No they call them destineys u know michael jackson didnt want to be a singer but that was his destiney so theres proof u cant change it he wanted to but he couldn't
If Ты truly wish it to be so, then it will happen. Even when speaking in terms of destiny. I have had too many things like that happen to me to think otherwise.
destiny is merely the "future" that does not mean that Ты are forced to conform to that future. it does not push two people together,i does not give victory, it does not give them defeat. i merely says that those to people will be together. или that that person will have victory. или defeat.you yourself choose your OWN destiny. destiny only tells what Ты choose.