A friend of yours has $100. He offers Ты $30 of it. If Ты accept the money, Ты get $30, and he gets $70. If Ты reject the money, no one gets anything. Would Ты take the money?
I really hate accepting high amounts of money from friends,I believe they are giving something I would not even deserve,since,well,it's their money.So I would decline.
Only if I ask for the money will I take it,but I always pay back,or I end up feeling bad. .-.