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Have Ты ever heard of something like this and/or seen it person...?

I feel like I might be the only person ever who does it. Whenever my parents, either one of them, are upset или angry, I immediately assume it's because of me. And that makes me feel so terrible I HURT myself, because I Любовь them so much and hate myself if I though I made people as great as them feel bad... I'll bang my head against the Стена and tell myself I'm worthless and a disgrace to the family name, things like that, until they find out, calm me down, tell them I'm not the reason for their upset-ness and convince me I'm not worthless... I'm basically like a house elf from Harry Potter when they know they've done wrong. Please don't say anything rude about this. I seriously want to know, have Ты ever witnessed или heard of anyone else doing that? Does this seem normal?
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Any suggestions on how I could stop it would be helpful too... I've tried just not doing it and fighting the urge, but I can't help it.....
someone_save_me posted Больше года
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justleeelee said:
I've seen Ты do that plenty of times, but otherwise, no, sorry... I can't believe Ты still do this, you've been doing it since Ты were 2... Ты need to try and talk with mom and dad again about this...
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Jeffersonian said:
I've never witnessed something like that but I would suggest first off try every morning looking in the mirror and saying something good about yourself. Also accept that parents will fight occasionally and that does not mean the child is the cause of it...parents just fight.
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posted Больше года 
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Um, my parents never fight and I never сказал(-а) anything about that..... I сказал(-а) when they're upset или mad, not necessarily at each other...
someone_save_me posted Больше года
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Sorry, I assumed since mine do fight a lot (over really stupid things...).
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ShiningsTar542 said:
I Любовь them so much, and I never ever wish any of them to get hurt или to be dead. I get astonished of the person that hates their parents. I just stand for them and defend them, especially when any of my Друзья offends them even jokingly. But your psychological state (sorry for saying that) I mean your frame of mind (if that can make up) is a little bit weird to me. I mean, I know it when they are upset because of me, или mad at me. As well as if they are upset of something else. But I don't hurt myself, I just blame myself.
And that's it, everything gets alright after then.

But don't be worried, maybe it's because Ты Любовь them so much as Ты said.
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posted Больше года 
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" I'm sure of what you've сказал(-а) there that your parents Любовь Ты too, and definitely more. :)" Now the last part of that sentence is bullshit. It is impossible for anyone to Любовь anyone else as much as I Любовь my parents. Especially "more"...
someone_save_me posted Больше года
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I was trying to help out...? ._____. Did I make it worse?
ShiningsTar542 posted Больше года
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Yeah...
someone_save_me posted Больше года
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..Now?
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bubblewrapblues said:
I've heard of people doing things like that, but not for the same reason as you.
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LeatherRain said:
No.... sorry...
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dontaskhowiknow said:
Nope, sorry. If I were Ты I'd just, eh I dunno, go see a therapist или talk to your parents about it, или just take really deep breaths and drink some water when Ты feel those impulses coming... yeah my Совет sucks I'm sorry....
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