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I've always wondered this: why so humans think it's right to seek revenge?

I mean I'm seeking revenge right now and I was wondering why we seek revenge. Someone told me it's because it's our human nature, but why?
 Karipoof posted Больше года
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justleeelee said:
We think we don't deserve what someone does to us, and think this ultimately means they need to suffer through the same things we did because we think that we did not do anything and they did something bad for no reason. This makes us mad, and in our madness we can't control our actions as much.
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Wow! It's so true.
Blackbirdy posted Больше года
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Yep it is. And if we hold everything inside our ideas for revenge tend to be somewhat gruesome and mean and horrible....
Karipoof posted Больше года
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Yeah....
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Trainofdoom said:
I do think it is natural to want compensation for something done against us. But to delude yourself into thinking it is right and pursuing it is dependent on your own personality. I'm not saying just to turn the other cheek или to resign yourself to a forced indifffernce its just.... sometimes Ты need to think things out clearly. Ask yourself; what is this going to accomplish me in the longrun. I know it may seem hard, или even impossible but forgivness is always an option-albiet a little less favored. I'm not familiar with what Ты are going through but we all feel a need for revenge to perserve, in some form или way, our sense of normalcy, our commonplace. If it is messed with it is hard to ignore especially if loved ones are involved. If your revenge involves violence I ask Ты to please reconsider. hurting peolple is no compensation for anything.
I hope Ты find a быстрый, стремительный, свифт and positive resolution to your conflicts.=]
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No.My revenge doesn't involve violence. That's not my definition of revenge. I don't want to hurt anyone physically или emotionally I guess.....I just want to make it even. But thanks for this. I might even screw the revenge and just do what I think I should which doesn't involve violence или anything like that....but thanks again :)
Karipoof posted Больше года
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nu probXD
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Aisuanime said:
In my opinion, it's just as humans are and how we feel with our actions *shrugs*
It's like seven sins; been with us humans forever and no one is perfect, and such emotions aren't very shocking seeing that everyone has felt some sort of urge to seek revenge and such.
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