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Plz help- i have a bit of a dilemma here lolz ;-)

i know this is gonna sound a bit weird and you're probably wondering about why i'm posting a Вопрос like this on a site like this buti can't exactly tell this Вопрос to my mom.
it's very complicated, but here goes:
(sorry if i bore Ты to death)

i'm in год 10 and my class is a mixture of год 10s and 11s. me and my friend are the only two girls in the class. there are lots of boys. i haven't been at the school all that long and there's this boy i really really like. my friend has a boyfriend out of school, and there's another boy in my class who has a HUGE crush on her. but thats not my dilemma-

my dilemma is that when i was talking to her with some other Друзья i asked her whether she fancied anyone else in the school other than her out-of-school boyf. she сказал(-а) yea. i assumed she was gonna say it was this boy who has the crush on her but no--she doesn't like him-- she pointed across the playground at MY crush! she doesn't know 100% that i like him. i think she just thinks i might like him a bit. i haven't told him i like him yet, and neither has she. i don't really want to tell him - i mean-- imagine my shame if he сказал(-а) no!
and if that wasn't bad enough, whenever i talk to him she always comes over and starts talking to him and hugs him.
he doesn't have a girlfriend, but he wants one.

AND,, they are both in год 11, and he's leaving this summer for college. i have another год to do.
and if that wasn't bad enough, the worst blow is that HIM AND MY FRIEND ARE GOING TO THE SAME COLLEGE TOGETHER!!!
what the hell am i goin to do?? i know you're probly gonna say something like 'get over yourself' или 'you can always get a new boyf' but it isnt like that he's so amazing and he likes exactly the same things as me. i know for a fact that this time i wont get another one like him.
plz help.
sorry that this story was really weird, but i need help.
teenage life is hard.
thanx lolz ;-P


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i know it seems a bit mad but Ты can never properly understand how i feel unless it has actually happened to you. it's terrible. teenage life is hard. ;-(
Tiigra_Bagw3ll posted Больше года
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Hmmmmmm.....Yeh.
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SexyNo8 said:
Ты know what Ты need to do? (And this is for all Ты girls out there, and some boys too I guess). Ты probablywon't do it, but you've gotta just clear your head, not think about what Ты do, especially not care about what Ты do, and just say "Mate, I'm gonna get to it. I like you. A lot. I know it's outa nowhere, but, any chance of a date?" Say it nicely. Don't be shy to graze his arm and be cheeky. Plus KEEP EYE CONTACT! Even if it's embarrassing, Ты keep the eye contact. If he says No, Ты simply laugh and say I can't believe Ты considered that! Don't let him see Ты cry или look disappointed, cos Ты look like a loner and no one will go out with you. NO ONE. EVER.
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thanks :-)
Tiigra_Bagw3ll posted Больше года
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that really helped i think i'll try it!! ;-D
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I agree with Ты SexyNo8, but the end part was too harsh.
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NeverWalkAway said:
Well, if both of Ты have Facebook maybe Ты can tell him over that, sometimes it's easier to write that stuff.
And if it's still to hard to face him if he says no, wait until he goes to college and start by telling him you've missed him или something. In the main time, just try to make sure that he and your friend don't pair up. Discreetly, of course :)
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yep, i'm working on that end part already. but the other problem is how am i going to keep her away from him while they're at college together and i'm still at school? its not only that its the principle too - she has a boyfriend and some boys that like her, and she's diggin my guy!!
Tiigra_Bagw3ll posted Больше года
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Well, there isn't any proof that he likes her, right? By the way, your friend seems pretty unfair :/
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MrsPattinsonXO said:
A similar thing is happening to me. Ты have to know that will get over him. It sounds like Ты don't really know this guy all that well, so I'm guessing your crush on him is based mainly on appearance. Remember that boyfriends aren't everything. Ты could try talking to your friend about it. I'm sure she will understand and as she already has a boyfriend and will back off a bit.
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thanks for the advice. yes, i do know him very wel. he's fab, and it isn't based on apperance. quite the opposite. but i can see where you're coming from.
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ellie_bellie135 said:
A simalar thing happened to me. Except my friend was a total bitch.. but any way.

I really liked this guy and then after a while I told my friend and all of a sudden she started liking him! And she alway's got the guy's over me and she knew it! PLUS SHE IS SO MUCH PRETTIER!

Actually now I say it, It knda has nothing to do with the situation..but as long as were confessing....

I finally told this guy at the very end of the year. And it came as a real shock to him and he didn't really have time to adjust to the idea. It wasn't really embarassing или anything and he respected me еще for it. My only regret is that I left it so long. So my Совет is if your gonna tell him do it sooner rather tha later.
He's moving to finland soon. yeh..... No, we still mail and stuff and I like someone else now so.....yeh.

If Ты guy's are Друзья then there shouldn't be a problem. If Ты never talk to him- START!
TeeHee. Sorry.

Basicly what MissPattison said.

Soooo....yeh.

Seeya. xoxoxo ♥ Hehhehe. Ok seriously. BYE!
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padme768 said:
oh well, i can easily understand your dilemma...
Ты really like this boy, but Ты fear that if Ты sth, your friend might get mad at you...
what i would do?
a) talk to your friend and tell her how much Ты like him, that she already has a boyfriend and Ты would appriciate it if she stepped back, cause Ты dont easily find a boy that Ты like
b) go and flirt with that guy, and if
c) Ты get together, dont brag about him, especially not to your friend...
D)NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, TELL YOUR FRIEND HOW Ты FEEL AND DONT LET A BOY RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP...YOU DONT WANNA BE THE KINDA GIRL WHO DUMBS A FRIEND FOR A BOYFRIEND THAT WILL LAST AT MOST 2 MONTHS! :)
Hope i helped...
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