eyes as I saw an almost a perfect outline of a hand print in red on Carter's back!!! I asked severely concerned "Carter; did Damien hit you?" Carter uncontrollably shook and stuttered as he сказал(-а) "I – I – I'm not supposed to say anything!!!" I сказал(-а) "I'm going to kill Damien!!!"
After Carter got dressed he сказал(-а) "I think Damien still has my bag of clothes with him in his car mommy!" I сказал(-а) calmly as I pulled the covers back on his постель, кровати "that's okay; we'll get them!" He climbed into постель, кровати and I covered him up before lying down Далее to him. Kyle came in and knelt down on the side of the bed. I asked "Carter; why did Damien hit you?" Carter сказал(-а) "I told Ты that I can't say anything!" I asked "why not?" He responded "because Damien сказал(-а) if I ever told anyone that he would kill both Ты and daddy when you're sleeping!!!!!" I сказал(-а) "he won't kill us Carter; I promise!!!" Kyle сказал(-а) as he held onto Kyle's hand "I won't let that happen Carter; but Ты need to tell us why Damien hit you!" Carter сказал(-а) "he was Актёрское искусство really weird because he was drinking this drink and he tripped over me because I was playing with my race cars on the floor! He was yelling bad words at me and then hit me because I wasn't moving out of the way fast enough!"
My сердце broke into 1 million pieces as I tried to imagine how terrified Carter must've been! I shook my head in disgust and kissed the вверх of Carter's head. I asked "can I ask Ты something Carter?" He сказал(-а) "yeah mommy." I asked "did Ты wet your pants because Ты thought daddy and I would hit you?" Carter сказал(-а) "mostly that's why; but Damien didn't let me go to the bathroom before we left the hotel to come back here and by the time we got into the house I couldn't hold it anymore! I really am sorry mommy!" I сказал(-а) "you don't have to be sorry Carter! It wasn't your fault! When Ты have to go Ты have too! Kyle сказал(-а) as he stroked Carter's fingers "yeah; it's no big deal buddy! I actually thought it was pretty funny that Ты peed all over mommy!" Carter started cracking up and Kyle сказал(-а) "we want Ты to know that neither mommy nor I would ever hurt Ты like Damien did!" I сказал(-а) "I promise Ты that we will NEVER hit Ты Carter; no matter what Ты do!!!"
We could hear the noise of the doorbell ringing from downstairs and I turned the volume up on Carter's TV to muffle any noise just in case it was Damien downstairs! I shut Carter's bedroom door as Kyle bolted down the steps after looking out the window. I chased after him after seeing that Damien was the one ringing the doorbell.
I ran past Kyle and swung open the door. Damien was about to pass me Carter's backpack full of clothes when I pulled him inside and pushed him to the ground. Damien asked arrogantly "what the fuck is your problem?" I сказал(-а) "don't act like Ты don't know!" Damien whispered "oh; that little snitch! He wasn't supposed to say anything!" I сказал(-а) "HE'S FREAKING FIVE YEARS OLD DAMIEN!!! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?" He сказал(-а) "what's wrong with me? What about what's wrong with Ты AJ? You're the one overreacting and being a сука for no reason!" Kyle shouted at the вверх of his lungs "WHAT THE HELL DID Ты JUST CALL HER?" Damien сказал(-а) arrogantly as he smiled "you heard me right! AJ is just some сука that I screwed around with once and that's all she'll ever be to me!" I сказал(-а) as I threw my hands up in the air "oh my God Damien! I'm the mother of your son and all Ты can call me is a bitch!" Kyle сказал(-а) "CALL HER THAT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS!!!" Damien asked "why? What are Ты going to do about it?"
I gave Kyle a look of carelessness as I сказал(-а) "go right ahead babe; I'm not going to stop you!" Before Damien even had time to react, Kyle decked him in the side of his face so hard that when he fell his head went right through the drywall. I laughed harder than I had ever laughed before as Damien looked up at Kyle as if he was a scared щенок dog! Kyle asked as he looked down at Damien "would Ты like some еще because there's plenty еще where that came from?" Damien rapidly shook his head in disapproval and Kyle сказал(-а) "I'm giving Ты until the count of three to get the hell out of this house before I change my mind; one, two –!"
I fell to the ground in hysterical laughter as Damien stumbled out of the house and down the улица, уличный holding his head. Kyle shut the door and сказал(-а) "I don't think we'll have to worry about him for a long time babe!" Kyle helped me off the ground and I сказал(-а) while still trying to catch my breath "you freaking scared the crap out of him Kyle! That was the most hilarious thing I have ever seen in my life! The look on his face was priceless! I wish I had my camera with me!" Kyle сказал(-а) "he obviously doesn't have any respect for women if he talks to them like that! I wasn't about to let him stand here and call Ты a сука over and over again! He doesn't treat Ты like he should because Ты are the mother of his son! Now that that's over with, let's go upstairs and watch TV with OUR son!"
February 25, 2014,
Carter has been stuck to me like glue since Damien dropped him off yesterday. He doesn't want to be alone no matter what. We were eating ужин and Carter didn't seem like his usual self. He has hardly touched his Еда and he asked "is Damien going to come pick me up this coming weekend mommy?" I сказал(-а) "he's supposed to." Carter сказал(-а) with a worried expression on his face "I don't want to go with him again!" I сказал(-а) "don't worry Carter; I'm not going to let him take you!" Carter asked "isn't it against the law for Ты to keep me from going with Damien? Won't Ты get in trouble?" I сказал(-а) "I don't care if I get in trouble Carter! I'm not going to risk Ты going over there unsupervised and being hit again! I don't think Damien is going to Показать up; but if he does then I'm going with Ты Carter!"
Kyle сказал(-а) "I highly doubt that he will actually Показать up after what I did to him yesterday!" I сказал(-а) "I think it's ridiculous that he even wants to have Carter on the weekends because Ты and I both know that Damien isn't spending time with him! It's really a waste of my time with Carter because I don't get to spend a lot of time with him either!”
March 2, 2014,
Carter was waiting for Damien to pick him up for the weekend and I had my bags packed because I had fully planned to go with them for safety reasons. An час and a half past and Damien still hadn't arrived and we figured that he wasn't going to Показать up because of the huge fight that happened last weekend.
I was upstairs in the bedroom watching TV with Kyle went I noticed Damien quickly drive up to the mailbox outside the gate and drop something inside. He sped off without even getting out of his car and I сказал(-а) "I wonder what he dropped in the mailbox Kyle." Kyle responded "I'll go check; be right back." I watched out the window as Kyle went down and outside to the mailbox.
After grabbing the small white envelope, he made his way back up to our bedroom and passed me what he had retrieved. I was really reluctant to open the envelope because it's usually something bad inside. I pulled out what appeared to be a letter written in Damien's terrible handwriting. I read aloud so Kyle could hear "I obviously can't handle Ты and how bitchy Ты are AJ! I don't know what Ты want from me! One минута Ты want me to be there for Carter and the Далее минута Ты don't! I'm done with Ты and your games and have decided to be very selfless! I went to the courthouse and signed a document that terminated all of my parental rights to Carter as his father. I hope you're happy and I want Ты to know that every kid deserves to be smacked around every once in a while! I don't feel bad about hitting Carter at all and I never will! At least, now Ты know where I stand! The only thing I want from Ты now is to keep in contact with my mother because she would be totally devastated if Ты cut Carter out of her life! I don't Любовь him; but she does and it wouldn't be fair to her! I hope Ты have a good life with that meathead husband of yours! PS, it was always about the money! I told Ты that I didn't care about Carter from the very beginning! Say whatever Ты want about me because I obviously don't care what Ты think about my ability to be a good father! I never wanted to be a father and according to the legal termination of my parental rights I'm not a father!"
I сказал(-а) "well; I guess we don't have to worry about Damien anymore!" Kyle сказал(-а) "he is such an idiot; I mean seriously? He is still trying to justify why he hit Carter! At least he admitted that all he was trying to do was get money from Ты and that he never intended to have a good relationship with Carter!"
March 21, 2014,
Frank leaned over my shoulder as we went on to iTunes.com to see the results of how my new album "footprints of my father" is selling. I smiled as I сказал(-а) "I'm number one on the iTunes вверх 10! I beat Bieber; even after all this time has gone by!" Frank high-fived me and сказал(-а) "I bet Ты already know what I'm thinking!" I сказал(-а) "I really don't want to go on tour right now! It was hard enough leaving Carter the first time! Now I'll have to leave Kyle and Carter here! Just when I thought everything was going to calm down; this happens! I still have plenty of money coming in from merchandise sales!" Frank сказал(-а) "yeah; but it's nowhere near as much as Ты earn when you're on tour! I'm telling Ты that Ты will make double the cash Ты made with your last tour! That was your debut album and people want еще from Ты apparently! I think Ты should really consider it because Ты don't want to start losing fans! Alright; well I have to head out. I'll call Ты in a couple of days to hear what Ты decided to do! If I were Ты I would do it! It would be a really good financial investment for Ты and your family because Ты have to remember that you're not only doing this for yourself anymore! This is your job and your way of providing for your family! You're the only income; so it's all on your shoulders! It's up to Ты to make sure that Kyle, Carter, and Ты are able to keep up the lifestyle you've become accustomed to! Ты think you're living the perfect life right now; but wait until $30,000 feels like nothing because Ты make so much money! I'm telling Ты that going on tour in the near future is one of the best decisions that Ты could possibly make! No pressure; just sleep on it kid and I'll give Ты a call in a few days!"
After Frank left, Kyle came downstairs and сказал(-а) "hey AJ!" I said" I need to talk to Ты about something." He сказал(-а) "that's good because I needed to talk to Ты about something too; Ты go first!" I сказал(-а) "Frank thinks it's a good idea that I go on tour again to bring in tons of cash. I kind of want to; but I really don't want to travel all over the world!" Kyle сказал(-а) "I think Ты should go on tour! It will be good for Ты because you've been on mommy duty for a little over three years! Ты kind of disappeared out of the public eye! I don't want people to forget who Ты are because I know how much Ты Любовь being a musician! That's been your dream and I don't want Ты to give up on it! I don't care what it takes! I'll be here to watch Carter that entire time that you’re away on tour! Your happiness is the most important thing to me AJ! I just want Ты to go out there and find Ты again because I think you're starting to lose yourself as a person! It's okay that Ты need a break! You're losing your identity as a person! Ты do too much for everyone else and not enough for yourself! It's time to start taking care of you! I've got Carter handled; there's no reason to worry about him!" I asked "are Ты sure about this because if Ты are I'm going to call Frank right now and tell him to start booking концерт dates?" Kyle сказал(-а) "yes AJ; don't worry about us!"
After calling Frank and telling him to start setting up plans for my Далее tour, I asked Kyle "what did Ты want to talk to me about?" He сказал(-а) "never mind babe." I сказал(-а) "no; just tell me! I want to know!" He сказал(-а) "since I can't get Ты pregnant naturally; I was thinking we could think about adopting a child." I thought about it for a few минуты before saying "that doesn't actually sound like that bad of an idea! I think Carter would like to have a little brother или sister. If Ты want to go ahead and start looking into the paperwork and stuff that goes along with adoption; Ты can. It'll give Ты something to do while Carter is at school and I'm away on tour." Kyle сказал(-а) "I heard that there's a lot of paperwork to fill out; so it could take up to eight months before adoption agencies can start matching us with available kids."
April 26, 2014
I ran frantically for my cell phone as it continuously rang playing my Jesse McCartney ring tone. I looked at the caller ID to see that it was Frank and answered the phone by saying "hello." He сказал(-а) "I just got off the phone with some tour promoters and they told me they want to start the tour on December 29 of this year! Starting in Los Angeles, all around the world and completely global this time! Dubai, Japan, China, Switzerland, just pretty much every significant country Ты can think of!" I сказал(-а) "December 29; that's only four days after Christmas! Don't Ты think that's asking too much of me to leave Kyle and Carter right after the holidays?" Frank сказал(-а) "I know it's going to be hard for Ты AJ; but just think of how much money you'll make and how extremely lavish your lifestyle will be with all that cash in your pocket! Sometimes in life, Ты have to do things that Ты don't want to do just because that's best for everyone around you! The promoters are dead set on December 29th being the first концерт of your tour!" I сказал(-а) "fine; but only because I don't have any other choice!"
Without even saying goodbye to me, Frank hung up the phone and Kyle asked "what was he so excited about? I could hear him screaming from all the way over here!" I сказал(-а) "apparently, he just got done talking with the концерт promoters and they want me on tour at the end of this year!" He сказал(-а) "that sounds awesome AJ! Why don't Ты seem excited?" I сказал(-а) "I don't know; I guess I just wasn't expecting Frank to Переместить so quickly with getting the tour up and running!" Kyle asked "should we tell Carter that Ты are going to be going on tour again?" I сказал(-а) "we will; eventually! I just don't want to upset him right now because I have a feeling that he's not going to like being separated pretty much entirely from me for nine long months! He was only a baby last time I left; so I don't even think he remembers what it's like to not have me there! I sure as hell remember what it was like not being able to be with him every single день and I'm not looking вперед to it at all!" Kyle сказал(-а) "it will be hard on all of us; but it's for the best and I promise that we'll Skype Ты all the time!" I сказал(-а) "that will definitely help; but it's not same as being able to hug Ты guys anytime I want to! I just hope that I'm not asking Ты to do too much while I'm away! It's going to be a lot for Ты to handle!" He сказал(-а) "don't worry about it AJ; it's not too much for me! Besides, I still have that life-size cardboard cutout of Ты in my closet just in case I get lonely!" I playfully slapped his arm as I сказал(-а) "shut up; you're obsessed with that cardboard cutout! I still think that thing is creepy and it better not be standing in the кухня when I get back!"
October 31, 2014,
Carter сказал(-а) "trick-or-treat" as he stood in front of one of the million dollar houses in our neighborhood dressed as the оранжевый ninja turtle. After getting his candy, I сказал(-а) "okay Carter; we're going to go Главная now. Daddy and I want to talk to Ты about something on the walk back to the house." I looked at Kyle with a depressed look on my face and he put his hand on my shoulder.
We walked down the улица, уличный and I kicked pebbles with my feet as I looked down at the ground waiting for the right moment. I сказал(-а) "Carter; I'm going to be going on tour again." Carter got excited and сказал(-а) "I can't wait to go with Ты and daddy all over the world!" I sighed and сказал(-а) "you and daddy are going to stay here!" He asked "what do Ты mean mommy? Ты can't leave me here! I need to go with Ты because I'll miss Ты too much!" I сказал(-а) "I wish I could take Ты Carter; but I just can't!" He сказал(-а) "it's not going to be any fun here with just daddy!" Kyle joked "what am I chopped liver; compared to mommy?" Carter сказал(-а) "mommy's еще fun than Ты are daddy." I laughed and сказал(-а) "he just dissed Ты Kyle!" Kyle joked "I see how it is Carter; mommy is the favorite! I'll have to remember that Далее time when Ты want me to help Ты tie your shoes!"
December 20, 2014,
I finished wrapping Carter's Рождество presents on the постель, кровати and Kyle came out of the bathroom wearing just his boxers. I looked over and crossed yet another день off of my calendar. I sighed and сказал(-а) "only eight еще days left!" Kyle сказал(-а) "nine straight months with no sex! I сказал(-а) "I have a feeling that I'm not going to be in the mood after tonight because I'll be really depressed! Ты better make tonight count!" He turned on the radio and сказал(-а) "trust me; it will be worth it!"
As we lay there with our bodies pressed up against each other, "stay" by Рианна came on the radio station. "I want Ты to stay, stay, I want Ты to stay" blared through the speakers as Kyle pulled away from our passionate make out session. He saw a single tear run down my face and asked "I'm not hurting you; am I?" I сказал(-а) "no; I'm fine!" He rolled off of me and сказал(-а) "no you're not; you're crying! If I'm hurting Ты then just tell me!" I сказал(-а) "you're not hurting me Kyle!" He asked "then why are Ты crying?" I сказал(-а) "BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE!" He asked while continuing what he had stopped "then why are you?" I сказал(-а) "I don't have a choice! I have to provide for Ты guys because I'm the only income! Besides, I can't let all my Фаны down! I Любовь performing; but I just wish Frank didn't just throw all of this on my lap!" I already have enough pressure as it is; let alone with him criticizing everything I do! I don't want to talk about this anymore because it's going to get me out of the mood! There's nothing we can do about it; it is what it is! Now if Ты don't mind, can we just get back to the Любовь because that's all either of us are going to be getting for nine months?"
Afterwards, I rolled over with my back to Kyle and my arms crossed as I slipped my clothes back on. Kyle сказал(-а) "I didn't mean to make Ты mad AJ!" I сказал(-а) "well; Ты succeeded!" He сказал(-а) "we still haven't had our first fight yet and I don't want to start now!" I сказал(-а) "then I suggest that Ты leave me alone!" He fastened the buttons on his рубашка and сказал(-а) "fine; if that's what Ты want then I'll leave Ты alone just to avoid getting into a fight with Ты because I want this to be a fight free marriage. I Любовь Ты AJ and I'm sorry." I сказал(-а) as I rolled back over facing towards him "I can't stay mad at you! The entire time I was facing the other direction I was smiling and trying not to laugh!"
December 29, 2014,
I stood there in my tour bus in front of Neverland and looked around. Kyle сказал(-а) "okay Carter; we have to get off the bus now." Carter wrapped his arms around my neck and wouldn't let go when I tried to put him down. He screamed "no mommy; I'M GOING WITH YOU!!!" I сказал(-а) "you can't Carter! It's not going to be as fun as Ты think it is being on tour! I'm working all the time and I wouldn't be able to spend time with Ты either way! I promise Ты that I'll get on Skype every день with Ты guys!" I tried to put him down again and he still refused to let go. I сказал(-а) "I could use a little help here Kyle!"
Kyle pried Carter away from me as he continued to scream at the вверх of his lungs. He cried as he protested "LET ME GO DADDY! I'M STAYING ON THIS BUS!" Kyle turned his face as Carter continuously flailed his arms all over the place trying to get out of his grip. Kyle сказал(-а) "I would hug Ты AJ; but as Ты can see my hands are pretty full at the moment. I whispered in his ear "that's okay; I'll see Ты at the концерт and I can hug Ты there! Don't forget to drop off Ты know who at my grandmother's!" I kissed Carter who was still relentlessly trying to grab hold of me. As I pulled away he grabbed my hair and I сказал(-а) while laughing "OUCH; KYLE HURRY UP AND GET OUT OF HERE BECAUSE HE'S RIPPING THE HAIR OUT OF MY HEAD!"
As we made our way to the arena in the tour bus, Frank asked "are Ты okay kid? Ты look pale!" I wiped the sweat off of my forehead and сказал(-а) "yeah; I think it's just nerves! It's been over three years since I've performed on tour!" He сказал(-а) "you're just like your dad; once Ты get out on that stage all your nerves will disappear!" I сказал(-а) "yeah; you're probably right!"
A half час before the концерт starts, I sat backstage on the диван, мягкий уголок with my hand on my forehead. I looked in the mirror to see that I was pale as a ghost and drenched with sweat. Frank asked "are Ты sure you're feeling okay AJ?" I сказал(-а) "yeah; I'm fine! I'll get over whatever is going on! It's these stupid nerves getting –."
Before I could finish the sentence, I ran off to the bathroom and violently started throwing up. Frank knocked on the door and сказал(-а) "I've never seen Ты this nervous before! Everything is going to be just fine! Your Фаны Любовь Ты and the dedicated Фаны will always be there; no matter what!" I stood up and walked out of the bathroom as I сказал(-а) "you're right Frank; I don't know what's gotten into me! I'm never usually this nervous! It must be because Kyle's going to be here watching me tonight."
There was a knock at the door and Frank сказал(-а) "speaking of Kyle; I think he's here!" Frank opened the door and Kyle immediately noticed my appearance. He put his hand on my forehead and сказал(-а) "you don't feel warm; but Ты look awful babe!" I laughed it off and сказал(-а) "thanks for the compliment!" He сказал(-а) "I'm serious AJ! Ты look terrible!" I gently pushed him out of the way and сказал(-а) "come on; Ты can sit on the edge of the stage where the backup dancers come in from! You'll be able to see better than anyone else that way! He сказал(-а) "I don't think Ты should go out there AJ!" I asked "would Ты just relax; I'm fine! My Фаны are waiting for me and once I get out there and started Пение again my anxiety will go away!"
***30 секунды before the концерт entrance***
I sat there in the stage тостер with my hands on my head trying not to think about how bad my stomach was turning. My head continuously pounded with the sound of the loud screaming. I was catapulted onto the stage and that's when I realized something was seriously wrong with me! The room just felt like it was spinning out of control and I fell to the ground with a bang that was heard loud and clear by the microphone I wore over my head. The last thing I remember was the thousands of Фаны letting out gasps as I saw Kyle run to my side.
***
I opened my eyes and the first thing I saw was Kyle's face. I looked around the room and asked "where are we?" He сказал(-а) "in the hospital babe." I asked as I sat up at the edge of the постель, кровати "what happened?" He сказал(-а) "the doctors don't really know yet! They just ran some tests down to the lab! They сказал(-а) Ты could have collapsed from dehydration; but then I told them how much stress Ты have been putting on yourself lately! They are pretty sure that that's what caused Ты to pass out!"
A female doctor came into the room and shook my hand. She sat down in a chair and сказал(-а) "it seems like the stress you've been under is really affecting your health! That's еще than likely what caused Ты to black out. If Ты don't mind, I'm going to ask Ты a few questions." I rubbed my eyes and сказал(-а) "go ahead." She asked "have Ты been sleeping okay?" I сказал(-а) "yeah; nothing out of the ordinary." She asked "what about eating?" I сказал(-а) "just my typical foods that I eat while preparing for my tour." She asked "how far along are you?" I сказал(-а) "with the tour; this is the very first concert." She сказал(-а) "no, no, not with the tour. How far along are you?" Kyle and I looked at each other in confusion and I сказал(-а) "I'm sorry; I don't quite understand what you're asking me." She asked "how far along is the baby?" Kyle and I asked in unison with completely confused looks on our faces "what baby?" She сказал(-а) "I'm sorry; I thought Ты knew that you're pregnant!" Kyle laughed and sarcastically сказал(-а) "yeah right doctor; stop messing with us! I can't get Alanna pregnant; I'm sterile!"
The doctor passed me a piece of paper and written on it was "pregnancy: positive." I whispered as Kyle continued to laugh because he thought she was joking "the 5% chance." Kyle asked "what did Ты say AJ; sorry I was laughing too hard to hear you?" I сказал(-а) "the 5% chance! IT'S THE 5% CHANCE THAT Ты COULD GET ME PREGNANT; that week before Рождество when I was crying and we almost got into a fight; IT WORKED!!!!" Kyle turned white as a ghost and stuttered as he сказал(-а) "wait – we had sex – but – how – it's not supposed to – oh my God!!!" His eyes rolled back in the back of his head and he fell to the ground with a thud.
When he came to, I looked down at him as I held his head and he сказал(-а) "I'M GOING TO BE A DAD!!! Is this for real? Is this really happening? ARE Ты REALLY PREGNANT AJ?" I nodded my head and сказал(-а) "yes; I really am pregnant! еще importantly though, FRANK HAS TO POSTPONE THE TOUR until after the baby is born!"
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