Is the socially fair?

Just wait to make a Facebook. I can understand why a mother wouldn't want her 14 год old having one (I checked your profile). She might let up later on, but if she doesn't, once Ты turn 18, Ты can do whatever Ты please on the internet.

The no talking to boys rule is a bit extreme. If Ты go to a public school, I don't see how it's even possible to not talk to boys. Where I am, nobody really dated until one of the two were old enough to drive. Waiting another two years shouldn't be such a huge deal.
Ты can still talk to guys and get to know them at school. Do the mini-dating thing. Eat lunch together and such. Your mom really doesn't need to know who Ты eat lunch with.

I understand the Facebook thing, i mean if it were me i would become completely obsessed and that's why i don't have one...

i don't get the dating thing i mean Ты can't even be Друзья with a guy? Seriously...?

I understand both of them...Facebook is not a necessity and if Ты really want one, technically Ты can still get one without her permission. Although the not even being Друзья thing is extreme, I wasn't allowed to дата until I was sixteen and even now I'm sure daddy will be cleaning his gun when I bring a boy home, but as long as you're under her roof it's really her choice.