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I am curious.

I heard this scenario recently. Apparently a girl (who was in her early 20s) was proposed to by a guy. The thing about it is the guy and the girl both agreed to live in their parents place. The guy was planning on waiting until he was done paying off his student loans. Until then could he marry the girl. The student loans would have taken about 20 years to pay it off. So basically she was literally planning on waiting 20 years to marry this guy after the student loans were paid off in his parent's house. They both had a religious background (Both being the minister's child of some church). So they wanted to save themselves for marriage before being intimate. The girl then goes on an Совет Показать to then ask what could she do to make the guy commit faster. Mind Ты she was already in a relationship with the guy for 7 years hence.


TL;DR Basically she wanted Совет so she could marry a guy way before he was done paying off his loans.

My Вопрос is what would Ты have advise her?
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Kragfan1910 said:
I'd tell her to tell him to get his scrawny жопа, попка in gear. Student loans are no excuse to not marry someone.
I'd be worried he didn't want to marry at all, not if he's willing to wait 20 fucking years.
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8theGreat said:
I'd be pretty upset if my own fiance did something like that to me. I'd probably sit down and talk to him about it and tell him that I was upset and why, and find out what the real reason he wanted to wait so long to get married was (because I'd have doubts that it was actually about the student loans). And I'd tried to work something out.

But luckily my fiance and I don't have a problem like this.
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