Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get Комментарии like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad или harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things Ты can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because Ты might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. Ты should be careful with gay jokes, или don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than Ты do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get Комментарии like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad или harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things Ты can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because Ты might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. Ты should be careful with gay jokes, или don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than Ты do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He сказал(-а) to one of his Друзья if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I сказал(-а) I will make Ты 99 еще problems. After that he still hasn't дана up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He сказал(-а) to one of his Друзья if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I сказал(-а) I will make Ты 99 еще problems. After that he still hasn't дана up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some Видео I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.
He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy день after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my таблица group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy день after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my таблица group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let Ты know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it Ты just need Совет или want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but Ты can't let that get Ты down. So before yo udo something studip или something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If Ты want to talk send me a message I'll help Ты out.
yours truly SurferChic. :D
ps thanx so much if Ты responed pss thanx
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