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Family, friends, lover/spouse, children. In which order do Ты / would Ты value and hold your loyalties to the most and why?

Family meaning your parents and siblings who Ты grew up with - thus separating them from lover/spouse and children.

Lover / Spouse meaning your wife, husband, или long term relationship. For those who dont plan to marry или anything, it can also mean your sexual partner. If Ты dont plan for either, I guess this would prolly be your lowest without Вопрос XD
 Family, friends, lover/spouse, children. In which order do Ты / would Ты value and hold your loyalties to the most and why?
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Personally, I think spouse / children would probably rank the most if I got to that point. But when it comes to friend and family that it really depends on who we are talking about
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wantadog said:
None of the above. I'm not loyal to a "type" like "family" или "Friends" I'm loyal to those INDIVIDUALS who earn that loyalty. There are members of my family I am not loyal to at all and would sell them out to a friend who I am еще loyal to. Same for friends. There are some Друзья who I am less loyal to than even myself because for some rhyme или reason they Остаться в живых certain amounts of my trust.

The only one I can honestly rank would be "lover/spouse" because I would only ever become Влюбленные или marry someone who I quite simply am completely dedicated to. I'd give that person everything I have. Everyone I am loyal to gets it all to some degree but the person I choose to spend my life with is the one deserving of everything. Devotion....Trust....Forgiveness....whatever Ты can think of.

and obviously the word of a child should be taken with a grain of salt.
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 None of the above. I'm not loyal to a "type" like "family" или "Friends" I'm loyal to those INDIVIDUALS who earn that loyalty. There are members of my family I am not loyal to at all and would sell them out to a friend who I am еще loyal to. Same for friends. There are some Друзья who I am less loyal to than even myself because for some rhyme или reason they Остаться в живых certain amounts of my trust. The only one I can honestly rank would be "lover/spouse" because I would only ever become Влюбленные или marry someone who I quite simply am completely dedicated to. I'd give that person everything I have. Everyone I am loyal to gets it all to some degree but the person I choose to spend my life with is the one deserving of everything. Devotion....Trust....Forgiveness....whatever Ты can think of. and obviously the word of a child should be taken with a grain of salt.
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Im the same for the most part, but I was mostly doing a generalized look XD
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Mine are еще on a people stand point but its something my sister talked to me about a lot when I was younger XD
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BlindBandit92 said:
Depending on if сказал(-а) person deserved сказал(-а) loyalty. All of the people closest to me would get even loyalty. I am not planning on getting married или having kids so scratch that. There is a member of my family I don't have loyalty towards. There used to be Друзья who Остаться в живых сказал(-а) loyalty.

My loyalty depends on the individual and whether сказал(-а) person earned the right to obtain my loyalty. If they have my loyalty I will be extremely loyal to them until I have reason to do otherwise.

(Even if I have a sexual partner. I think my loyalty would be to them like a good friend whose close to me so basically the same.)
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 Depending on if сказал(-а) person deserved сказал(-а) loyalty. All of the people closest to me would get even loyalty. I am not planning on getting married или having kids so scratch that. There is a member of my family I don't have loyalty towards. There used to be Друзья who Остаться в живых сказал(-а) loyalty. My loyalty depends on the individual and whether сказал(-а) person earned the right to obtain my loyalty. If they have my loyalty I will be extremely loyal to them until I have reason to do otherwise. (Even if I have a sexual partner. I think my loyalty would be to them like a good friend whose close to me so basically the same.)
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TheLefteris24 said:
Well, I'll go with the flow of the Ответы so far and triple on the fact that an equal amount of my loyalty would go to certain individuals regardless of which Group they belong to. Can't really generalize. There is a certain part of my Family that I'm feeling really grateful towards them but when it comes to the other one, not so much. I do not feel beholden to the later. It is the same case with Друзья of mine. In the first place, why can't the barriers break and they be considered Family as well? I feel that those closest to me really deserve of such a Title. A bond by blood simply means nothing on a matter like that. Same case with my Lover/Spouse and Children obviously. In other words, I'm loyal towards those who harbor the same feelings as me regardless of their placement in my Life !!!!
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 Well, I'll go with the flow of the Ответы so far and triple on the fact that an equal amount of my loyalty would go to certain individuals regardless of which Group they belong to. Can't really generalize. There is a certain part of my Family that I'm feeling really grateful towards them but when it comes to the other one, not so much. I do not feel beholden to the later. It is the same case with Друзья of mine. In the first place, why can't the barriers break and they be considered Family as well? I feel that those closest to me really deserve of such a Title. A bond by blood simply means nothing on a matter like that. Same case with my Lover/Spouse and Children obviously. In other words, I'm loyal towards those who harbor the same feelings as me regardless of their placement in my Life !!!!
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Heartbeat- said:
In real life I only value my family since I haven't experienced the other relationships. My baby sister would be my life❤️
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 In real life I only value my family since I haven't experienced the other relationships. My baby sister would be my life❤️
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:v But Im ur friend :v
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I know I was talking about real life..Your my coolest friend <3
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Zeppie said:
It's not something I could ever rank tbh.

I have good and bad days with family, Друзья and my partner but my loyalty doesn't change. I couldn't put anyone above the other tbh, they all hold a lot of meaning in my life and I am grateful for them.

Although when I do have children I could imagine a strong bond there. I mean the bond between mother and child is significant. Still wouldn't consider my loyalty mainly devoted to the child though.

Interesting Вопрос though... id find it extremely difficult to have different levels of loyalty to the people that support and shape me.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
1: Children. I brought them into this world (at least, I will be soon) so I have the responsibility to make sure that I do everything I can for them.

2: Lover. My husband has done the most to earn my loyalty, otherwise I wouldn't have married him. I know for a fact that he'll always be there in return.

3. friends. Kinda the same thing as husband except I don't usually also fuck them

4: family. I didn't choose my family and a lot of them treat me like dirt. I tend to value relationships that Ты build up rather than the ones that just kinda happen so my family has to earn my loyalty as much as my Друзья do
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SilentForce said:
1.Spouse
2.Children
3.Family
4.Friends
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