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What would Ты do?? I need help :'(

Okay, so I have this friend who's been my friend since the 1st grade. I've been through so much with this person, but I realized a couple of weeks назад that this friend has changed in so many ways from the way she was when I met her. She's constantly beating me. I mean, like if I say something to her that's sarcastic или goofy, she will either slap me very hard, или hit me in the head even harder. She also bites people which I've told her many, MANY times that is not normal and she should stop it. (She gave me a bruise and teeth marks from biting me. Just because I wouldn't give her my phone! She has her own!) She also complains about everything, and has very frequent, very violent mood swings. When she's done, she blames it on hunger, или not sleeping, which I know isn't true because she overuses that excuse.She's wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too boy crazy and thinks that if she doesn't have a boyfriend it will kill her. Half of the people she goes out with she doesn't even like. She just thinks they are cute. I mean, she is my friend, but I'm getting tired of all this crap she puts me through. I don't know what to do! HELP!
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I had the same situation it's really awful
jeniffer2200 posted Больше года
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just beat her when she does and threaten to leave her if she doesnt stop ...it's that simple
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penguin098 said:
Well, I too have a friend who's kinda "ify" on the whole "true friend" thing. THis might seem kind of stupid, but what i did, and do, is take a sheet of paper and write down what a like about her and what makes her my friend. It really helps me see if the bad times are worth it for the good times. If Ты can't put anything down, she's not worth it. And don't mope in the past, think of what's going on now. Hitting and bitting doesn't really sound like somethng a friend would do anyways. Maybe Ты should even write what she does that makes Ты resent her, it really will help to put it into prespective. If the signs read ditch her, it's best Ты do so, but don't be too harsh, she seems like the revenge type. I'm guessing that your friend's behavior is a result of:
A. Stress
B. A bad at-home life
C. Puberty
Another important thing is to get people involved. Yeah, I'm going there. TALK TO YOUR PARENTS!!! They're there for you, and the want to help you. If Ты don't want to see your friend get in trouble, tell your parents that before they know the whole story, but don't keep it couped up. I hope, in the end you'll do what's right.
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posted Больше года 
kittykat8005 said:
Okay, I'll be honest with ya...It sounds like your friend is reaching at her peaks. If it's so abnormal of her to act like that, then Ты really shouldn't be with her. And biting? I've heard of glaring and growling, but biting? Sounds cannibalistic. It's may be the best just to let her go, and Переместить on. It may be hard at first, but eventually it will have it's good reasons why Ты did what Ты did. It's my opinion, so don't just listen to what I have to say. Anyways, I wish Ты the best and good luck with ur problem!
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posted Больше года 
booklover27 said:
Talk to her about it. Don't yell at her, like "STOP BITING ME" или "JUST ****** CALM DOWN". Just set her down calmly and talk things through. Don't make her feel infurior или she'll get defensive. Hope this helped.
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posted Больше года 
adultswimperson said:
Find a new friend.
Set up auditions that will help Ты find the right one.:)
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
Have a talk with her about it. Tell her Ты don't appreciate the frequent beatings. I'm sure she will find it in her сердце to control herself.
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posted Больше года 
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either that или start Актёрское искусство like her and give her a taste of her own medicine XD
NoahFanNumber1 posted Больше года
-KatSilver321- said:
Bite 'er back and get a new friend.
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posted Больше года 
teamsalvatore98 said:
Honey, I think it's time for a new friend. If she doesn't stop, get a restraining order. или talk to a shrink. (If she's your friend, she counts as a shrink. Друзья are like unpaid shrinks. In other words, Ты could talk to her about how Ты feel.)
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posted Больше года 
watchamaging said:
Dude Ты got to be the вверх dog say I've had enough of your crap I don't think its lack of anything your doing this shit on purpose get off your damn period and be the friend I use to know
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posted Больше года 
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nice.
teamsalvatore98 posted Больше года
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thanx i did it to me friend now i dont get bullyed by any one
watchamaging posted Больше года
greekvamp1107 said:
tlk to her. dont just give up like ur doing. please. she doesnt want to lose Ты and it may be awful but just talk to her. try to remember all the good things that happened to. please. just tlk to her. this happened before and she doesnt want it to happen again.
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posted Больше года 
OwlEyes12 said:
wow abusive and crazy drop her like a hot rock wait no don't she'll probably hit Ты so let her down gentely huh i sound like i'm talking to someone about their girlfriend
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