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May someone help me to feel better? I'm really upset. :(

So my mother and I went to the graveyard a while назад today. We took the dead Цветы off of my grandfather's grave. He died just several days ago. July 20th. And tears started pouring down my face. I couldn't stop them! And I сказал(-а) some things to God that I shouldn't have said. And I feel SO bad! That made me feel worse!

May someone help me feel better? I feel so terrible right now! :(

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Shadowmarioking said:
Death is a natural occurrence in life that cannot be prevented. It is the natural cycle for humans to die. One should not sulk over the death of a loved one, but instead try to remember times of joy and happiness that the deceased brought to them and to others. As for the God thing, I can't help Ты there since I'm atheist, but I'm sure he'll forgive you...I guess.
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I know it's natural, but it still hurts.
AllynessaClaire posted Больше года
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Death is going to hurt, that's why it's important to look at all the things the deceased did; all of their achievements, be it small или little, and to be thankful they were a part of your life.
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Animeanimal said:
Just remember that god knows that Ты were upset at the time....he will forgive if Ты ask. And about your grandfather.....everything is going to be alright and I am sorry for your loss, but the Lord wanted him Главная and he is not suffering any more......you should be happy for him and its okay to feel sad for him too. Instead of dwelling on the past live your life knowing that one день Ты will Присоединиться him in Ты eternal Главная and that will Переместить Ты forward. Also Ты could ask God to let him know how Ты are feeling and whats been going on in your life.....hope that helped ^^ Любовь Ты and i am always here...
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That's sweet! Thank Ты so much! Ты seem like a very understanding person.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted Больше года
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well, thank Ты X3
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KittyKatTitan said:
Aww, Don't feel sad! Your grandfather's in a better place now, and God will forgive Ты for whatever Ты said. Just pray for forgiveness and Ты will be forgiven. I understand how Ты feel though, my grandmother just recently died, and I've been pretty upset about it. But, I'm okay now though, because my Друзья and family helped me get through it. I pray that God blesses Ты and your family through this tough time, and I hope Ты get to feeling better.
Your friend,
~Kat~
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Ты are so sweet.(: ♥
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Cherry9090 said:
This may help it may not I'm sorry if dosent

My mom died giving birth to me I have been blamed all my life I do not believe in god and I have cursed him alot I do not feel bad because my mom was innocent and he took her my fault или not

But u believe in him so I'll say this Hun don't worry he forgives u Hun ok no worries

And I joined the club
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I'm so sorry. It's not your fault. And thanks much for joining.
AllynessaClaire posted Больше года
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Yes it is I never should have been born and most welcome
Cherry9090 posted Больше года
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I'm so sorry Cherry. It's not your fault, and nobody has the right to say that it is! Ты couldn't help или prevent that. I know Ты don't believe in God, but I'm saying this anyway. I know it may seem like God took her for no reason, but he did have one. We may not know his reason, but he did have one. It was her time to go in his eyes. I know this probably isn't helping you, but I just wanted to let Ты know, that it's not your fault and Ты can't be blamed for that! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I know sorry doesn't help, but I felt I needed to say it. I hope Ты have a great life and I pray that everything goes well for you! Love, ~Kat~
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Kat is right. I totally agree with her. I couldn't have сказал(-а) it better.
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danfan1 said:
I don't know if this will help Ты или not but my grandmother died a few years назад so when i am upset или depressed about something and i am crying all i do is remember the good times and funny things she used to say. Which helps. Sorry for your loss.
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When I remember those, it makes me sadder. :/
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aww
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