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Does true Любовь или true friendships ever exist anymore in this world?

Each день I get еще and еще negative about its existence, because I'm always getting betrayed so many times by people. I never know who to trust anymore. So I've got some big trust issues and people have gotten really upset for me not trusting them at times and sometimes some people never talk to me again. But how can they blame me for this? They just don't know what I've been through. They treat me rotten for it, but I can't help it if its hard to trust people anymore. This makes me so hopeless that I will never find true Любовь или any true friendships and I just wanna cry about it. I'm such a good person, but not a lot of people appreciate it.
 MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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Darkus-eliox said:
Oh come on girl I appreciate no matter if u trust me или no there is thing as true Любовь and true friendship but maybe u just haven't found the guy yet who is your type and loves u truly so come on keep your hopes up this is a test from god to see how strong u are come I found true Любовь so will u
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posted Больше года 
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I've been waiting for so long. So sometimes there's a lot of times when I struggle waiting. Then I start think well maybe these kind of things just aren't meant for me then.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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Girl I know how u feel just don't give up have strong faith in yourself
Darkus-eliox posted Больше года
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Thanks, I always keep praying too.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
simpleplan said:
Yes there is that it also wonderful. These things maybe hard to find just don't give up.
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Maybe I'm just not that lucky enough...Like one of the really unlucky ones.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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I think your very lucky to have Друзья who Любовь u
Darkus-eliox posted Больше года
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I also don't really have any true Друзья that understand me well или that I can trust.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
summer2987 said:
nope ,



well some times .

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All of the bad people get еще lucky then the good ones like me.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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sad but true , but no matter what Ты are gonna find someone who makes Бабочки in your stomach and who loves Ты . just wait
summer2987 posted Больше года
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Yeah, people act all goody goody at first and act like they Любовь Ты then get Ты to Любовь them, but they just end up turning on Ты right in the end.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
CMxJ2xKA_L0Ve said:
There is but people are assholes so they always fuck it up.
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Wait dude u don't know what your talking about come on we are trying to make her feel better at least say something nice
Darkus-eliox posted Больше года
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^ This user has right to speak some form of truth, most likely he/she also experience heartbreak. Such is life.
ForMotherRussia posted Больше года
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:'(
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
legend_of_roxas said:
I've never found my true Любовь yet, but I do believe that I have found true friendship. I have never been betrayed by my Друзья and I'd rather die than betray them. I'm sure that if Ты can work little by little on trusting people еще and more, Ты can find Друзья who are just as good and eventually find true love.
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How can I find true Любовь if I can't already find true friendship? True friendships always have to develop first.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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I'll be your friend and all these people who answer u they are your Друзья
Darkus-eliox posted Больше года
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I've tried to stay calm and trust people, but when I stay calm and don't stay cautious enough then they end up always turning their back on me.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
LaDispute said:
Yes to both.

You're just being melodramatic~

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Well in most cases it doesn't...Not for me at least at this very moment.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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Ok girl good night I'm gonna go now ok
Darkus-eliox posted Больше года
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But clearly they want Ты to trust them, ie they're probably trustworthy. And again, it's simple cause effect. Ты don't trust them (which yes is being a jerk if they're your friends) so they're jerks to you. Ты first. Just open up, jfc.
LaDispute posted Больше года
UsedUpandSad said:
I know how Ты feel, I'm surprised no one else has answered. I too have trust issues, and have been hurt in the past, I'm about done with men and I feel that I can trust my women friends, but I also feel that I'll never find true Любовь either. Some guys get Любовь confused with other things, they don't understand, nor can they think as their brain is elsewhere in their body and not their heads. Being hurt and used up has made me put up a Стена and it won't be coming back down again. I'm not sure if I answered your question, but I've pretty much дана up on believing that true Любовь really exists. It's just a fantasy.
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I barely trust men either. It's also easier to get raped by a man if you're a girl which I fear the most, since I'm so small. I've recently been getting into self harm, sadly.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
tigerlilly14 said:
Yes true friendships(true friends) do exist Ты just have to be careful who Ты tell your secrets to. Truelove it probably exists but be careful who Ты give your сердце out to what if it gets broken in the process.
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I've done both several times, always done my best to be careful too, but I always end up getting fooled and betrayed in the end, because I'm too nice and accepting.
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
TheLefteris24 said:
Ты just need to be yourself. There is no reason to blame yourself. You'll find people who will appreciate Ты for what Ты are eventually. I have gone through similar situations myself and I realized that no one has any matter in my life. If Ты can't easily trust people, there is a reason. They will have to prove their friendship или Любовь and not you. I don't think there is a good answer to that question. True Любовь and true friendships might exist but they will really be hard to find. I wish Ты the best !!!!
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posted Больше года 
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I almost can't believe Ты since this has been happening so many years now..
MewStrawberry posted Больше года
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The same has happened to me and for a REALLY long time. Ты don't have to give yourself to people right away. It's okay if Ты cannot trust people. Do not let anyone else tell Ты otherwise. No one has any right to blame Ты for that. Ты don't have to stick to other people right away to survive.Take your time alone to think things through and follow that which makes Ты feel better and satisfied !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted Больше года
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