"One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it."

Ты watched kung fu panda, didn't you? [lol JK]

I think it can be real, but Ты can always change something that hasn't happened yet. I don't think it's really ever written in stone. It's the past Ты can't change.

I don't believe in god so no

Yeah, I believe in it.
But, really, it depends on what Ты do with your life.
Stay in school/get good grades= Ты go to college.
Go to college= find a better paying career
Have a good career= better life for yourself and future family

Like that.

I am the master of my own fate.