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I need help. On the brink of breaking down

Okay, so prepare for quite a story. Sorry for making Ты guys listen.

I'm a new student who has been in the school for almost a год and there's this really mean and bossy girl who everyone used to dislike. Suddenly, she changed and my besties started to like her. She copies every action they do. Ever since, my besties started to slap me and abuse me. I figured that i'm kinda a doormat [need help on this too]. So, i decided to organise a trip with my besties and didn't invite the mean girl. Huge mistake. Somehow, the mean girl found out and decided to organise the same trip and invite everyone except me. And now, there's another girl organising the same trip. I'm starting to get paranoid. Also, I have Музыка practice. There's another girl that everybody dislikes. She keeps blaming me when our teacher scolds us for messing up. She takes my phone and glasses and shakes me on the shoulder till at one point, I fell. It's really irritating. I need help :/ Sorry, for making Ты guys read the entire story. Just hoping someone out there could help.
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thx so much 4 yr help :)
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seffro said:
I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " или even friends
I have this one girl at my school who's done the same
I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a bitch
She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it.
Ты should get better Друзья или make them treat Ты as a person and just ignore this other girl
Ты can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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 I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " или even Друзья I have this one girl at my school who's done the same I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a сука She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it. Ты should get better Друзья или make them treat Ты as a person and just ignore this other girl Ты can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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yeah, don't settle for people who don't help Ты and are mean, besties are supposed to be there for Ты forever and always, but they are not so Ты need to think about whether Ты want to continue living like that или new besties. Ты will find new besties that are worth your time and friendship. dw, Ты will be ok :)
cherry_Dropzx posted Больше года
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well сказал(-а) :)
coriann posted Больше года
Mileym said:
First of all um sorry.. I didnt get your story it's a bit confusing.. Bt i'd like say tht if ur frnds или ur so called "besties" dnt treat Ты well and left u cuz they made a new frnd.. They'r nt wrth ua concern.. U shud try to make new deserving frnds and enjoy ua life!


Best of luck ;)
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:D yeah!
coriann posted Больше года
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*Shudders at the grammar* anyway. I agree.
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haremaster99 said:
First off: **IF THEY HURT YOU. GET AWAY FROM THEM ASAP** it's not WORTH getting physically hurt by people who dropped Ты like a hot potato for this bully! Ignore them. Stay away from them. They are NOT you're Друзья или "besties"

Second: have Ты talked to any people (besides just now on here) about this situation? I suggest Ты do if not ^^

Hope that helps ^^
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she's right these people don't act like besties from what i heard
coriann posted Больше года
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i had some Друзья like that :\
coriann posted Больше года
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^same here. But I made new Друзья and I'm really happy :3
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pureawesome15 said:
Find new friends. dont say anything to the other "friends" of yours. just find some new people to hang out with. ive done this before, and it worked like a charm

also, about that girl in Музыка class; just tell the teacher. Thats BULLYING! its not cool! i get bullied still, but its for my height and other Болталка things. just tell your teacher или principal. let them get in trouble.
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Lady_Rebel said:
What I personally would do is say "Fuck you" and go find some new friends, but I don't think that would work for you. Eithr that или перфоратор, удар, пунш them. Don't do that either.

Don't try to exclude just the first bitchy girl, but all the bitchy girls. Make new Друзья and have sleepovers, go on trips, hang out together at school. Be extremely polite to your ex-best friend and her new role model. None of them are worth your time или pain.
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yeah maybe Ты can make new friends, that way they might realize what jerks they were when they lose Ты :P
coriann posted Больше года
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или not Ты never know XD
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101trx said:
tell them off, fool! (sorry, i call everyone fool) and find some new friends. или tell someone about this...this ain't right. =(
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XD telling them off might not be such a bad idea...lol jk
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coriann said:
i know this is hard to hear but you're Друзья are Актёрское искусство like jerks, the way Ты сказал(-а) it it seems like if they are all sort of bullying you, im sorry but it just seems like bullying to me, i don't think anyone deserves to be bullied, im not the best at giving friendship advice, im a lonely girl with no real Друзья outside of fanpop, it's hard to leave your friend, i mean everyone needs someone to hang out with and have fun, just keep in mind that they are not Актёрское искусство like real friend right now because they are letting Ты get bullied, i don't know why they are behaving this way или if Ты can do to stop them, but for yourself Ты have to know that it's gonna be okay and you're just going through a bad time, clear Ты head and figure out a good solution on your own because i think that other people can give Ты Совет but only Ты can decide what's best :) so good luck with that and i hope Ты make it out alive XD
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wait, maybe your Друзья aren't bullying you, just those two girls but your Друзья are just letting it happen, Эй, i have a suggestion...maybe Ты can tell them how Ты feel away from the two girls okay? :) and if that doesn't work then your Друзья are really Актёрское искусство like jerks but that's life :P
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