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Is my boyfriend right? Am I judgemental and shallow?

My boyfriend's Друзья are into drugs. Not real hard stuff или anything, but I totally disagree with it. I сказал(-а) it to him the other день that I didn't want to be hanging around with them and he сказал(-а) I was judgemental and shallow because of it. Is he right? They're pretty nice guys, but I disagree completely with drugs....should I just ignore it? But I don't want these guys hanging around my house? And because my bf got so defensive, I'm afraid he's started into them. If this is true, and he insists on continuing to use them, do Ты think I should end it with him?? :/
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
My advice: dump the guy for someone better. Don't worry about yourself being "shallow", because you're smart for wanting to not be around them, just don't have a boyfriend who calls Ты names and doesn't say "yes" to you.


I don't know Ты that well, but Ты are definitely NOT shallow или judgmental. Ты are very smart for trying to avoid those idiot pot-heads.

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Couldn't of сказал(-а) it better.^
Chewfjkd posted Больше года
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^why thank Ты 0u0
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m0shercisee said:
not shallow but a little judgemental yea. i do weed sometimes and i know a lot of people who do. doing drugs doesn't make someone a bad person so don't break up with him for that. jus let him and his Друзья do their own thing and stop trying to control what Ты boyfriend does. Ты can tell them Ты don't want them at your house but who your bf is Друзья with isn't up to Ты :/

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drugs can KILL you...does your life mean anything to you!?
purpleslurp12 posted Больше года
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things like weed don't kill 99.9% of people and that's all most people do. anyway that had nothing to do with the Вопрос aha.
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BeastBoyCahill said:
No, he's wrong.
They're wrong to do drugs and Ты should try to reason with him... (Of course, Ты ARE trying to reason with him... that's just something I think Ты should keep going with.)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Ты are not the shallow one. Ты are the smart one and he is just defensive. It is sad. Ты don't want to get busted if he gets into trouble because Ты are with them или something. If he's into drugs I'd just blow him off now while Ты can before it really hurts you.
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couldn't have сказал(-а) it better myself! *votes best answer*
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ixAthena said:
It's your boyfriend who's wrong, not you.
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Ssmiley_143 said:
I think if Ты don't like hanging around with him why not just dump him?
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BlindBandit92 said:
Some people would disagree with me. I do know that people have been trying to get certain drugs legal but honestly if he is not doing it for medicinal purposes and is doing illegally, I say dump him because dating who is addicted to drugs can hurt Ты even if Ты don't do it yourself. Your boyfriend is just defensive.

Just my take on the matter.
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greengirl8 said:
Yes! If Ты feel uncomfortable with what they're doing, Ты should stop hanging with them. And your boyfiend is totally wrong, Ты are not judgemental and shallow! Don't ever let anybody push Ты around, especially when it comes to matters like this! :)
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