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If I walked away from somebody who made me feel like absolute shit, am I the one to blame?

..Just wondering. Because I didn't explain anything to them, never told them how I feel, and gradually stopped hanging out with them (this September, actually; after a год and a half of being with them). And now they make me feel so bad/guilty by asking me stuff like "Do Ты hate us?", "Why don't Ты want to hang out with us anymore?", "Why are Ты so cold?" etc. etc.

...I'm just really confused. :/
 Templarette posted Больше года
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Ты should have explained how Ты felt, to give them some closure.

But other than that, not really
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posted Больше года 
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I see your point, but..What if they'll react, um..Not calmly?
Templarette posted Больше года
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If their response is negative just walk away.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted Больше года
brandonaz said:
Nothing's your fault; Ты should always walk away from people who make Ты feel like shit because they're bad for Ты and Ты should surround yourself with positive people. I think Ты should be straight with them now though and tell them why Ты stopped hanging out with them, for closure.

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posted Больше года 
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Thank Ты for answering. :) I think I might actually do that soon.
Templarette posted Больше года
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Great answer.
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HeitsiTsegin said:
Ты have no obligation to be nice to someone who does nothing but hurt you.
Now, if that person does do nice things for Ты once in a while, he/she may be trying to be nice but is having a hard time with it. Ты should do what Ты think is best, but try to think about it before Ты do it.
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Solas said:
If your relationship with someone is destructive then Ты have every right to walk away. But I think Ты do owe them an explanation. Just so that Ты put it all behind Ты and Переместить on. Even if they respond badly to what Ты say, Ты shouldn't feel bad about it because Ты have done your best to resolve the situation.
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goldenstar12 said:
Ты should tell them the truth.... maybe they feel like its a slap in the face to them. They are wondering. Dont worry Ты are not the one at fault... it would though be a good idea to tell them why Ты have changed sides.?? One thing for sure Ты do not need to feel guilty because that will just eat you. its human nature to change so its fine.
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madisonkbruce said:
hell to the fucking no
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JenniferxD said:
No way! Why should Ты stay around people who make Ты feel like shit? That's only a stress booster not to mention it would be super annoying to have to face someone who always shuts Ты down. But if they ask Ты that again, explain why. Hopefully, they understand. And they might stop doing whatever it is that's making Ты feel like shit. Sometimes, Ты have to point out a flaw.
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