^^ and ^^^ Do you really have to use those awful terms? Is Naveen's supposed sex life that much of your business for you to theoretically shame him for it? Come on now.
Well, it's a good thing that he's a fictional character, because I'd hate to see how you treat people with his moral character in real life. Quit slut-shaming him. Even if he was real, it'd be none of your business.
He's a freaking animated character! There's a difference between fictional and real. If the person was real than I wouldn't give a crap if they had sex with as many people as they wanted (unless they were having sex with someone who is married, engaged, or is dating someone else) because it's none of my business. What a real person does with their personal and sexual life is their business. But Naveen is not a real person, so I can say whatever the hell I want about him. Besides, a slut is someone who wants to have sex with as many people as they want and has absolutely no shame at all, people usually mistake a slut with a girl who dresses in sexy attire. Naveen seems to fit this category because he comes to New Orleans to marry Lottie so he can be rich but he's constantly flirting with random women he meets on the street, Tiana included. When Tiana reminds him that he's getting married he's all like "Oh, yeah." Yeah, he's a really moral character. NOT! What are you, a Sunday school teacher?
It's still not cool to slut-shame, okay? I never said that Naveen was a "moral" guy, but either way, you should be ashamed of yourself for being in the habit of judging people based on their sex lives. Clearly, it's deeply ingrained into you, because otherwise you wouldn't be applying your toxic thinking to the lives of animated characters.
And besides, flirting doesn't make anyone a slut, you moron.
Doesn't matter what you say, using the word "slut" still reinforces normalizing the word. Also saying "man-slut" reinforces that sluts are women by default. Please don't use that word, it's offensive and unnecessary. Whether or not you like Naveen is irrelevant.
Also, if someone wants to have sex with as many people as possible with no shame at all, that's their prerogative. What does it bother you? Why do you care if he has sex with lots of people? I love sex. Sex is enjoyable, fun, and pleasurable. If I were having sex with a lot of people, would you say I'm a slut, Kataralover? Also, I flirt a LOT. Guess I'm a slut by your logic.
This is the same thing as using the word "bitch"-- it's a word that should be completely eliminated from everyone's vocabulary.
@princesslullaby Since when did you suddenly become so moral about what words people should or shouldn't say? I remember how you used to say the word b*tch quite a lot and other curse words. Secondly, your sex life is none of my business. Since we're talking about words that shouldn't be said that please don't use curse words anymore lullaby. I don't count hell, ass, or crap as curse words, but words like sh*t, f*ck, and so forth are. Also, please don't use God's name in vain because as a Christian I find that offensive. I've given up using the word b*tch (a word I never even use to begin with) and I will give up the word slut (except for maybe talking about Elizabeth Taylor... okay, I'll try to give up on that one too), but only if you give up the things I find offensive as well. Think you can agree to that, princess?
@audreybrooke So now you're resorting to name calling? Very immature! *waits for long winded comment about how I'm immature and being a hypocrite*
^^ Thanks, princesslullaby. Some people just don't get it.
^ Hey, I call 'em as I see 'em. You're behaving like a moron, so I'm going to call you a moron. *waits for idiotic description of how I'm moron-shaming you*
^ Well, I was bullied and called stupid because I have a learning disability and had to take special ED. So looks like you are moron-shaming. But it's a good thing that I berried those painful emotions and memories a few years ago, so ignorant comments like that don't bother me anymore. I could go in to detail on how I once felt suicidal when I was 13 because I was called stupid, but it's not as if you would care. I better stop before I actually go into detail about anything because frankly, my boring as hell sob story is too good even to waste on you. I know that I'm not a moron and no matter what you or anyone else says, I don't care and I know that I'm not an idiot.
Well, congratulations on making it through all of that! I'm being genuine.
That being said, you still shouldn't slut-shame people OR characters. Just reread princesslullaby's comment. Take it to heart. You've been hurt before by people calling you names, so why would you continue the cycle?
There is no way that that kid is... inexperienced in the ways of physical pleasure. :)
I must say though, the argument happening above me is quite entertaining and infuriating at the same time. I'll have to say that I agree with AudreyBrooke and Princesslullaby on this one. The other guy is just being a bit pig-headed to me. Oh well, not everyone can structure a proper argument.
@audreybrooke There's the pot calling the kettle black. I did a slut-shaming and yet you retaliated with calling me stupid and didn't think that maybe I might take it to heart and think that I might have experienced cruel bulling. Granted, your shaming is not something people think about as much, but still I could have taken it seriously. Two years ago I would be feeling worthless and stupid. Also, calling someone a moron is not an effective way to get your argument across. I'm already taking what princesslullaby's comment to heart but you should consider being careful about what you say as well.
"Moron." "Pig-headed." "Slut." *Sigh* the comments on this poll just went from being fun and enjoyable for me to disgusting me, no offense centered at anyone here.
A character such as Naveen deserves to be slut-shamed. Just like real people such as Kim Kardashian or any other boobalicious whore queen that gets by with their looks and/or sex appeal and willingness to take their clothes off or have sexual intercourse.
@hatelarxene: Wow...I can't even. That comment annoyed me on so many levels. Do you really need to refer to them as a "boobalicious whore queen"? That is incredibly immature. Slut-shaming bothers me on a tremendous level. Just because I don't like Kim Kardashian doesn't mean I'm going to call her something like a whore queen. I think she's untalented, but that doesn't give me any right to slut-shame her. I don't know her, and neither do you. Comments like yours are ones that end up really hurting people emotionally. Just...ugh.
Aaaagh, it's sad where has this poll turned to. And here i expected to get a few giggles out of you folks with these awkward "is x disney prince a virgin?" questions and spongebob images.
but honestly the comment here that annoyed me the most was hatelarxene's. It's just so close-minded. I would definitely understand Naveen getting criticism IF he was in a relationship/married and was sleeping with others but as is this case (at the beginning of the movie) he's not and he's just enjoying himself. No one deserves to be "slut-shamed", Naveen is immature but that's it. Belle likes books, Naveen likes sex. lol
@hatelarxene I just need to say this, just because someone has sex before marriage and/or enjoys sex does not make them a "slut" and treating them as such is degrading and ignorant. Someone who "sells" their body, like Kim Kardashian, is not a slut either, they are just a person looking for publicity. You have no right to judge them.
That's just my two cents.
I adore Kim Kardashian, actually.
Also, no, audreybrooke should not be calling you a moron, and I'll try not to use God's name in vain. I'm not religious at all.
However, using curse words is not oppressive or shaming. I will continue to use those. Thank you for taking my comments to heart.
Also, since "bitch" is an offensive word used against women, it's within a women's right to reclaim that word and use it, not a man. I still don't like using it against other women too and I don't like others use it, regardless of gender, because it usually comes from an oppressive place.
I'm taking this opportunity to apologize for calling you a moron. I was in a very bad mood yesterday, and I slightly took it out on you. It's really sad that you've been bullied for having a learning disability, and I sincerely apologize if my posts brought back bad memories for you. I let things get out of hand, so... sorry.
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And besides, flirting doesn't make anyone a slut, you moron.
Also, if someone wants to have sex with as many people as possible with no shame at all, that's their prerogative. What does it bother you? Why do you care if he has sex with lots of people? I love sex. Sex is enjoyable, fun, and pleasurable. If I were having sex with a lot of people, would you say I'm a slut, Kataralover? Also, I flirt a LOT. Guess I'm a slut by your logic.
This is the same thing as using the word "bitch"-- it's a word that should be completely eliminated from everyone's vocabulary.
@audreybrooke So now you're resorting to name calling? Very immature! *waits for long winded comment about how I'm immature and being a hypocrite*
^ Hey, I call 'em as I see 'em. You're behaving like a moron, so I'm going to call you a moron. *waits for idiotic description of how I'm moron-shaming you*
That being said, you still shouldn't slut-shame people OR characters. Just reread princesslullaby's comment. Take it to heart. You've been hurt before by people calling you names, so why would you continue the cycle?
I must say though, the argument happening above me is quite entertaining and infuriating at the same time. I'll have to say that I agree with AudreyBrooke and Princesslullaby on this one. The other guy is just being a bit pig-headed to me. Oh well, not everyone can structure a proper argument.
but honestly the comment here that annoyed me the most was hatelarxene's. It's just so close-minded. I would definitely understand Naveen getting criticism IF he was in a relationship/married and was sleeping with others but as is this case (at the beginning of the movie) he's not and he's just enjoying himself. No one deserves to be "slut-shamed", Naveen is immature but that's it. Belle likes books, Naveen likes sex. lol
That's just my two cents.
Also, no, audreybrooke should not be calling you a moron, and I'll try not to use God's name in vain. I'm not religious at all.
However, using curse words is not oppressive or shaming. I will continue to use those. Thank you for taking my comments to heart.
Also, since "bitch" is an offensive word used against women, it's within a women's right to reclaim that word and use it, not a man. I still don't like using it against other women too and I don't like others use it, regardless of gender, because it usually comes from an oppressive place.
I'm taking this opportunity to apologize for calling you a moron. I was in a very bad mood yesterday, and I slightly took it out on you. It's really sad that you've been bullied for having a learning disability, and I sincerely apologize if my posts brought back bad memories for you. I let things get out of hand, so... sorry.
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