HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know Ты probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing Ты can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true Друзья and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like Ты for who Ты are and insults Ты and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would Ты want или need a friend like that?

True Друзья would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real Друзья give Ты a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give Ты any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but Ты can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but Ты can get so many better Друзья that treat Ты well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause Ты heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one день we were talking about what our favourite things were and I сказал(-а) I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason сказал(-а) that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better Друзья then them. Pretend that Ты don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing Ты about something that Ты don't care about. Good luck and i know Ты will find better Друзья if Ты just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose или because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells Ты off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help Ты talk to your friend. If Ты can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to Ты than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as Ты thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that Ты can't Показать a little of that self-defense in you. Ты can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is еще weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. Ты need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: Далее time she calls, make her listen to what Ты think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS Ты sound like a great friend:)