In life, there will always be people that Ты don't like, that don't like you. But that's one of the challenges in life, being the bigger person, not letting someone else destroy your life.
For instance, there's two students in a class. The first one is attractive, popular. They're a horrible person, yet they have the school wound round their little finger.
The секунда student however, is the most beautiful person inside. They're intelligent, natural, yet they're unpopular, and don't have a lot of friends.
The teacher has a seating plan, and has put these two students Далее to eachother. The first one moans bitterly and constantly gives the секунда student dirty looks, mouthing about them to their Друзья on the other side of the classroom.
Imagine you're that секунда student, understanding every cruel signal that they're making. For many victims of bullying, the automatic reaction is to bend over the стол письменный, стол and blink back the tears, burning bright red in the face, wanting to sink through the floor. But, what if Ты have a choice. Ты know yourself that Ты don't want to sit Далее to this student any еще than they want to sit Далее to you. So why should Ты be the one cowering away, why should Ты give them that satisfaction, that power?
It doesn't necessarily mean that Ты have to start up an argument with them, Ты can be bigger than that. Instead, Ты can pity them. Ты can look them in the eye and raise your eyebrows like they're talking shit, because they are.
Ты can get on with the work set and ignore their childish behaviour, knowing that they'll suffer in the future.
No one's saying it's easy, but it's possible. It's possible for anyone to do, they just need a little self-belief to remember that they're precious, and the student sitting Далее to them is nothing but dirt at the bottom of the pile.
Many teenagers go through bullying, teasing, день after day. No one can understand how it feels until Ты go through it yourself. It hurts еще than anyone realizes. But it doesn't have to hurt. If this is you, then you're not alone. Whether you're a guy или a girl, whichever country Ты come from, I promise Ты Ты are not alone. The world isn't against you, and there will always be people thinking of you, even if they have no idea Ты exist. Some people will be thinking of every person in your situation, and either hoping или praying that Ты make through it. Because when Ты get out of school with your great exam results, you'll have all the opportunities in the world.
If your grades are going down because of a situation like this, don't let them. Pluck out a smile from nowhere and ignore those bastards that do their best to make your life a misery. They're not worth it.
But you're worth a dozen smiles. So make something of yourself, don't curl up in a ball and cry. Instead, when Ты Далее hear that insult from the bully Ты hate, don't listen to it. Instead, listen to your heart. Because your сердце will always be telling Ты 'Stay strong, keep going. Because someone loves you, someone cares'.
For instance, there's two students in a class. The first one is attractive, popular. They're a horrible person, yet they have the school wound round their little finger.
The секунда student however, is the most beautiful person inside. They're intelligent, natural, yet they're unpopular, and don't have a lot of friends.
The teacher has a seating plan, and has put these two students Далее to eachother. The first one moans bitterly and constantly gives the секунда student dirty looks, mouthing about them to their Друзья on the other side of the classroom.
Imagine you're that секунда student, understanding every cruel signal that they're making. For many victims of bullying, the automatic reaction is to bend over the стол письменный, стол and blink back the tears, burning bright red in the face, wanting to sink through the floor. But, what if Ты have a choice. Ты know yourself that Ты don't want to sit Далее to this student any еще than they want to sit Далее to you. So why should Ты be the one cowering away, why should Ты give them that satisfaction, that power?
It doesn't necessarily mean that Ты have to start up an argument with them, Ты can be bigger than that. Instead, Ты can pity them. Ты can look them in the eye and raise your eyebrows like they're talking shit, because they are.
Ты can get on with the work set and ignore their childish behaviour, knowing that they'll suffer in the future.
No one's saying it's easy, but it's possible. It's possible for anyone to do, they just need a little self-belief to remember that they're precious, and the student sitting Далее to them is nothing but dirt at the bottom of the pile.
Many teenagers go through bullying, teasing, день after day. No one can understand how it feels until Ты go through it yourself. It hurts еще than anyone realizes. But it doesn't have to hurt. If this is you, then you're not alone. Whether you're a guy или a girl, whichever country Ты come from, I promise Ты Ты are not alone. The world isn't against you, and there will always be people thinking of you, even if they have no idea Ты exist. Some people will be thinking of every person in your situation, and either hoping или praying that Ты make through it. Because when Ты get out of school with your great exam results, you'll have all the opportunities in the world.
If your grades are going down because of a situation like this, don't let them. Pluck out a smile from nowhere and ignore those bastards that do their best to make your life a misery. They're not worth it.
But you're worth a dozen smiles. So make something of yourself, don't curl up in a ball and cry. Instead, when Ты Далее hear that insult from the bully Ты hate, don't listen to it. Instead, listen to your heart. Because your сердце will always be telling Ты 'Stay strong, keep going. Because someone loves you, someone cares'.