would Ты ever go out with someone who cut ?

Yes, of course. Just because they have struggled, and felt the need to harm themselves, doesn't make them any less worthy of love/affection. If anything, they may need it more. I wouldn't only go out with them, I'd do everything I could to try and help them, and just be there for them. Because I know what it's like to self harm, and how much Ты struggle, and how much Ты fall down, and I know how hard it is to not have someone to pick Ты back up. There is no doubt in my mind, that I would дата someone who self harmed.

No.

I have nothing against people themselves, just "the act" and I am not saying I am better-than, I understand cutting and how it begins and why it remains but I found out my ex was Эмо and cut and I have enough to deal with in my life - I do not mind someone with similar backgrounds/feelings или similar issues to my own as long as we can co-exist and it be in a semi-postive way that is okay, but I do not want emotional baggage and I do not want to deal with someone else's. I would rather us be willing to work on and heal. To me, if Ты are cutting, Ты have a way to go and I am not there. I worked hard and for years to get over my divorce, (not a cutter-but that left a scar, I have had enough "emotional" scars to heal from), a lifetime to deal with messed up family stuff, and self-harm I did enough of in other ways in the past so it is not what I want to see someone do to themselves! Not at all! It isn't cool, I don't think it is interesting или romantic, no еще than any other messed up coping skill. Like I said, I have enough in my life that I deal with или have and things not cool. I want to дата еще emotionally fit and healthy as possible who is as relationship/romantically capable as possible. No one is perfect, but I do want progress или a fit that is right for me или raise me.

It scars the body & hurts those who care
Not suicidal people either, if I know not that I choose-No.

Not knowingly. I need emotional stability in a relationship.

sure , i guess , it really depends on their personality and who they are .

Well I would never be put off by someone just because they have scars, especially since I've got some, but I mean as always it depends. I'm not a huge Фан of the shallow cut-for-attention kind of person and all that, the kind who cuts just to get noticed~

I'm not sure. I myself am not very stable a person, and in a relationship, I think I'm the one that needs support and all that... I don't think I'd be able to always be there to help someone who does that, because I need help myself. I need someone strong to depend on. If I really loved the person, then sure... I'd try to help them the best I can, and make it work somehow. But I think if someone cuts, we'd most likely just be friends, and I'd try to help them to the best of my ability, as a friend. Uhh... that sounds less mean in my head than it does here.

well considering i'm sorda surprised i don't....yeah....

Yes i have before i am also a cutter so :/

Yeah,I would. They deserve Любовь too,I would try to help the person in any way I can.

Yeah.
Ты just have to be my type and have a clean record.

I don't think so

Ты mean someone who's circumcised? because I don't understand your question.

Maybe. I already know a friend who told me two weeks назад that she was cutting. It doesn't bother me too much, but I still worry.

Yeah, why not?

Yes.
I like giving Совет to depressed people. If my дата did self-harm, I would find a way to talk to him about it.

As long as I liked the guy enough to help him with it, I would.

idk im so depressed right now i cant think straight

I don't think I could, I don't like the idea of dating someone with the same problems as me, it sounds sad. I'm a very quiet shy person, I couldn't talk about this stuff with most people in person, and people who do self harm tend to talk about it alot, and that would be too depressing for me.

No fucking way!

I hate cut, especially whenever I'm trying to copy the text I accidentally click cut and see before my eyes half of my work go the waste.

Fuck cut.

Yes but i would try to convince them to stop and do everything i could to try to help them and if they didnt stop after going out with me awhile i would probably have to break up with them because even if i liked them as a person the thought of cutting really disgusts me.

yeah. yea h you're a fucking douche if Ты wouldn't tbh i mean. Unless you're emotionally incapable of dealing with that