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I'm probably gonna get called dumb for this but..

When a girl gets called a whore или a slut, why is she even offended? I mean why is that even considered a insult? Like it just means that Ты sleep with a lot of people или дата a lot of people and that probably sounds messed up because I don't find it that insulting but in my opinion I don't think the amount of people someone has dated или someone has slept with is something to insult. Like what is so offensive about that? I mean its just sex and dating, doing it with a lot of people might be kinda wrong but why is there even a insult for it? Like in my opinion if I ever got called a slut I don't think i'd be offended because..yeah, if it was true then its true, i have nothing to hide ya know? If I sleep или дата alot of guys I'm not gonna be ashamed of it it's my business LOL but what are Ты guys' opinions and why do think getting called a whore или a slut is offensive?
 abce1 posted Больше года
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_Aleena_ said:
When a girl is called a whore или slut, it doesn't entirely mean she has sex with everyone или dates everyone. It also means that she might sleep with any boy who has a boyfriend and not care, and that makes her look desperate (like Lexi said). Also, a guy may call a girl a slut because maybe she cheated on him или only used him for sex. A guy wants a girl that he is proud of to Показать off to everyone. But what is there to be proud of when that girl has been with every guy? It's like saying "Hey guys look, I got the very first iPhone!" then someone else will say "Dude, thats old, everyone had that. Why are Ты so proud? Get one thats worth being happy with and worth Показ off." So basically, the word whore или slut has a lot of different meanings. It could mean she sleeps with every guy. Dates every guy. Sleeps или dates any guy with a girlfriend. Only looks for sex within people. Cheats on her boyfriend. Steals her Друзья boyfriend или crush. Ты might not think it but being a slut IS something to be very ashamed of, whether Ты think so или not. So if Ты are a slut, a guy is gonna notice and not be interested in you. Because he's gonna think you're nothing special and you're just some girl who goes for every guy she sees.
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posted Больше года 
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I agree with this *votes best answer*
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LexiLove_ said:
i think getting called a slut is offensive because your sex and dating life is personal and the fact that Ты don't care who knows makes Ты look gross and desperate
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EgoMouse said:
If its not true, then it isn't offensive. Its just simply not true.
If its true, then its a fact. People view it as desperate and easy, so the person doesn't have much sex value. The person's sex activity should be his или her own private matter anyhow and is easy to spread rumors about a person's sex activity.
....But honestly, being offended has really no value either. Everybody gets offended at anything these days, nobody should care about it if it has absolutely no affect on the person whatsoever (besides that person's incompetence at controlling his или her reaction to simple words).
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I agree! :)
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Makeupdiva said:
I'm not really sure why it would offend someone. I guess it would if they actually do sleep around. I've been called a slut and I don't sleep around, at all. I've even called my sister a whore as a joke, but it had offended her. I guess I really have no answer as to why it would offend someone as much. Especially if it weren't true.
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RoisinKelly01 said:
We all have opinions, and if this is your opinion then I appreciate it. I like it when someone's not afraid to speak their mind :)
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