I'm seeing my girlfriend this summer (I'm a lesbian) and we're probably going to have our first kiss. I've never kissed anyone, and I don't know the first thing about kissing, and I'm really nervous. Please help :|
She'll probably be nervous too, and that may help diffuse the tension. Don't force the moment, and don't expect perfection. It helps to start out "sweet"--ie, no aggressive tongue action! Build up to that! Have fun pleasing each other.
My first Kiss started out as a clumsy mess, but then it became fun as we figured out what we were doing. I think that's the essence of it--have fun.
Don't worry, I'm always nervous. So uh when Ты Kiss someone Ты make your lips like a fish's and your lips make contact with your girlfriend's and Ты have kissed. and uh make sure not Ты miss her lips...
...As Ты can tell I have never been in this situation....
Why does anyone answer if they have never kissed? Why, why? O_O Why bother?!
I was telling someone today ~ but the short of it is to relax your tongue. It's typical to be nervous или over anxious and excited but a Kiss can and will naturally build. Take a deep breath. Look into their eyes. Wet your lips alittle with the tip of your tongue. Look at their mouth...pause. If Ты gently hold their face in both your hands Ты have еще control to guide them as well. Tilt your head. If Ты go slow, Ты can always grab them and Kiss them later, but in a slow kiss, especially a FIRST Kiss Ты have less of a chance of being so nervous that in haste Ты screw up. Use the tip of your tongue a little if it is a french kiss...but relax it... nothing worse than being choked, gagging, bumping noses или teeth! LOL GO SLOW & Ты can avoid that. (Hope that helps some.)