Ive got Любовь issues.. well сердце break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a месяц ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a месяц with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. или that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i Любовь him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted Больше года
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my Совет would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a Друзья maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park или i dunno what ever makes Ты happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take Ты mind off things and lots of giggles when Ты fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and Друзья are for life ideology is a great start
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posted Больше года 
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted Больше года
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted Больше года
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet Ты are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think Ты should give him up. and Ты dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, Ты have a life to Переместить on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt Ты by the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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posted Больше года 
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted Больше года
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If it wasn't any good when Ты were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted Больше года
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mm yeah..
_Blackhearts_xx posted Больше года
JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if Ты really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your сердце and Ты can still дата other guys plus if Ты get to know him while your Друзья with him well maybe eventually maybe Ты could start dating again but at least Ты will have something to stand on while/if Ты дата again Ты know еще about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your сердце and think about your possible Ответы listen to your Избранное Музыка while Ты think it will help Ты even еще {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke Ты сердце twice ouch}
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posted Больше года 
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
_Blackhearts_xx posted Больше года
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