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EmzLovesCheryl said:
It takes time to become a 'best' friend to somebody. A best friend is somebody is always there, watching your back. Somebody who knows Ты inside out but loves Ты anyway. Somebody that Ты can trust with all your secrets. Somebody that Ты can sit with in silence without it feeling awkward. Somebody Ты can discuss anything with. Somebody who Ты would do anything for, and they'd do the same for you. Somebody that Ты don't feel self-conscious around. Somebody that wouldn't just stand and watch Ты fool about, but Присоединиться in with you. Somebody that Ты can call up casually at any time and ask if they're free to hang out. Somebody that Ты can easily say 'I Любовь you' to, to their face. Somebody that spontaneously hugs Ты in public without giving it a секунда count. Somebody who would stay up all night texting Ты because Ты needed their support at the time.
It annoys me when some people claim 'you've my best friend' after knowing eachother one day. Just because Ты automatically get on well with someone doesn't mean they're a best friend. As I said, a best friend should be somebody that is all the above. That's how I feel anyway. It's not a fact, no, it's an opinion. But I feel that 'best friend' is a strong meaning. It's not just anyone.
Ты have to get to know them, Ты have to have a special bond. Ты have to spend time together and accept eachother despite the differences Ты will find out. It takes time to form a best friend, but if Ты find that this person means so much to you, and Ты get to know eachother, you'll find that the level of your friendship will increase. Through my eyes, when Ты can put a tick Далее to all that I stated above, then it's безопасно, сейф to say they're your best friend.
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