I personally prefer Arya and Gendry's scene. It helps that I already ship them. But I seem to be one of the few to actually enjoy the scene overall. Very Arya to be straight forward about what she wants and to be dominate, and despite being to the point, it was pretty passionate too.
On other hand, I think Jonerys is generally overrated, and the scene just felt forced and lacking in passion to me. Plus the voice over REALLY didn't help.

I agree that Jonerys felt forced but most importantly that's his auntie 😬

Jon and Dany's "romantic" scenes (all of them) have been both off-putting and cringe-worthy.