what damon did:
1.damon feed elena his blood,so she can have a chance of coming back(even she doesn't want to come back as a vampire)but at least it's a shoot
2.damon made katherine tell him where klaus keept caroline & tyler
3.damon didn't kill matt even though he could have
4.damon saved both carloine & tyler
5.damon saved carloine yet again,when tyler attacked while he was turning,and got bitten in the process.
6.damon told carloine and matt to hide in a безопасно, сейф place.
7.damon went to klaus welling and knowing that he will be either killed или sacrificed.
what stefan did:
1.stefan took elena for a walk
2.stefan colsed his eyes
3.stefan called damon for help,insted of trying to find where klaus took elena.
"i was trying to protect elena,i will always protect elena"-stefan
wow great job protecting her stefan by yet again doing NOTHING
so by the end of they день who will save elena's life????