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Любовь или lust?

There's this friend of mine whom I care for very dearly. I would do anything for her, even murder. When I see her, I feel like this бабочка feeling and I cannot take my eyes off of her. Not in the creepy way but in my eyes, she's the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on and her personality is ten thousand times as beautiful as how she looks on the outside. Her eyes are like gemstones in the night and her smile makes me melt like I have no control. I don't know if I'm going insane или I'm madly in love. I would very much like someone to tell me what Любовь is in their eyes.
( Before any of Ты Вопрос if she has feelings for me, she does. We have a mutual charm on one another. I just need to know if I'm wrong. Is it Любовь или is it lust?)
 kingcesar67 posted ·7 дней назад
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8theGreat said:
That 100% sounds like infatuation. Which is not Любовь but i guess can become it I guess.
No fear though it's just like early stages and doesnt mean its invalid you're just in a state of limerence which will just develop over time if things work out.
And if they dont that's okay too


I dont think Любовь is esoteric или flowery или even necessarily profound. It can be those things but I think еще importantly its trusting someone and being so comfortable with them that Ты can do and say just about anything without fear of judgement and a high level of respect and admiration for the other party as well.
It's also when you've been together so long that Ты can just chill in your женское нижнее белье, нижнее белье, трусы but its not sexual at all and Ты can also tease each other when Ты fart. Tbh that's true Любовь and it takes time to grow and isnt just this hot fiery passion Поэзия fest that people like to go on about in my honest opinion.


But Эй, what do I know I'm just a dumb shit that's been I'm the same relationship for like 200 years with someone I've known for like 409 years so maybe I'm dumb who knows its past 11pm and I сказал(-а) I was gonna sleep so maybe I should do that bye
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posted ·7 дней назад 
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fiery passion and what u describe aren’t mutually exclusive 😂
sadleech posted ·7 дней назад
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I agree with Nomy XD
Riku114 posted ·7 дней назад
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@sadleech "alright bud? dude "fiery passion and what u describe aren't mutually exclusive? No one сказал(-а) they were. The way Ты came at her did not sound like a non elitist comment. It looked very condescending but w/e.
BlindBandit92 posted ·6 дней назад
Mike88Al27 said:
I am the Doom Slayer and through my very heightened senses as a demon hunter, the two of Ты are actually demons disguised as humans through demonic magic.
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 I am the Doom Slayer and through my very heightened senses as a demon hunter, the two of Ты are actually demons disguised as humans through demonic magic.
posted ·7 дней назад 
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