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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my Друзья are treating me bad. I went to one of myy Друзья party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest или the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me или something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

 rose12345 posted Больше года
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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation Ты were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something еще to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe Ты could try telling your Друзья Ты don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see Ты suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe Ты could start doing something Ты enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using Поэзия and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish Ты the best of luck!
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Thank Ты that helps alot
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azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
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_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk еще
rose12345 posted Больше года
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that Любовь Ты :D
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yea
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someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have Ты told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
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Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll Показать them that you're not affected by what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
rose12345 posted Больше года
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Yeah if Ты act like Ты don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on Ты
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I agree, if Ты Показать them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave Ты alone.
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LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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LOL thats funny
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narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
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your welcome
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
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JaseKS said:
I know exactly how Ты feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. Ты can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
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chattycandy said:
this maybe
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im not sure but try it
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alright thank Ты
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Sasume said:
Well I can tell Ты from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your Друзья won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real Друзья won't try to bring Ты down, they'll support Ты and help you. Maybe it's time Ты found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? Ты make it worse on yourself when Ты silently agree with the bullies. Why don't Ты do something Ты love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor или something. I may not know you, but I want Ты to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
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springely said:
Tell them Ты don't care, and tell them if Ты keep bothering you, Ты will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. Ты need to Показать that Ты don't want them anymore, and Ты should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
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BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different Ссылки to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

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However if your Друзья are starting to bully Ты too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true Друзья and Ты are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly или not as i don't know what Ты look like, and sure Ты may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of Ты that is gorgeous. Have Ты ever thought that these people are bullying Ты because they're jealous?
Ты have something they don't and they want it, and to Показать that they are hounding Ты to put Ты down so low Ты can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My Совет is that Ты tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' Ты feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last год he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If Ты start harming yourself, you're Показ these bullies that what they are doing to Ты is working. Try to ignore them as much as Ты can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for Ты soon, and Ты need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
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taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but by this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He сказал(-а) "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one день my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people или alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid сказал(-а) company, but I сказал(-а) I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on Facebook about him being fat. But that is not what Ты should do.

I adivse Ты ignore them, and Показать them that Ты don't give a shit. they should leave Ты alone.
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thanks
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invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take Яой for example me and my Друзья Любовь Яой but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my Друзья dont like Яой at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one день one of my Друзья in chorus asked me why i like Яой so much i told her that its what i Любовь and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be Друзья anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she сказал(-а) " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all Ты gotta do is talk things out and tell them how Ты feel and if they dont accept Ты for who Ты are then Ты should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
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np
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