women be treating themselves to special groceries and cheeses when they can financially

remember, every time you are so unapologetically yourself you are showing someone else they can have the courage to do the same.

why do people get so much hate for having self confidence? a lot of people's main goals are to love and accept themselves and everyone supports them but once they do they get hate and get called "conceited" and "stuck up" like no honey you just jealous stfu

constantly in a state of “I’m writing this for myself” with a dash of “damn validation would be nice”

you’re allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you’ve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn’t normally, get that confidence going. we don’t have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won’t like the us we want to be.

stop writing black women (especially dark skinned women) as the impossibly wise beyond her years mentor bestie or the “uwu so pure & wholesome & entirely self-sacrificing” mom friend that takes care of everyone while getting overlooked. let black women be the flawed, reckless hero that’s in over her head, the sexy cold-blooded and badass femme fatale, the soft and naive damsel that just wants to be loved. let us be anything but the perfect magical negro pet sidekick. this has been a psa

YEEEAH
+ the cheese one to go with the knives, emails, the term paper & black women can do/be everything
Love all the confidence ones too

mood

+ unapologetically yourself and showing someone else they can have the courage to do the same.

I have 2000+ unopened mails... that says enough :p