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Please help a christian who needs it :'(

I have never told anyone this, not my parents, not my friends, (you'll see why) nor my siblings.

I was a little kid, I had switched schools, from 1st Grade, to 2nd, I had found new Друзья to accompany my GT classes, I had found about 5 Друзья when I got there (and I was really shy, so I was proud with myself :) ) Im not telling the names so if they read this they wont know... They seemed very nice at the beginning snd I was beginning to know еще about them, but as that happened, I found that they weren't actually very nice, they cussed constantly, (it started in about 3rd Grade), they talked about еще disgusting things like sex, private parts, etc. And I didn't want to be their Друзья anymore, but I couldn't just stop! I was stuck with them in the class! So I stayed "friends", and the еще they grew with me, the less I liked them. Until I REALLY hated them, they cussed at their own classmates, ME, and the teacher sometimes with the teacher noticing. One of my "friends" even watched porn, I was shocked when I figured out they did, they also сказал(-а) THEY were Christians, and when I asked them how, they said, "OH, I have like 5 (bleeping) bibles in my house!" It was obvious they didn't know what being a true Christian was :'( I felt sad. Please tell me what to do! Even my dad went through something like this, but in the streets! If Ты guys could help me through middle school, that would be a huge help, i'm sorry if I wasted your time with this huge paragraph ;(
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Ты did not waste my time & I am glad Ты ask... (My answer actually took several attempts through computers problems, etc, but I wanted Ты to get it, to see Ты can be loved and have Друзья who ARE what Ты need and sometimes we have to wait. God is all we really need and He can be a friend. Now ask Him. :)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Больше года
 DannyGassy posted Больше года
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PucksLady said:
Эй, now don't worry about the large paragraph!

Wow, this is a big problem! I've never had to deal with this, thank God, but I do have "friends" who are terrible people. The best way to deal with this, that I can think of, is to just ignore them. They are terrible people, and they do not know what it means to be a true Christian. I wouldn't say anything, though, because if Ты do, they might say that you're shoving your "religion" down their throats (I have had experience with that).

However, if they start bad-mouthing Christianity, Ты do need to stand up for what Ты believe in. Don't be afraid to do that! Call on Christ as your protecter and ask Him to give Ты the right words to say.

I hope I helped, and feel free to message me if Ты need anything. :)
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coriann said:
wow Danny, im so sorry, i understand the pain Ты must feel, Danny, i was a Christian once, and before Ты start judging me, just listen...
I went through the same thing, and I wondered, where on earth are all the other Christians? I began to feel lonely, I didn't have such a good ending, but Ты can!

I know this might seem hard for you, and it must make Ты angry to think that your friend calls him/herself a Christian,
but Danny, Ты need to take a deep breath and put all of this aside, look inside yourself, Ты know who Ты are but Ты also know that Ты have to stay in school.

Ты stay Друзья with them, Ты need to open up your mind to these people, don't judge them, try to understand why they do the things they do, then, maybe if Ты can understand them, Ты will not feel so upset with them anymore. Get along with them because in a dangerous place like school, Ты need to have friends, Ты need to have people who have your back,

Ты may not understand these friends, im not saying Ты have to be best Друзья with them, but, the bible says to Любовь your enemy and pray for those who persecute you, judge not and Ты shall not be judged.
Ты know who Ты are, that's the most important thing, and there are plenty of people out there that feel the same way as Ты and Ты will find them eventually! :D and you'll be really happy, in the mean time hang in there baby, LOL i don't want Ты to end up like me

i hope this was good advice! ^ ^
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Coriann - Ты know I Любовь ya bunches Hunny, but if Ты have turned AWAY from God, then why are Ты even answering someone's Вопрос HERE. I can't judge Ты to even ask Ты why Ты are here, though, in truth I wonder, as this is a "Christianity" Club & Ты say Ты aren't... but people come here to hear from Christians and not non-Christians. They could go anywhere else for that Совет and I hope Ты understand what I am trying to say isn't saying Ты have nothing good to offer, I am just wondering why Ты answer f they are ASKINg или needing something else?
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Больше года
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Ты have A LOT of good to offer and say some wonderful things~ I Любовь you... and it is NOT an end for Ты Baby Gurl, like Ты said, it is a beginning and never ever too late while Ты have breath I hope sooner than later Ты can find your way back to God because Ты are precious.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Больше года
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:) thx Sin, lol, Ты know i will, not like i can stay away from y'all ;)
coriann posted Больше года
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are & just because a Christian isn't perfect или has faults -doesn't mean they aren't, people can be false as Ты saw very clearly with your eyes about your Друзья - now look at yourself.

God brings us up to learn. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think Ты were wrong to stay Друзья with those classmates. To me that shows Ты were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here или there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing.

As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues или about what anyone else is doing или thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are дана guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable или confusing..... God makes things еще simple than for people without Him.

The simple thing here is seeing that Ты needed people of "positive" support, who lift Ты in positive ways & directions... Друзья who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference.

This is your personal journey.
This is also how God hones us and weeds us out.
Ты will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If Ты feel Ты lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Иисус name will be дана according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what Ты ask for) ASK for God to surround Ты with the positive people HE wants for Ты in your life.

Don't feel bad for letting them go.
Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me или imagined them-it hurt me the way Ты acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that Ты can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself by the blessings of seeking Him. Because Ты care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help Ты (*esp when Ты seek Him или ask).

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 [b]Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are[/b] & [b]just because a Christian isn't perfect или has faults -doesn't mean they aren't[/b], people can be false as Ты saw very clearly with your eyes about your Друзья - [b]now look at yourself[/b]. [b]God brings us up to learn[/b]. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think Ты were wrong to stay Друзья with those classmates. To me that shows Ты were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here или there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing. As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues или about what anyone else is doing или thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are дана guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable или confusing..... God makes things еще simple than for people without Him. The simple thing here is seeing that Ты needed people of "positive" support, who lift Ты in positive ways & directions... Друзья who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference. This is your personal journey. This is also how God hones us and weeds us out. Ты will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If Ты feel Ты lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Иисус name will be дана according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what Ты ask for) ASK for God to surround Ты with the positive people HE wants for Ты in your life. Don't feel bad for letting them go. Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me или imagined them-it hurt me the way Ты acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that Ты can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself by the blessings of seeking Him. Because Ты care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help Ты (*esp when Ты seek Him или ask). [url=http://www.wikihow.com/Decide-if-Your-Friend-is-a-True-Friend]Real/True Friend или Not?[/url]
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...and what Coriann said, about looking at your Друзья and trying to understand where they are at too- don't burn your bridge или be too harsh или judgemental, don't be ugly to them, but people do grow apart and Ты do not have to sit in the сиденье, место, сиденья of the scoffer nor stand in the path of the sinner to Любовь your enemies and bless those that curse you. Ты can be a postive example for them, but don't let "them" drag "you" down ;)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted Больше года
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Thanks, your answer really helped :')
DannyGassy posted Больше года
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d'awe! look Ты got me blushin! ^ ^ thx Sin, im glad to hear somebody actually appreciates all the stuff i post! Ты know i really put a lot of time into some of my posts, like the one on gays going to heaven, i spent all morning researching for that, no it was fun really, i was actually bored out of my mind so again thx a lot and i really like Ты too! i enjoy posting with you! ^ ^
coriann posted Больше года
natalierg said:
Don't worry about the paragraph, it's not even that big and Письмо helps Ты vent. Life can get tough and bumpy sometimes but it's important to never stray from God. Ты should leave those "friends" because even though it's hard it's better to have no Друзья than "friends" who bring Ты down in your faith and just in general. Ты should look into a thing called Lift Camp. It is AMAZING and brings Ты soooooo much closer to God.
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MineTurtle5 said:
Those people who call themselves Christians, and yet live in sin, are called 'lukewarm'. And that's very dangerous.
God says in Revelation 3:16 that he will spit the lukewarm Christians out of his mouth.
Also, those lukewarm Christians who are doing just enough, get just enough of the Lord to get by, risk missing Him altogether.

If Ты haven't already talked to them about what they're doing is wrong, do that. If they still ignore you, pray for them, if Ты haven't started already
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