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I need help. I sorta have a crush on mt 16 год old cousin i know its wrong but what shoul i Do? HELP!!!!!!!!!

 Shields10 posted Больше года
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chagrin91 said:
sweat сердце i read other peoples Ответы and i dont think its bad или weird или anythn like that because frm where we usually get married to our couzin just tell him how Ты feel Ты never know he might like Ты back but coz of wat ppl think he is not telling Ты dnt be shy and tell him
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posted Больше года 
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agreed.
dylin1 posted Больше года
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I agree to!
crazychocolate posted Больше года
Mongoose09 said:
There are so many judgemental people on this website. I'm not mentioning any names, but I think they know who they are. I mean, Ты can't help who Ты like. Yeah, it is wrong in my opinion but Ты can't exactly help it.. Ты didnt exactly CHOOSE to like your cousin (I doubt anyway otherwise Ты wouldnt be asking for help) - If I was you, I'd just try to think about something else and hope that it'll go away soon. Crushes dont last forever.

Here's a picture of the best pig in the world to take ur mind off it.. for 5 секунды haha
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 There are so many judgemental people on this website. I'm not mentioning any names, but I think they know who they are. I mean, Ты can't help who Ты like. Yeah, it is wrong in my opinion but Ты can't exactly help it.. Ты didnt exactly CHOOSE to like your cousin (I doubt anyway otherwise Ты wouldnt be asking for help) - If I was you, I'd just try to think about something else and hope that it'll go away soon. Crushes dont last forever. Here's a picture of the best pig in the world to take ur mind off it.. for 5 секунды haha
posted Больше года 
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паук pig паук pig does what ever a паук pig does ???? LOL
topazEYEs91 posted Больше года
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ha ha ha LOL
Shields10 posted Больше года
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haha that is so true actually
Mongoose09 posted Больше года
ScottishChic said:
Well for one thing, Ты were right, it is wrong.

I think Ты should find a way to get over him/her. I know it's harder than it sounds but what do Ты usually do when Ты are trying to get over an ex??

Cause nothing can ever happen between Ты two since Ты ARE family and I think it's incest или something... maybe Ты should picture him as something Ты hate everytime Ты see him???

Sorry I couldn't be еще help Shields10 x
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posted Больше года 
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picture him as a giant turd , hang on Ты might like that ... do Ты like turd?
orangeturnip posted Больше года
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errrr no I'm good :P
ScottishChic posted Больше года
amazingXmooses said:
STOP HAVING A CRUSH ON HIM !!!!!!

it's okay to admire him but not to like him like that!
it's great to be close Друзья with your cousin and admire his qualities and think he's a great person and all but to like him....... :S

could Ты imagine MARRYING your cousin? или even just Поцелуи him?
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because Ты may think Ты like him when actually Ты just like him as very close friend. however, if you're having urges to make-out with him.. well, then that's a problem Ты need to solve. there are other guys that Ты can find that you're NOT related to.

jeez, and they call Alabamians incestual people.. >:\
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posted Больше года 
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it is too incest if it's your cousin. sick-o :S
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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i forgot nan and grandad
orangeturnip posted Больше года
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look guys, I am totally sure Shields10 didn't want a huge Дебаты over this he/she wanted help to get over it... have your opinions but do it in a еще appropriate place where Shields10 wont have the chance to read it and get hurt by everyone accusing of others being a pedo или whatever because obvi, that will reflect on him/her
ScottishChic posted Больше года
Jacoblackswife said:
is he your first cousin??
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posted Больше года 
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i think they have to be your third или fourth cousin.. but it varies on the states.
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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but it's still weird to like even your fifth cousin :S
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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go for it i guess LOL
Jacoblackswife posted Больше года
orangeturnip said:
i am not sure of any other country but in england it is actuly legal to marry a cousin 1st или other wise ... some peeps think it is strange but i dont.
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posted Больше года 
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you're a creeper :S you're gross. SICK, SICK person
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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LOL
orangeturnip posted Больше года
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I know Ты didnt, I was saying that too and you're welcome!!! xx
ScottishChic posted Больше года
3125 said:
ahh Ты wierdo
just kiddin.
but yea get over ur cousin thats not right of u to like him/her
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posted Больше года 
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i used to think my sis was hot until she got older LOL
3125 posted Больше года
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u cant choose who Ты fancy , only wheather или not to act upon those feelings!!!
orangeturnip posted Больше года
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haha did Ты really?
Jacoblackswife posted Больше года
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I think most of my brothers are hot!
dylin1 posted Больше года
dustfinger said:
Weird..
Эй, its wrong but Эй, you're a teen right? Ты can't help some things. Just don't do anything and try not reveal it to anybody. That will be even worse for you.

Its not going to help if all of Ты say,"Stop having a crush on him!" Its not that easy. It will go away eventually. It takes TIME like it probably took time for her to realize it and develop the crush.
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posted Больше года 
EYBanuelos said:
I think Ты should stop having a crush on him.A cousin is part of your family and it would be like having a crush on your brother. Just think about it for a while, Ты can as well talk with someone Ты trust and that Ты think is going to help you!

I hope this helps!
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posted Больше года 
shomill said:
Two questions: How distantly is he related, and do Ты live in a state where cousins in Любовь are considered incest?
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posted Больше года 
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Well, some states say that incest is only brothers and sisters, and they don't include cousins. I know, cuz a relative of mine married her cousin. I have a little trouble with first cousins having a crush on each other, but if you're so distantly related that Ты say it's "by rumor," then who cares, anyway?
shomill posted Больше года
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if Ты have sexual relations with any of your family members then its incest. but incest may not be illegal in all states, although im pretty sure it is.
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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1st cousins aren't distantly related. are Ты in ohio ?
amazingXmooses posted Больше года
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No, Kansas. And that's what I said- first cousins, I have trouble with, cuz they're a little too close. Otherwise, from секунда cousins on up, I see nothing wrong with it.
shomill posted Больше года
dylin1 said:
OMG i know EXACTLY what ur going through! My секунда cousin had the HUGEST crush on me a couple summers ago... and we kissed. He's 2 years younger than me though. Haha. Well... are the two of u comfortable talking to eachother? R u kinda like bff's? If u r, then just talk to him. Tell him how u feel!
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posted Больше года 
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Yes we r really close
Shields10 posted Больше года
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Well, that's good. I know this is probaby the LAST thing Ты want to do, but just te him how Ты feel! Of course... understate it a bit.
dylin1 posted Больше года
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i think Ты shoul tell him how Ты feel dont be shy i know he will like Ты too when Ты say your close so.... take a shot tell him
chagrin91 posted Больше года
hanenburglauren said:
i think u should go up to him and say u lik him and then go and then say that it was wrong to lik u and u can still lik him and he will never know and wait a mouth after u tell him that u thought it was wrong so i really care bout u
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XDRoseLuvsHP said:
Just let it pass. Don't worry, you're not evil или anything for this. Just let it pass, and you'll be back to normal once again :)
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Zina17 said:
Try to think of him as not your cousin или a potential BF, but think of him as an older brother. Hope this helps :) Dont pay attention to what all the rude stuff other people might say. :)
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posted Больше года 
xxXsk8trXxx said:
I don't think it's wrong. Ты like who Ты like, eh? I think that an incest is okay, but it just can't go too far. Ты should tell him that Ты like him. If he doesen't think it's okay, get over it. If he thinks the same, than maybe Ты can hook up. Ask your parents. They'll know what to do. But if they're extremley strict или don't think incest is right, than ask a phsycologist или something of the sort.
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posted Больше года 
E-rock said:
People like their cousins all the time.
I never would tho. I hate my family :D and i wouldnt anyway haha.

I dated someone that liked their cousin..
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