Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay или bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors или feelings they have make them gay или bi.
But really, asking other people to tell Ты whether или not Ты are gay или straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what Ты do every day. It's up to Ты to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves Ты feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered by you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who Ты are. Don't let anyone convince Ты that Ты should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on Ты and tell Ты who Ты are! Only Ты know how Ты feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, или anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay или straight. Many struggle with it for years или even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled или are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, by no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this Статья has helped Ты discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who Ты are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, или anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell Ты whether или not Ты are gay или straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what Ты do every day. It's up to Ты to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves Ты feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered by you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who Ты are. Don't let anyone convince Ты that Ты should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on Ты and tell Ты who Ты are! Only Ты know how Ты feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, или anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay или straight. Many struggle with it for years или even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled или are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, by no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this Статья has helped Ты discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who Ты are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, или anything else!