The Vampire Diaries Couples Article: Mature Bamon Фаны allowed to reply. A rant/vision of DB on the show.

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Mature Bamon Фаны allowed to reply. A rant/vision of DB on the show.

posted by _VivalaVida_

FIRST THING: just don't read that if it could piss Ты off, или your intentions are to start a fight. These are just my thoughts about DB in the show.

So, actually, if I'm being honest, most of the DB Фаны just can't understand that the Книги and the Показать are two completely different things. Probably they can't accept that and never will. I'm not a Фан of the books, so I don't know their dynamics, though I do know that in the Книги DB have this sort of connection and thing for each other. Well, okay..but in the show? ROFLMAO much? I even understand that it has to be a big pain in the жопа, попка not having them in the Показать - and probably never will - but GET OVER IT.
All the Bamon Фаны play the victims and the bullied ones, when they're the most rude, arrogant and cocky fanbase I've ever seen. Have Ты seen your spot? It's not even a DB spot anymore, just an anti DE/DE Фаны place. That's very sad. Oh, and of course in every flock there's the pastor...mmh well don't going to talk about that. ;D

I could make a lot of points on why Bamon on the Показать is totally non-existent and why their Фаны must fly very down, but most of all, if they ever happen it would be so out of character for them both that I'd be very disappointed with the writers. But, if there's a thing that piss the hell out of me, it's when THEY call US delusional and crazy for shipping Delena, when all Ты can do is doing manips and dreaming about Bamon. They create a TVD of their own with crazy freaking parallels...oh, but the most "Okay where's the camera?" thing is that pick where they ask if Bamon will be endgame on the show, and most of them сказал(-а) "I'm extremely confident, don't Ты see? They're already building them up, they're epic. They scream endgame! DE Фаны fuck off!" YEAH, ENDGAME IN MY ASS.

Plus, did Ты forget "I will always choose you/I will gladly let Bonnie die etc etc.."? Oh sure not, they're parallels too..aren't they?! -_-"
Whatever, I'm sorry for my rant but honestly DB Фаны made me dislike and not stand their ship and them so much with all their hate and rudeness that it's such a shame, since I didn't even know the existence of Bamon before watching the Показать and if it wasn't for their Фаны they would be completely indifferent in my eyes...

Here there are some thoughts and paralles/foreshadowings made in the air that are totally NON SENSE:

- Bonnie saying "I Любовь him" when Jeremy died and Damon saying "I Любовь you" to Elena while he was dying. According to them, this is a hell of a parallel. Excuse me???! Did I miss something? I don't think that the writers did it on purpose, but even if they did, it has nothing to do with Bamon. Actually, it only shows how Bonnie and Jeremy's relationship has grown with her saying that she loves him, and shows how much Damon truly loves Elena if he felt the urge to tell her he loved her in his death bed. It isn't сказал(-а) that when you're dying and Ты have no time left, Ты only speaks the truth? Well, here there is the truth.

- Damon saying "Let me be clear about something. If it comes down to Ты and the witch again I will gladly let Bonnie die. I will always. Choose. YOU." is another foreshadowing just because he's mentioning Bonnie??!! I think that Damon meant everyone, but in that case he mentioned Bonnie b/c they had to take down Klaus. I don't think that in the future he will GLADLY let anyone die, but still, the thing is pretty clear: Elena is the one he loves and no matter what he will always choose her over everyone. Indeed, it is a Delena foreshadowing because it says that he will always choose her. And even the fact of stroking Bonnie's face..I think that he would have done the same with Caroline if it was her the one who was 'dead'. That's because Damon is not that rutheless vampire of S1 anymore, he's finding his humanity and he's even starting to actually care about other people's sake in general who are not Elena, Stefan или even Alaric.
Look at what he did with Caroline and Tyler. He saved them risking his own life, infact Tyler even bit him and he didn't say a word. I don't care what some people say, Damon has grown up a lot during this season and he's becoming an incredible selfless person.

Then I don't know, these were the first that came to my mind but I've read even many others really pathetic as these ones.

Oh and another thing that seriously makes me want to перфоратор, удар, пунш some of them in the face so badly, is the Nian hate. Mother of God, when I read things like "Ian and Nina will not last. They will broke up very soon and it will be an epical disaster for the show." - "Ian and Nina are doing it for publicity, just to promote S3 which is very DE centered." - "Oh my God, Ian and Nina suck together! It's so clear that Ian has a crush on Katerina and Nina on Paul!".
Here, these ^ really drive me nuts. I understand a possible DE hate..but Nian??? Seriously??! Offending and bashing normal human beings and try to be so negative about them just out of jealousy? God, I'm not dumb Ты know. I see all this Nian hate, but when it comes to a Ian/Kat или Nina/Paul video или picture "OMFG they are so hot together! They're totally doing it. Chemistry everywhere." ROFL, some DB Фаны even get excited with Ian/Katerina manips for dear life!!!!! And Paul is a married man, Ты know?! -_-"
Plus, all this bullshit of Nian being together just for publicity has to end. Get a life guys, seriously. That's really mean to say, when they are dating for a год and just in April they came out officially holding hands at Coachella. Can Ты just accept that? Ian/Katerina and Paul/Nina = never going to happen. Deal with it.

I'm sorry if I offended someone, it was not my intention. But I felt the urge to speak the truth and say what I thought. ;)

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deluv tbh. ever since I joined this spot, i've come across great DB fans which i'm thankful for. I honestly think Bamon fans only see the good things Damon does, when they have to do with Bonnie. They foget that he cares for everyone, saved Tyler, Matt, Caroline, wanted to give himself in instead of Jenna etc. But Bamon fans don't see this. All you see is them saying "Damon is evil and Bonnie is the only one to heal him" or "Did you see what he did, Elena is a bad influence" yadda yadda. And they forget all the good things he does. He's making progres and ofc it won't happen over night..and he'll not be 100% perfect since he was living his bad boy life sytle for 145yrs...Do you really expect him to be good compeletly in 2days?? or even a year?? It is going to take longer than that. So stop thinking when he gets with Bonnie he'll magically change into Stefan. Speaking of Stefan. Bamon fans want Damon to love Bonnie the way Stefan loves Elena. You know the lovey-dovey, smily,i'll kiss you ass relationship Stelena have. That's what they want. But Damon and Stefan are different. Damon loves intensely,love takes control over. Bamon fans if you don't agree with this then feel free to tell me how you imagine the DB relationship...??

LuCe60bis Deluv, why are you always directing those kind of judgment toward the Bamon fanbase ? Because that's definitly NOT TRUE. To be honest what you said, is EXACTLY what i thought about the Delena fanbase too, that's funny dont you think? we think the same things about the opposite fanbase. I think we love and want our ship to be different, because if we really wanted like you said some lovey dovey like Stelena, then i would not be rooting fo Bamon, and De fans too, i would be only for Stelena, i like Stelena dont get me wrong, but it's NOT what got me excited about the show, i want something different, exciting, unique. and that's why i ship Bamon, the potential of what they could be is insane, they could be a powerful, fun, epic couple, do you know Michael and Maria from Roswell, they remind me of them :). You think we dont get Damon ? you're also very wrong, it's about his journey, of course we notice his character development, he's a very complex character, and that's why he's my favorite,(besides Bonnie oc), people just dont get them in general, so they hate on them, simple as that. We're very attached to him, we want the BEST for him, so yeah we're not happy when we see him suffer and become a mess like he was this season, normal dont you think?, we love him that much, but we know he need to go through all of this to get better, he need this pain, to feel, it's hard but it's for his own good, and we are very aware of that. ;)

_VivalaVida_ ^ ROFL. But here you are with a Bamon icon manip. Of a DE scene, most of all! I'm not going to repeat what I think b/c it's all in the article, but the DB idea is ludicrous and insane. It would make more sense Caroline and Jeremy, look..

epicdelena4ever @LuCe60is wow, ur actaully the first bamon fan i know that actaully likes DB for ONLY the show. I find that very intersting, but why do u like them in the show? Also glad u didn't blow up at people on here but explained what u think.

Tigerlily888 "All the Bamon fans play the victims and the bullied ones, when they're the most rude, arrogant and cocky fanbase I've ever seen. Have you seen your spot? It's not even a DB spot anymore, just an anti DE/DE fans place"- The Bamon spot isn't a anti-DE place only! of course it dislikes DE well most fans do but we're what we are-Bamon fans! We can discuss De if we want but we're most interested in Bamon! OF COURSE you're not going to say you're fanbase says anything bad-but of course they do! Every fanbase has a rival-so stop trying to say DE is spotless! This articles is incredibly arrogant and cocky SO it's slightly hypocritical isn't it! I've never read the books-I feel in love with BAMON SHOW-then after i heard about them in the book and read all about them. Not all Bamon fans have read the books and like Bamon because of that! Bamon SHOW has chemistry-it's ludicrous to deny that! "when all you can do is doing manips and dreaming about Bamon"-*snort*-how can you expect 'mature' Bamon fans if you make such a immature comment! Saying all we do is make manips is very unfair! LISTEN: BAMON IS A POTENTIAL COUPLE-so of course we dream but we also believe and we believe it will happen. Feelings can change!!!! STOP painting US (Bamon fans) like the "bad guys"-you bitch about us too! Yes you say "mature Bamon fans" and I am a mature person but some of your comments are kinda rude-I'm not sure any Bamon fan-mature or not would warm to some of the ideas...... I'm sorry if I don't like your article context and some of you think I'm "immature" but sticking up for Bamon and saying we're not "cocky" isn't being immature-it's defending Bamon!!!!

_VivalaVida_ ^ You're not allowed to reply on that article, you know why? B/c I'm pretty sure you didn't read very well the "mature Bamon fans are allowed to reply" part. This is not an hate article, just MY VISION of things. So, salud.

deluv [b] ELENA WILL ALWAYS CHOOSE STEFAN IN THE END SO WE THINK BAMON WILL HAPPEN![/b] Just like the way Damon will Always choose Elena.

_VivalaVida_ ^ Oh snap! ;)

deluv So funny how some DB fans think that Elena choosing Stefan means Damon choosing Bonnie. It doesn't work that way. [b] We're very attached to him, we want the BEST for him, so yeah we're not happy when we see him suffer and become a mess like he was this season, [/b] That was him getting in touch with his humanity. It was something that was meant to happen and of course it wasn't gonna be easy. NO GAIN WITHOUT PAIN!!! You want him to be happy like in season 1?? I've got a question for you, Do you think he was really happy?

_VivalaVida_ ^ IMO. First of all, we can't know who will Elena choose in the end. If it was so predictable, it would be a bore of a show and a triangle. Of course people can do suppositions and have an opinion, but WE just DON'T KNOW who will Elena choose b/c we're not the writers. And second, IMHO it doesn't mean Stefan and Elena = Damon with Bonnie. Until now it has been like that and meh, there was no DB so WTF is this random crap?! Ppl have no bases to say something like that because Bamon is an AU couple on the shhow and fine you can ship them all you want, but at least have the honestly to admit that. As I said in the article not because they happened in the books, they're happening on the show. Wish people could understand that and not overeact or overanalize every single scene they get like Goddamn sent them. BTW this article has not been made to pick up fights and so far there haven't been, so just don't comment if you have to make a comment like TigerTrill's one, you would just ruin the mood. I'd appreciate it.

sweetyetsimple EVERYONE LISTEN TO ME! saying your opinion is somthing and attacking someone personally is completely another thing,having a diffrence in opinion is ok but having diffrences with the person himself is extremely IMMATURE plus pathetic cuz it proves u dont have a ground to stand for at first place n ur trying to manipulate the whole conversation,to avoid the real subject.

epicdelena4ever IKR!! @ viva and deluv......damon isnt gonna choose bonnie if elena chooses stefan. Did they forget bonnie is with jeremy also. @Tigerlily888 u just proved that u only ship bamon becuae elena will always choose stefan.... which is NOT a reason because IF elena chooses stefan. Doesn't mean damon will get together with bonnie.

Lannieluv7 OMFG this annoys me SO MUCH... just becuase damon and bonnie kissed randonly in the books and bonnie was a love sick weirdo for him when he obviosuly NEVER made and move ON HER or told her he loved her in anyway.... HOW THE FUCK does that go to the show....OH WAIT it doesn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^^^LMAO! Okay first off. They have kissed multiple times none of them were ever random. And half those times Damon kissed Bonnie and he even blushed once. It is not one sided at all. It's very mutual. He even died for her. So i dont know what book your reading. I'm a mature bamon fan but cmon know what your talking about if your going to argue against something. Book bamon is epic and a whole other topic. Say what you want about show bamon but book bamon is EPIC. Everyone else here has a semi valid argument, but deluv what are you even talking about?lol Your right bamon in the books is very different from show bamon. I didnt even like bamon in the show in the beginning and i liked delena. However the thing i dont like about Delena is the betrayal of Stefan. I dont think anything like " Damon will always choose Bonnie over Elena" or anything like that. I simply like the interaction and chemistry between two characters. So please stop assuming and generalizing all bamon fans.

epicdelena4ever OHHH GOD!...HE BLUSHED...TRU LOVE RIGHT?!!!!!!!! hahahah.please. and when were they ever NOT random?!!! im pretty sure u can CLEARLY tell in the books DAMON IS IN LOVE WITH ELENA AND ELENA ONLY. can u give me on example where he SAYS he's in love with bonnie? NOT actions WORDSSSS! and dont give me that actions speak louder then words crap! cause everything "bonnie does" for damon or vice versa u bamons take to a whole other level which make no sense. oh and i do understand the difference of bamon in the book and the show. some bamon fans just don't. and that's what i hate the most.

_VivalaVida_ Lannieluv are you fucking blind or what??? THIS IS A FREAKING RANT ABOUT SHOW BAMON. So really why the hell are you commenting in the first place??! Plus, you're only causing a fight, thing that I specifically said from the beginning that I didn't want. You're not a mature fan, so don't comment my article because your comment has nothing to do with it, THANKS.

Lempicka I thought this rant was supposed to be mature. I was expecting something constructive about BD on the show and all I read was about BAD DB fans. We get it, you dislike even more DB fans than DB;fine. You should get over it .

_VivalaVida_ ^ Jeez, you're such a bunch of immature people. This article is a freaking rant about DB on the show, and even though I clearly wrote that I DONNOT want fights you still reply trying to pick up disussions. What's wrong with you?! I'm tired of Bamon fans playing the victims and dumbs, when your freaking spot is PLENTY of DE/DE fans rant articles and even so much more offensive of this one. Enough, I'm sick of you commenting MY article. Stay the hell away, damn it.

_VivalaVida_ Okay you know what?! Re-reading all the comments, they truly made me pissed b/c you seriously are rude. I ask to not pick up fights and you do it. I openly said that this is a rant/vision about show Bamon and you start discussions about Book Bamon. What in the actual fuck??! Please have respect. So really, BAMON FANS DONNOT COMMENT THIS ARTICLE, otherwise I'll report you. I had enough dealing with these crazy people, jeez.

Lannieluv7 how is dying for someone not love?Plus someone brought up book bamon and i was arguing agaisnt it but honestly this spot is just fight heaven.

Realist1 @_VivalaVida_ :Believe me, i'm not here to argue as it's not necessary. I have read all the comments and understand this article is about the show and not the books, but I don't know why you are excluding a whole fanbase, when the first people to comment about book Bamon was not Bamon fans at all. Should you not just report the ones who go off topic or started being rude in the first place.

bratski2192 I will be mature & offer up my own opinion about Bamon show & book. FACT: Bamon on the show are an AU ship. Delena cant be considered AU cuz there's more than friendly feelings/unrequited love that will more than likely be reciprocated, while DB don't care for one another other than working together to protect the town/Elena, & using the other for something else (Damon wanted to use Bonnie to open up the tomb in the second half of S1). They don't paricularly care for each other, but care if the other lives somewhat for Elena's sake, not cuz they respect one another. It's okay to ship them. But to overexaggerate their scenes, say that every scene they have with each other & other characters is foreshadowing a future Bamon romantic relationship is over the top. It's nice to hope, but still. DB could happen, but so far, doesn't even look close, & whether u like it or not, it would be OOC for both of them, since Bonnie still has high morals & is in a relationship with Jeremy while dealing with the *returns* of Vicki & Anna, while Damon has to help Elena find Stefan, & the aftermath of Elena kissing Damon, plus the originals, Stefan with Klaus & dealing with his dark side, possibly getting closer to Katherine in the process, & more. Perhaps a Bamon friendship, but don't see anything more. JMO. In the books: Damon has kissed Bonnie & blushed about it. Never once has he said or spoken as himself/soul self that he loves her, or any indication that he has hidden love for her. Stefan, Elena, Bonnie herself, Damon, etc. all describe Damon's feelings for Bonnie as truly CARING. He cares for her, which is why it was impulsive for him to save her life in Midnight. He would've done the same for Elena & has even sworn to more than once. On his DEATHBED, Damon said he ONLY LOVED Elena. His soul self confirms this also. His soul/child self also displayed his deep care for Bonnie by having Elena tell her he's sorry for the bad things that happened to her. Saying that he was in love with Bonnie, & just hasn't realized it yet, & his love for Elena is just obsession is just pure speculation. It's written he loves Elena, so I'm not gonna doubt a dying man's words or his inner self voicing it also. Yes Bonnie is a romantic interest. LJ Smith said that, but that means he has feelings/cares for Bonnie. It doesn't automatically mean he's in love with her & hasn't realized it. It bugs me sometimes that some descibe Bamon in the books as *epic*, while totally disregarding what Damon himself or the other characters have said or are described as feeling. This is JMO tho. No bashing intended. We all love who we love. I just wish we could all just get along instead of every tiny little thing being turned into a shipper war.

spechless @bratski2192 Wow, this is a very good comment and I totally agree with you! I couldn't have said it better, especially the deathbed/soul,child thing! I don't want to argue with anyone but I guess it's just the truth! He's dying and he has nothing to lose anymore, so why would he lie? Yes, he died for Bonnie but I truly think some reactions are just overrated. Maybe Stefan would have done the same if he had got the opportunity to. You never know. Well, that's it (already :P)

LuCe60bis " "We're very attached to him, we want the BEST for him, so yeah we're not happy when we see him suffer and become a mess like he was this season," That was him getting in touch with his humanity. It was something that was meant to happen and of course it wasn't gonna be easy. NO GAIN WITHOUT PAIN!!! You want him to be happy like in season 1?? I've got a question for you, Do you think he was really happy? " oO Euh why are you picking just one sentence in my post when the entire one is this "We're very attached to him, we want the BEST for him, so yeah we're not happy when we see him suffer and become a mess like he was this season, normal dont you think?, we love him that much, but we know he need to go through all of this to get better, he need this pain, to feel, it's hard but it's for his own good, and we are very aware of that. ;)" ... Damon have never been happy, even as a human, he was helping Katherine killing people it said enough. It's all about finding redemption and his humanity, it's his journey. If the Petrova's curse between the brothers could end i think it could help ahahah ^^

WonderlandKills I love how friendly this spot is :) x

Tigerlily888 ironic ironic ironic how you say "mature bamon fans allowed" then haha you're comments on the wall says it all about you!!!!!!