Can someone please tell me how to deal with supposed Друзья who say stuff about Michael Jackson to Ты when they should know by now that he is your life, and Ты have nowhere else to hang? (BTW I'm not an aggressive person)
Thanks so much for all the help Ты guys. I realise now who my true Друзья are. That is Ты guys. I decided to leave the people saying stuff about MJ after talking to them about it in vain and have found a great group of Друзья who Любовь me for me. Rhanks again
If they are meant to be Друзья of yours then they wouldn't be doing this. I suggest Ты start off by ignoring them. If they say bad things to your face just roll your eyes and walk away или something like that. A lot of haters will stop if they see it doesn't bother you. However if your "friends" don't stop then stand up for yourself. Ты don't have to be aggressive about it. Just say that if Ты are really my friend then Ты wouldn't be Актёрское искусство like this. или just feel free to tell your parents или an adult Ты know. Some people feep childish doing so but its worth a try. I hope this helps. :-)
posted Больше года
Thank Ты for your advice, I really appreciate it and I'll try not to take things they say to сердце cause I tend to do that
I have the same problem as Ты do.None of my Друзья is an MJ Фан and worse:sometimes they make jokes about his nose или his dance moves and that bothers me a lot!And I feel so lonely when I hear those things because there's no one to help me to stop it!But,usually when I say :"Stop!"they stop because they're my Друзья and they don't wanna hurt me!I have to admit that there are many people who hate Michael или simply don't like him but that doesn't means that they can't be my friends,if they want!Because,everybody has the right to have an opinion!So,if Ты consider that they are your friends,tell them to stop and if they do,then forgive them and keep them close!You must leave behind the past mistakes if someone says he's sorry...That's one of the things that Michael taught me!
posted Больше года
Yea they do say stuff like that to me and I tell them to stop but they just stop for a few days and do it again. thank Ты for your help.
Tell them if they are your friends, they would respect that Ты admire Michael. When they say whatever they say about him, just ignore it. That's what I do when someone disrespects someone I like. But if it doesn't work for you, just stand up for Michael. Tell them that Michael means a lot to you, and if they don't respect that, say Ты need actual Друзья who will understand.
posted Больше года
Thanks, I appreciate your help, and I do stand up for him but I just end up crying. I'm very sensitive when it comed to Michael
if they are really your friends,they'd stop saying that knowing how Ты feel about him.so just ignore them,defend him a great deal always driving your points Главная even with archival evidence if possible.to them,ignorance is bliss but Ты know whats true.so just keep the faith,dont let nobody turn Ты round..
posted Больше года
ha OK. I Любовь how Ты incorporated those songs into your response. MJ forever and a день
Just ignore them . & don't be angry at them или something , after all they are still your Друзья even though Ты guys have diffirente opinions about MJ . It's not important what other people say или think , it's Ты we're talking about . and it's your life so Ты can Любовь anyone Ты want to .
None of my firnds like Michael. Whenever they rag on me, I just say "Do Ты have ANY taste in Музыка at all?!" Itys true, this is for all the Queens Of Pop =)
posted Больше года
they do like his music, just not him. But thanks that made me smile
Grow some ballz and get over it i like mj but i dont know him personally to get mad at a friend who hates him unless mj is related to Ты get over it. do Ты really want to lose ur Друзья over this stupid opinion?
posted Больше года
I see your point, but they should still respect who she likes.
i think it depends on how bad it it, like my best Друзья do it to tease me cuz they know it bugs me, but if they are doing it to piss u off they shouldn't be your friends, and if Ты ask them to quit nicely and they don't they arnt your true friends.
posted Больше года
thank Ты so much. I really do feel that the people on Fanpop are my only Друзья sometimes. I Любовь the picture BTW
i just ignore them. I dont know how many people i know that hate michael. I'll get mad at first but i eventually get over it. If Ты have to if they keep doing it bring up the point and say "Do Ты see me judging who Ты like?" and if they say something smart just dont talk to them anymore. I understand everyone has an opinion, but still your Друзья should Показать some respect, i dont care who Ты are Ты should never make fun of someone espeacially when they are dead. If they dont listen dont talk to them until they apologize. I hope this helps.... :)