2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your дата Главная and they don’t let Ты get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight Kiss isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips или a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that Ты can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a Переместить if Ты feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight Kiss scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies Показать that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to Переместить in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your дата steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first Kiss with your date. This means no tongue или special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his или her world! Ты can place your hand on the small of their neck if Ты wish.
If your дата is enthusiastic, Ты may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, еще involved kiss. However, only do this if Ты feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of Поцелуи too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting еще than to make them regret Поцелуи Ты in the first place.
If Ты get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, или if Ты feel your дата getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your дата is waiting for a while to go inside, Kiss her. She wants Ты to.
-If Ты feel your дата trying to Переместить away или say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" или your дата has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your дата probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight Kiss on someone.
-Add Комментарии such as "Tonight was amazing" или "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and Показать her that Ты mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching Ты go.
-If Ты want to be extra cute Ты could even Kiss her hand или forehead, but be wary of the forehead Kiss as some girls find it patronizing или granddad-like.
Warning
-If your дата is facing the other way, do not grab his или her head and turn it to face Ты for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) Kiss in front of friends, whether they’re yours или your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around Поцелуи anyone, anytime! Ты may be charged with sexual assault if Ты Переместить too aggressively.
